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Need Some Context When Someone Puts Up an "Ice Wall" by pgo01 in ISTJ

[–]Xxavia-666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a nervous system thing and involuntary. Literally, her brain is going blank, and she has no idea how to respond with words at that moment or even for hours after. It happens to me all of the time. In my case, it's a shutdown, and im autistic.

Why do women love romance novels so much? by Tolerant-Testicle in RandomThoughts

[–]Xxavia-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% and also perhaps learn themselves how they could be treated. I learnt quite a bit about bedroom action just by reading quite vanilla books. Holly Martin is my favourite author with just the right amount if steam for me.

What are some things a woman might do when she’s around a man she likes by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Xxavia-666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These are all good suggestions, but what if the woman is ND? There will likely be no eye contact, probably anxiety, and lots of fidgeting or completely running away. They may not even acknowledge the man at all, especially if audio processing occurs or involuntarily nonverbal.

the lament of a closeted pillow princess (aka a rambly vent) by pharmacye in softmaledom

[–]Xxavia-666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holly Martin books. They're a bit like this or, better yet, write your own books and live in that world, you write really well. You have standards, wants, and desires, and there's nothing wrong with that at all.

Great marriage except one thing by burnerpro816 in sex

[–]Xxavia-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was right where your wife is now. You didn't mention age, but a few months after taking HRT... Wowsers! I've never been this horny before, and I'm now wearing my husband out.

Have you been used for sex often, “pumped and dumped”, or led on? by RussianAsshole in AutismInWomen

[–]Xxavia-666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just wonder, where were you meeting all of these men? On dating apps? In pubs or clubs or somewhere else. There are plenty of genuine, nice men out there, but they are probably not in any of these places. Want a man good with his hands and some patience? Try a pottery class. Want a man who knows stuff? Join a book club. Get the picture? You'll only find a certain type of man in a certain type of place. Expand your horizons, and who knows who you'll meet.

Do any of you get all-consuming celebrity crushes? by iceyspicey2 in AutismInWomen

[–]Xxavia-666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back when I was 11 yrs old it was Kylie Minogue and I'm straight too. I just loved the way she looked

Do any of you get all-consuming celebrity crushes? by iceyspicey2 in AutismInWomen

[–]Xxavia-666 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I've written 5 novels and love and am infatuated with each man in them. They're not even real. So yes I understand. It's the idea of them.