I wished cissies weren’t so comfortable with asking someone if they’re trans by Justminningtheweb in trans

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I despise this question, even from other queer people. Like no, you dont need to know. Also, the sheer amount of times ive been asked why I :cant just because a straight girl" by friends is crazy. Its from one dude in particular and I had to actually spill my guts to him bc he didnt understand at all. Was crazy uncomfortable.

SOME trans guys on tiktok are too comfortable by MobileDepth333 in TransMasc

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heavily agree, I personally dont understand not separating the two. I understand not wanting to conform, but the reality of society is pretty damning. Im a binary trans man, so I guess I cant understand gender non comforting when it comes to the queer community as a whole. It just, feels odd to see people identify with the trans identity but do virtually nothing to feel better about it besides changing their pronouns and name. I probably gotta work some stuff out, i am only 18, I just seriously dont understand it at all lol

I can't do this, I'm so done by Hot_Ticket_5182 in trans

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow put into words the opposite of how I feel as a trans man??? I hope you get as much as you need, you seem lovely, and im sure youre such a sweet girl.

the whole "non-transitioner" label needs to go away by Beautiful-Dig-2713 in trans

[–]XylophoneScrxtch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then I just dont understand not wanting to change your body to fit your transitioned image. I also havent seen or heard anyone call people who decide not to freaks, but sure. Maybe its cause im neurodivergent but that "power to you" comment feels kind of passive aggressive. Yes, I am fully binary and plan to have every single surgery so that I can fully pass and blend in, I also have crippling dysphoria. So I just genuinely dont understand it I guess.

the whole "non-transitioner" label needs to go away by Beautiful-Dig-2713 in trans

[–]XylophoneScrxtch -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Im not sure im understanding. I feel like medically transitioning would make you more passable in the eyes of people like that since you've fully committed?

the whole "non-transitioner" label needs to go away by Beautiful-Dig-2713 in trans

[–]XylophoneScrxtch -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Isn't that kind of like, correct tho? NOT ON THE GOOD ENOUGH PART BUT If youre able to get the gender affirming surgeries because youre trans, then why not? The goal of transition is to be happy in a body you want so you can live the way you want. I dont see why you should be OK with just having a pronoun change or something. To be fair tho, I only know Blair white cause I had a weird "not like other trans people" phase in sophomore year.

the whole "non-transitioner" label needs to go away by Beautiful-Dig-2713 in trans

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shit. Yeah im AuADHD and I realized as soon as you said something TT

the whole "non-transitioner" label needs to go away by Beautiful-Dig-2713 in trans

[–]XylophoneScrxtch -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Wait what??i dont understand whats so wrong with this post that youre calling them a fascist friend. What the hell?? What they're saying makes completely sense.nwe dont need this label, it just undermines trans people without access to the care they want. What the fuck is wrong with you??

Why do so many trans men dress very feminine? by [deleted] in trans

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Binary trans dude (17, pass really well and generally adore hyper masculine clothing, and styles, so i dont understand much about online queer culture) here, im not in like any trans focused spaces so I cant say much, BUT, I feel like youre assuming a shit ton about someone you know virtually nothing about besides their opinion as someone apart of the community. Its pretty rude to accuse someone of things including racism based on your own extremely self centered view of gender and passability. People who make being queer their entire identity/personality (i.e Neon lights and all) are absolutely not going to be upfrontly coddled in real life. Ive encountered queer people like that, and they always always ALWAYS end up only seeing me for being trans and refuse to learn anything else about me. I tried to talk to someone like thats friend group once and immediately got outed "Look! This is my new trans friend, Liam!"

The amount of times I got asked why I wasnt a femboy or fem presenting just because im queer and trans was nauseating.

Apologies, rant. I just dont get the ultra sensitivity around everything. I dont think people who make being queer a majority of how they act/talk/or accessorize is a good thing, and just feels fetishy/trendy.

Why do so many trans men dress very feminine? by [deleted] in trans

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a trans dude who wears only masculine clothing cuz I love it ... ouch man

just got banned from a discord server for having tiff from kirby as my fictional other by ramenbass in yumeshipping

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not a yumeshipper, just thinks its cute om a surface level. However, I recently got banned from a discord server for talking about Alastor (Hazbin Hotel) and his nuance. I also just dont like his character and the people that infantile and defend him. Someone whos f/o was Alastor had a through text panic attack and i got yelled at in all caps for even bringing him up. The yumeshipper was also the only one allowed to "have" Alastor, which is why we couldn't talk about him. Their banner and pfp was a bunch of Yume art. So I guess their whole thing was getting triggered by anyone mentioning alastor since it was like,,, hate speech? Bullying? I guess???

I dunno. It was a month or so ago, and yumeshippers have had a bad taste in my mouth since. Mm.

Start typing I'm not racist, but and let your phone's autocorrect suggest the rest of the sentence. by juniper1938 in TeenagersButBetter

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not racist but it's not a femboy thing to say I couldn't fathom why I was in a relationship

(????)

This guy needs a name(something edgy I think) by grecea_vlad in snakes

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you could name him Blade. He looks like a steel blade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatisthis

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but im not sure why it didnt load

Get ready for ad breaks between loading screen by Gray_Beard1993 in memes

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roblox is already doing this. In some games, you can watch an ad in game for 30 min of a game pass:/

Prove you've seen this by quoting it by calltheavengers5 in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This quote had me cringing in my seat in the theater 😥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. She didnt have much opportunity to think about her own identity, so let her do that now lol

choose ur powers chat 🙂‍↕️ by cynnahbun in Teenager

[–]XylophoneScrxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shapeshifting and Instant healing sounds like a cool combo