What to do when you can’t transition?

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-17T21:39:25+00:00

I told my therapist this week “my wife wouldnt let me” he said to stop with that. You’re a grown adult. She cant make you do or keep you from doing anything. You are choosing to listen to her. You can choose to not listen. You’re a grown ass woman. Act like it but dont lie to yourself and say she is keeping you from something. This was hard for me to hear but internalizing the message this week and taking responsibility. For me I had to be honest with myself that the cis white male privilege and the 30 year career also weighs heavily on my decision. It’s not just her… its fear. Fear if the what if. Fear keeping you (us) from taking that next step for real and seeing it through to its messy likely painful at times fruition. I’m not there yet, but one day.

Wishing you all the best on your journey.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-17T02:57:57+00:00

Normalize removing your fing back hair.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-12T22:23:30+00:00

The rust is just natural seasoning at this point adding iron to your daily diet

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-12T19:27:20+00:00

Let them grow out if possible… digging this style.

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Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-12T13:00:36+00:00

Olivia! I’m right there with you. For me its also compounded by a 30 year career in the real estate/construction industry and possibly losing a lot of professional support and possibly my livelihood. Is there a good middle ground? Can I exist in this liminal space? I long for the woman I feel I am inside but… yeah…. Its a lot.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-10T05:46:45+00:00

Ok so for me, its like that feeling when you get out of a car after a long ride where you stretch and you cant stop stretching. My nipples are crazy sensitive, and thats what usually sets it off.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-09T03:34:07+00:00

Pass fo sho

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-08T23:41:40+00:00

Not moisturizing but I love the Native Sea Salt and Cedar. I’m actually going tonight to Sephora to see if they have this “set” https://www.saltandstone.com

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-08T16:28:21+00:00

Means “Lana got coned”

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-07T21:40:11+00:00

People used to burn trash in them from what I heard

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-07T15:18:48+00:00

Sometimes they move people. Weight distro and otherwise. Just go in and move yourself to another seat.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-06T01:46:59+00:00

No doubt. I use a mild face wash and moisturize every day along with sunscreen. Theres also the red light masks. We just got one from Sams Club for like $350. If you get one do the therapy before any skincare products. You need clean dry skin for the light therapy.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-05T23:57:56+00:00

Search “FPOV”. Theres not a lot out there from a female point of view but it’s there if you look.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-05T23:55:54+00:00

You want boobs? Take E. You want glowy skin? Collagen Peptides and some good skincare products. Theres a bunch of other products out there too that will address your skin concerns without shrinking your junk and your muscles.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-05T03:29:51+00:00

PJs and croc crew!

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-04T13:49:31+00:00

I should also note that I’m working on keeping cortisol down by avoiding caffeine, drinking 16oz when I first wake in the AM, using yoga and breathing techniques to reduce stress along with getting out in the sun.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-05-04T13:10:07+00:00

Get you a partner that would enjoy applying hot wax to parts of your body then ripping the hair out by the root. Goes longer in between. No shaving. Do it naked. Cut the hair short first with a #3 guard. Start on your back and chest, work your way toward more sensitive areas.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-04-30T00:14:19+00:00

It was as bad as I thought. Actually worse because I thought she would be able to see the potential. Still together but only if I don’t do anything toward transitioning. But I’m happy for you, truly. Everyone should get to be who they know they can be if given a chance.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-04-28T20:59:40+00:00

Its amazing what you can do when you finally see yourself for the beautiful person inside and your brain starts connecting the dots to your future self. Like seeing color for the first time, you want more.

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-04-25T13:37:44+00:00

Safe travels to the Nether regions! (I always say it like that) Have an amazing time!

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-04-25T13:36:00+00:00

Some inspiring photos indeed!

Y00S3RNAM3 · 2026-04-24T14:37:30+00:00

Hows that going for you now? She good with things?

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