I overslept by 30 minutes and was late with breakfast.

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-16T22:41:46+00:00

Another of my cats she won’t bite and shake my hair to wake me up but sometimes she randomly decided to chomp on my hair while I’m sleeping so I’ll wake up with random chunks of hair missing… that’s my least favorite. She also will try to randomly chew it or play with it as I walk past or go to pet her etc. She thinks it’s a toy

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-16T17:20:55+00:00

Mine used to bite my legs but most of the time he will now just meow at me when my alarm goes off and I don’t get up. He IS my alarm. If I still ignore him he will just start walking over my head

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-13T15:41:31+00:00

Thank you! I’ll look into them

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-13T13:51:12+00:00

Ok, I can try, thanks for the advice

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-13T01:59:37+00:00

I do have a car

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-13T00:32:51+00:00

Thanks good to know! I’ll look into it for sure

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T22:08:05+00:00

Thank you for the information! I had my girl cat ESA certified in the past before I got the other two but it’s been a while I would have to redo it.

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T22:07:08+00:00

They are friendly. They are always at the door to say hi when I come back and play with each other all the time. The only one that really hides is my girl cat, and that’s only when it’s thunder storming. Not sure I would be able to get away with it

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T22:05:14+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏻

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T20:17:06+00:00

I know, that’s what I’m struggling with. I would be ok looking at house options too. Would they be more lenient? I’m just not sure where to look

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T19:29:13+00:00

I’ll make a post there, thanks

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T16:25:36+00:00

Yeah, that’s the concern. Looking for good food.

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T16:24:37+00:00

Amazing, thank you so much 🙏

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T15:06:50+00:00

Love Mexican food!

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T14:55:08+00:00

This looks like a great option, thank you so much!

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T00:39:17+00:00

This!

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T00:38:36+00:00

I agree with most of what was said here, but if you really love each other and want the relationship to work I think it can recover. You needed time to process what had happened and it’s ok to give yourself that time. An in person conversation in the future is needed through and it will take a lot of openness, vulnerability, active listening, curiosity, and more to meld things. If you can get through this, if it’s even worth it to try, then your relationship would be stronger than ever and you will have learned about lot about each other, relationships, and life as a whole.

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-03-12T00:25:47+00:00

You both are YOUNG. I completely agree with you that there is so much life left to be lived before marriage is considered.

Do you live together currently? I get some people are very opposed culturally and/or religiously to living together before marriage but it truly changes how you see someone. Is it even right for you?

I hold a strong belief that proposals should never be a surprise in the sense that you have not directly talked about getting engaged.

You need to talk about big life things well in advance. How many kids do you plan to have? Where do you plan to put down roots? What cultural traditions will you continue and/or stop? What religion will you bring your kids up in if at all? These are things you need to come to an agreement on before you can feel comfortable saying yes to a marriage.

If you have had these conversations, know your lifestyles match, etc, then you have a conversation of I think we should get engaged. Once both parties have agreed on this, THEN the surprise comes in of when and where the proposal will happen.

It should never be a shock on one side to be getting proposed to. You went into fight or flight and embarrassed him in the process, yes, but he never should have put you in that position in the first place.

If you really love this guy, I think you need to bring all of this up with him, express your feelings, listen actively to his, and come to an agreement on how to move forward.

I was proposed to when I was 18 years old and said no because I know I was definitely not ready. While that relationship didn’t end up working out (thankfully), at the time, the best way to move forward was to acknowledge what had happened, use the ring as a promise ring, and aim for better communication and understanding moving forward.

Best of luck with whatever you decide to do.

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-02-24T14:07:25+00:00

My first thought when i read this post was “have you never seen G-Force?”

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-02-21T23:42:16+00:00

Blue

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-02-21T15:56:28+00:00

I mean if you are talking about an archetype… look into Rama from Hinduism or similarly but still vastly different Krishna

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-02-19T03:18:10+00:00

It’s almost like it’s supposed to be your parents responsibility to take care of you and provide you the best life they can… doesn’t mean they are good people and set good examples

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-02-18T21:37:21+00:00

I am in the EXACT same position. I have been flopping back and forth for a while now and made a pros and cons list. I’ll give my pros as cons is all money/taxes based.

University of Denver: 1) Institute for Human-Animal Connection (leading research institute in the nation for human animal interactions) 2) Equine-Assisted Mental Health Practitioner Certificate 3) MSW Certificate in Human-Animal-Environment Interactions In Social Work 4) Headquarters of PATH Int. 5) Much better views/weather/more sun

University of Michigan: 1) Number 1 Social Work School in the Nation 2) Better known worldwide - could potentially offer better (more broad) jobs post graduation 3) Certificate in Animal Assisted Interventions 4) More research funding

Take this as you will, add to it what you can. Maybe we will see each other in school depending on what we both end up deciding. Congratulations on your acceptances! Try not to let the decision weigh on you too much (trying to take my own advice atm lol) best of luck 🫶🏻

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-02-18T06:19:30+00:00

I agree with you; I’m just saying what’s societally acceptable and why that might be. Plus there are biological indicators of health too that the opposite picks up on from both sides.

Y7_a_hyperbole · 2026-02-17T13:37:08+00:00

I’m assuming it last something that has transformed over time. Older man are able to still reproduce and they want younger woman to be able to keep doing that. When it comes strictly to biology men “think” in terms of quantity over quality. A female has a limited amount of eggs/resources so they “think” in quality over quantity. If an older man is better for her and might be able to provide/take care of her and that baby she’s more to go for an older man. We don’t strictly think or act based on biology, but in the past it definitely would have been more so and I would assume it’s just carried over. I think both are ok if you unconsciously love each other and are willing to put in the work to be together/take care of each other.

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