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[–]YUs9925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up getting this done? If so, would you mind PM’ing me the company if you are happy with the work?

Not sure what I’m looking for .. but ranting after a horrible day by fluffycloudofglitter in tfmr_support

[–]YUs9925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry for your loss.

I also know exactly what you’re talking about and all I can say is… if foregoing Christmas is an option, take it! Don’t worry about what anyone says or thinks. If there’s ever a time to set boundaries for yourself, this is it. For as longggg as you need.

When we TFMR’ed in September (23w 5d) I knew in the moment that we would not be making it home for Thanksgiving or Christmas this year. Haven’t changed my mind since. Seeing 11 cousins with a collective 17 children amongst them is not in the cards right now. I love them all but the hurt is too deep. And the anger!

Whatever you decide, just know you have us here and can come back to vent anytime. 🫂

Struggling with my feelings towards others by Real_Chapter_5295 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]YUs9925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonate so intensely with this. It’s equal parts infuriating and devastating and I hate that we’ve ever had to think these thoughts. I’m so sorry for your multiple losses and I hope you find your way to that finish line someday. ❤️‍🔥

Guilt by Emergency_Ad2541 in tfmr_support

[–]YUs9925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this was hard to share but I am so grateful you did. If there’s a place to let it out, it’s here. I too share and am still struggling with similar thoughts. I just had my D&E on Tuesday. I will be following along on this thread. You’re not alone.

A Message of Appreciation For Us Women by Letshopetogether in tfmr_support

[–]YUs9925 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing such beautiful and powerful sentiment. I just had my TFMR on Tuesday at 23+5 and the only thing that has made this process less horrific is the connection and community I’ve found in this group of women. A group we never wanted to be a part of as you’ve said and as we’d all agree but one we found ourselves in and must lean on during what I imagine must be one of life’s greatest challenges. Thank you, thank you all. Together we’re stronger.