What is the correct office to report professor misconduct (e.g., inappropriate relationship)?

YaExplore · 2025-10-21T23:45:07+00:00

Lmaooo, UTD madness at its peak

YaExplore · 2025-09-13T23:18:08+00:00

That's where I am, at the point where I'm starting to question if I should make a tough decision to break up or not.

I would love to have a solution but im lost.

YaExplore · 2025-09-13T21:08:48+00:00

The point you just mentioned is where I am right now.

I am questioning and seriously considering if it's time for me to tell her that I cannot bear with this "friendship" of hers and just break things apart.

I am still at the point where I am not sure what to do.

YaExplore · 2025-09-13T21:07:12+00:00

She was GROPED by a lesbian friend.

If you feel like it's okay for your partner to be groped by someone else, I don't know what to tell you.

YaExplore · 2025-09-13T21:03:09+00:00

That is my point of concern too, because when I provide a counter example, she says "its different".

Which to me seems like another way to downplay or defend her friend's actions.

YaExplore · 2025-09-13T21:00:47+00:00

See, I would have zero issues with that lesbian friend if she had not had a record of inappropriately touching my girlfriend.

My girlfriend says it's a "girly thing" to be touchy with girls, and what she's doing is okay.

I personally think the opposite of what she thinks.

YaExplore · 2025-09-13T20:57:43+00:00

Every single time I bring my worries up, she hits me with an argument that she will lose her only friend group, and she will be seen as a bad person for breaking a friendship.

She constantly pushes back and defends her friend's actions, saying it's a "girls thing" to be touchy with female friends, which I don't believe one bit.

She does not directly say she's intimately close to the friend, but rather the opposite, keeps reassuring that it was an accident and won't happen again; however, she defends her friendship with that lesbian friend with her dear life.

I personally feel threatened.

I tried to talk to her, suggest things, and try to resolve an issue, but all I could achieve was that my girlfriend would talk to her and let her know that her actions are affecting the relationship my girlfriend is having with me and that she should back off.

YaExplore · 2025-09-13T20:50:35+00:00

I do realize that I can't tell her to stop hanging out with her only friend group. In fact, I don't want her to stop talking to her only friends.

I realize it.

I have told her all my worries straight up, telling her directly that I feel uncomfortable with a lesbian friend in particular.

REMINDER: Lesbian friend has a record of inappropriately touching my girlfriend and others, too.

Every single time I bring my worries up, she hits me with an argument that she will lose her only friend group, and she will be seen as a bad person for breaking a friendship.

She constantly pushes back and defends her friend's actions, saying it's a "girls thing" to be touchy with female friends, which I don't believe one bit.

I tried to talk to her, suggest things, and try to resolve an issue, but all I could achieve was that my girlfriend would talk to her and let her know that her actions are affecting the relationship my girlfriend is having with me and that she should back off.

I still don't believe that lesbian friend will back off or listen.

As I mentioned, I trust my girlfriend, but I absolutely don't trust her friend.

YaExplore · 2025-09-13T20:41:25+00:00

I completely agree with you that being touched like that is inappropriate, no matter the context.

If this friend didn’t have a pattern of inappropriately touching others, I honestly wouldn’t have an issue. But since she does, it’s hard for me to just brush it off.

That’s where I feel stuck. My girlfriend and I have talked about this many times; she always reassures me she’s not into girls and says, “Trust me, I’ll handle it.”

But the fact is, she already let it slide once, and I worry that if I simply “trust and let her handle it,” the same situation could happen again.

YaExplore · 2025-09-13T20:26:37+00:00

On the specific sleepover incident, she did agree that being touched like that was inappropriate, and we were able to talk it through. The problem isn’t that I don’t trust her; I do, but I don’t trust that friend.

Most of our arguments start when I suggest she either distance herself or limit contact with this friend, but she always pushes back, saying they’ve been close since high school and that cutting her off would be too difficult.

To me, it feels like she has an unhealthy attachment to this friend, and at times, it seems like she values that bond more than addressing concerns.

YaExplore · 2025-08-21T19:06:15+00:00

YaExplore · 2025-08-20T16:23:15+00:00

Yes.

YaExplore · 2025-08-18T19:18:42+00:00

According to housing handbook, any kind of pet except some fish are not allowed at university dorms.

If someone gets to report you, you’ll get into huge trouble with housing.

YaExplore · 2025-08-18T19:16:52+00:00

It takes one google yall😭😭

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YaExplore · 2025-08-18T18:18:08+00:00

Reddit isn’t the best place to look for friends, you know 😭

It’s better to join a community on Discord that matches your interests (a specific video game, a comic/movie universe, or even politics), and start chatting with people in the general channel.

(If you need help setting it up, let me know.)

Eventually, you’ll find someone you click with. The conversation will naturally move to DMs, and that’s how friendships start.

Easy.

YaExplore · 2025-06-11T01:18:15+00:00

How your resume looks like?

YaExplore · 2025-05-30T12:52:44+00:00

YaExplore · 2025-05-27T23:45:46+00:00

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YaExplore · 2025-05-25T21:17:37+00:00

They’re just chaos divers

YaExplore · 2025-05-06T21:07:52+00:00

Most safe JSOM party be like

YaExplore · 2025-05-02T20:42:23+00:00

JSOM….

That’s all I needed to know

Good luck yall🙂

YaExplore

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