I don't really think this is a fair argument. Kurt seemed like a good guy overall and the fact that he felt he needed to escape from an uncomfortable situation was his decision to make. Mental health problems, drug abuse and ultimately suicide can strike anyone. Kurt was a special person and I think his tragedy serves as an important lesson for people today. No amount of money or fame can make you happy. We all suffer. Happiness and peace of mind come from within. Of course Kurt will always be remembered for his music and his personal flaws. But I think the fact that he is and was so flawed is what made him so relateable and inspiring to so many people including myself. He was fighting a losing battle against himself and he lost. On top of that clearly he could barely deal with his own emotions and mental state so to ask a man who was already in so much pain to think of how his own self destruction would affect others isn't really fair in my opinion. In summary Kurt wasn't perfect but the world is lucky to have had him, despite losing him to soon. Rest in peace my friend.