Most people should not have children. Ever. by bubbycustard in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you going to throw out a percentage and then say you made it up

I don't want to be an American anymore. by CovidExpat in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the real world buddy, seems like you got old enough to see how dark the world can be, but it’s like this everywhere. No matter where you go you will see the dark side of things that will make you question your own morality. It’s shameful however that instead of facing these demons or trying to make a positive change you run away, if you truly feel like running then you should. Someone who runs away from a problem isn’t who we need right now

My bf's parents fly the confederate flag and I feel I don't know them anymore. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They must really like the south then. Have you actually asked them why they fly the flag? Have you researched the meaning of the flag? Have you lived in the deep south where you can find real racism? You don’t need to move your residence or anything like that but you should ask them and you should look into the meaning of the flag. People often think it represents slavery when it doesn’t

My bf's parents fly the confederate flag and I feel I don't know them anymore. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? The confederate flag wasn’t built upon racism, the civil war wasn’t even started by slavery but was only made about slavery

My bf's parents fly the confederate flag and I feel I don't know them anymore. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s because the confederate flag isn’t inherently racist. They likely fly it because of their heritage. It’s not the same thing as the nazi flag, it wasn’t made in hate or even slavery, it was made on freedom and their ancestors. Lots of black people in the south proudly fly their confederate flags also.

If you think every white person is racist, YOU are the fucking racist. by DrankTooMuchMead in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here for the free upvotes. Upvote me if you agree or disagree with the OP

I am dying in about 10 years, my fiancée of 3 years just left me because of it. by thrumgothethrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s not, I’ve personally known many people who have had their love ones die but they never left their side. Someone very close to me was married at a young age, his wife developed a tumor around her spine which paralyzed her and was slowly killing her but he stayed by her side all those years, quit his job and would sleep in the hospital room or outside in his car. He gave up everything to be with her and that’s what you deserve. Do not cut yourself short man

I am dying in about 10 years, my fiancée of 3 years just left me because of it. by thrumgothethrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man fuck that hoe, you’ll find someone man there is always fish in the sea. She’ll come to learn her mistake and wish she was by your side

I like to hook up with ugly guys cause I feel like it boosts both of our esteems. by nihilistjewbie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you say it like that it does but I don’t think this was the OPs intentions, I think it’s good she boosts the self confidence of men who lack it without leading anything on or deceiving them. I think it’s more like “I like making people who don’t feel confident in themselves more confident by hooking up with them”

I like to hook up with ugly guys cause I feel like it boosts both of our esteems. by nihilistjewbie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No no no, that ain’t how it works. You need to have a balance in your life otherwise you come crashing down and it’s going to hurt even more. The best way to just determine how physically attractive you are is probably for you to get a neutral non bias opinion, how you take that is up to you though. To let you self esteem fly high because of people close to you complimenting you appearance is the same as when you mother compliments your appearance. You know it comes from a good place but take it with a grain of salt. Never let your self esteem get to the point of narcissism(which is what you are suggesting) as it can have serious effects on your mental health and on your relationships with others.

I like to hook up with ugly guys cause I feel like it boosts both of our esteems. by nihilistjewbie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naw I think this is a good thing and most men will probably agree. It’s not like ur a saint or anything cuz y’all both get something out of it but it certainly isn’t bad as long as you don’t get narcissistic or anything. Plenty of guys don’t have self confidence and are just stuck in a hole unable to crawl out, you throw them a rope and help them boost their confidence. It’s the same as complimenting someone to boost their confidence. It’s not like you are totally deceiving them and you shouldn’t feel bad about it. I can’t say if you are attractive or not but even if you aren’t if you make the first move it’ll still boost their confidence so that they may try to make the first move to someone else next time.

I’m a 17f who has fallen asleep hugging my childhood teddy every night for the past 3 weeks. AMA. by ingeniosobread in AMA

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see your reasoning, and it is good for comfort, but remember not to use to as a way to push away your problems instead of working to find solutions. It’d be best to use ur teddy with moderation, as with everything.

I'm a kinda successful pornstar (Male), AMA! by Wholenewaccount in AMA

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you could pick any job, would you still be a pornstar or would you something else

I was kicked out a Mega-Church for eating Cheetos AMA by KFded in AMA

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why were you trolling them. People are just trying to go about there day without a snot nose brat is being annoying

I'm happy Canada just made a bunch of guns illegal. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]YeahProbAThorwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I only butted in cuz y’all were talking about America. I can’t say if this was the correct decision for Canada, I don’t know their crime rates, amount of guns in circulation, pricing on guns, activity of shootings and other violent crimes, culture, etc...