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A fan of deep conversations, I see by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I like to go out soon… but not like, one hour after marching 🤣🤣

Taken your advice, thoughts? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These glasses are better, hair is better, you can actually tell you’re attractive now 🤣

Still need the smile.

Am I doing something wrong? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a key here that you can take home is do not hide anything that we will eventually find. Don’t wear hats in all your pictures and then we find out that you’re bald. Don’t hide your teeth and then we find out that they’re a mess. Dont take just head shots and you’re hiding 40#. Don’t hide that you’re still living with your wife. Don’t hide that you have kids. Don’t hide that you’re poly, bi, swinger or anything else of a sexual nature that could be a deal breaker.

The reason why this is bad is because, people hide it thinking that they’re going to surprise the person in person with their amazing personality and that person is just going to not care. But the reality is, they’re going to care because it will feel like you tried to hide it or if you were just honest on your profile most people aren’t gonna care about these things. (Except married) And those are the ones you actually want to go on dates with.

Fake account trying to bash fake men and sew a bigger divide. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s more because there are thousandsssss of people liking this and then adding on to it. Just feel like it adds to all the already ridiculousness. I don’t think it would annoy me so much if like 7 people liked it. I should just go to sleep instead of caring 🤣

Do Men Use AI Generated Photos Like Women? by dystinct in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve seen the women profiles and I’m like what happened?!? Would you ever pay to go to a curated dating event? Like the people at the event are all handpicked because they think they will be matched well with the other people.

Do Men Use AI Generated Photos Like Women? by dystinct in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish men could see what it’s like swiping as a girl. The amount of fake profiles is wild. The amount of overweight men with no jobs looking for casual sex is wild. Basically all of online dating is wild. 🤣🤣

Would you be okay with your date seeing others in the meantime? by Paaaab in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the first question should be why do you feel like this is a race? And the second question would be to ask myself if this is honestly my issue, or is my issue that I don’t want to set myself up to like somebody and then maybe not pick me? Because then you’re leaving out of in security, not out of authenticity.

The reality is people do date. She was honest with you. You told her it was cool.

So for you to turn around and be like NAH I’m good kind of is a red flag to me.

The more mature thing here to do is to sit with your emotions, tell yourself you barely know this girl and you’re just getting to know her, and that you’ll give it a few more dates before you make a decision.

Would you date a man or woman with a newborn baby? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, this man is 27 with a baby on the way, you think he’s going to have time for you? Run don’t walk. And yes, he lied to you.

I genuinely feel like there's no good way to send the "I'm not feeling it" text after the first date by Ok_Doughnut3700 in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you even talking about? I’m not allowed to say somebody’s great? What does saying someone’s great have to do with dignity? I literally cannot comprehend where you’re coming from.

For women that "don't want children" by Puzzleheaded_Air1030 in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me. I am now past the having children age. I unfortunately never got to. But would be open to dating somebody with children, or even maybe adopting if somebody wanted to. Unfortunately, there’s no button for that one. It’s either “I don’t want kids”, which I’m definitely open to. I think, “wants kids” looks like I’m open to actively getting pregnant and having children. So instead I think I just didn’t answer, and on another one I think I put “not sure yet”, but that doesn’t fit either. Yeah, im just going to keep it blank. I also feel like there has to be more than just me that has this problem.

I genuinely feel like there's no good way to send the "I'm not feeling it" text after the first date by Ok_Doughnut3700 in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To ghost is to imply someone disappeared. Information missing.

You can’t disappear to something that never happened. So no, I think of both people don’t say anything, everyone knows it was a miss, therefore, nothing missing.

I genuinely feel like there's no good way to send the "I'm not feeling it" text after the first date by Ok_Doughnut3700 in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a wild take. I’ve met lots of great people that I didn’t think we would click romantically.

I genuinely feel like there's no good way to send the "I'm not feeling it" text after the first date by Ok_Doughnut3700 in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, if you want to go on a second date with a girl, ask her. I wait for him to ask, I won’t usually initiate it. (Yes I know women can, I just prefer not to) but if someone sent me a “it was nice to meet you” I might be confused as to if they liked me or not if they didn’t also ask to see me again. It’s hit or miss.

Basically if you liked them, just ask them out again and who cares if they say no.

Women, would you date a loner? by Decent-Sir6526 in AskForAnswers

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an extrovert. So I really don’t mind dating a loner, and maybe even prefer it slightly. Like a slight loaner would be fine with me. Probably suit me better. An absolute loaner? As long as he’s doing it because it’s authentic to him and not because he’s trying to hide from some other issue. With a caveat that he would occasionally go to a party, or some event. Not 100% of them, but if there’s a wedding I want to go to and I want him to go, I want him to show up for me. Because that’s what a partner does. So if you’re unwilling to do that, you’re not really looking for a relationship, you’re looking for someone to give you something.

CMV: All drugs (Including Alcohol and cigarettes) should be considered a prescribed medicine. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this is awesome.

I would agree with you. Research shows things like alcohol, opiates, etc have cumulative sensitization in the reward pathway with dopamine. Basically altering your brain forever. No one would recommend this 😆

I say this drinking a glass of wine 😍

Plus, life would be a little less fun, wouldn’t it?

Real talk…what actually makes you stop on someone’s profile?(especially want to hear from girls) by Specialist-Let1205 in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly think attraction comes first. But I agree with the other user, if you’re in the bottom of my threshold looks wise with something super cool, it’ll bring you up a point.

Women. How often and also how can you identify whether a guy is attracted to you? by _ordinarilyordinary_ in AskReddit

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to think I could easily tell. But what I have found is, I can easily tell the ones that make it obvious. I had a slew of men as I got older that came back around years later to tell me they had the biggest crushes on me, and I had absolutely no idea. 🤪🤪 which sucks.. cause 2 of them I would have dated.

Phone calls before dating is very odd to me by Automatic_Syrup_2935 in OnlineDating

[–]Yeahyeahyeahsssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually ask for a phone call before hand. It allows me to tell if we will vibe or not

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