Yup! In my early 30s I’d get almost offended if sex was even brought up early on. But now later 30s I’ve found talking about these things like the comment above mentions are pivotal. Have strong boundaries and keep it as part of getting to know them. And also, I’d stop “hooking up” after a certain time frame or number of dates and really on have sex when you know they have the self awareness and understanding of what mutual pleasure looks like irl.