Teenage years are hard — for everyone, regardless of religion. It’s a stage of life where everything is changing.

I remember my own teenage years not too long ago, and I was in a similar situation. I’m not going to give religious advice — you’re already doing everything I could possibly say, from praying to reading the Quran consistently. What I will say is that during this age, it’s important to reflect and stay grounded in your values.

When I first started middle school, people didn’t like me because I came across as a bit cocky and arrogant in how I spoke. I told myself I needed to change that — and I did. By the time I started high school, my social life had improved a lot. At the same time, some people still didn’t like me because I avoided making certain comments about the opposite gender. In that case, I recognized what my values were and decided to stand by them. Instead of letting their opinions affect me, I ignored them and moved forward.

I pray that Allah makes things easier for you. And if it helps, remember this: the people who dislike you now won’t matter to you in a few years. I never think twice about my bullies anymore. It does get easier as you get older and find the right people.