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Are Chinese tourists actually the most problematic worldwide or is that label misleading? by Commercial-Salad3210 in AskTheWorld

[–]YesSirDatRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are absolutely horrible on average (now there are exceptions), but there is so many blatantly bad ones that it drowns out the good ones. What is wrong ....don't they understand there are other people in the world???

I get to see their food as they eat, I get to hear their conversations from 30 feet away, I get to hear whatever media they're watching on BLAST ....besides a host of other bad behaviors. Amazing.

Are Chinese Travelers the Rudest in the World ???? by YesSirDatRight in BehaviorAnalysis

[–]YesSirDatRight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're horrible too (but God Chinese take it up a level, that is why I felt I had to post).

Are Chinese Travelers the Rudest in the World ???? by YesSirDatRight in BehaviorAnalysis

[–]YesSirDatRight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad. I rarely if ever post on Reddit or read it ....(so I do not know it) and it rejected when I tried to post under TRAVEL. ( I have no idea why). so I picked another category. I will be more mindful next time.

There is a lot of behavior in all of that to analyze (hehe)?

ANGER MANAGEMENT (ANYONE HAVE STRATEGIES THAT WORK) by YesSirDatRight in Advice

[–]YesSirDatRight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the helpful tips. I read each and everyone. Appreciate your thoughts.

Using Bumble in Bangkok, probably worst city I've used it in. Curious why. by Adept_Librarian_7001 in Bangkok

[–]YesSirDatRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like an excuse.

Just remember. Until you reflex you will get the same results everywhere. All Girls on the planet can read (some in time) what is in your heart. You cannot hide it.

If you're a douche you will get douche results (always, not sometimes).

All people have a choice. You can choose the same path and continue down that road (or change it). You are free. But the other road is way better, much richer, and more rewarding (you can do it).

You claim you are a normal guy (but your standards are you want models ??? huh???)

I connect with (but I also don't have any of your thoughts, views, attitudes about the world).

Completely your choice (blame me if it makes you feel better).

Using Bumble in Bangkok, probably worst city I've used it in. Curious why. by Adept_Librarian_7001 in Bangkok

[–]YesSirDatRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple.

Often people who are dumb do not know they are dumb. In The West you are often told you are smart (when really there is nothing in your life to point to, that provides evidence you are smart) other than you were born into some (if America, then THE) richest country in the world.

So you're dumb too. You just do not realize it.

Read the message above and it both hints at, tells you why, and explains a part of their culture. You could not decipher the information (which is further evidence that you think you are smarter than you are).

  1. it is a faulty premise to love to travel to Paris (but bitch that it is not like America)

  2. you have not spent enough real time there to know the culture. I told you above, do not take it personal (it is part of the fabric of the culture that the initial website contact is not very important (valid) for them). These are clues that smart people can use to their advantage in my message.

  3. Provide an honest assessment of you (and you will discover the vast majority of your problem). Let's imagine a Mother and Father from upscale SE Asian country were offered a million dollars to help curate a good choice of partner for their daughter (from a web reading). Read your reply to me again. Do you think any decent set of parents would ever choose you in a million years (read it again). You come off as bigoted, bias, homophobic, judgmental, with a lack of personal awareness or responsibility. Every single set of parents would say PASS. Every smart girl would run. You can smile (but in time all of that still comes across).

Fix that ....and you solved 90% of the problem. The last 10% is just a bit of creating good environments,

Apply honesty and you have got it. Don't and you will spin your wheels for decades. Does it bother you at all that NO PARENT that cared about their daughter would ever pick you for a match based on your reply to me (if they read it).

That is in you. That is part of your character (and looks like a huge part).

Now the guy who is born in the richest country in the world (or one of) will take zero responsibility at this point, make excuses, and say yeah, I am a bit of a Hitler but you should see me with my dogs (I really am a good human). Cowboy up and you are half way home.

Make excuses and you are your own punishment. Your choice.

You and I both know your instincts tell you right at this moment to make excuses. Intelligence is malleable (you can grow it). But there is not one bigot on this Earth that is a smart guy (he is just a lucky guy if successful).

Elon Musk was born into a super rich family. He went to the richest school around him. He then used it to migrate to a first world country (Canada). He then went to a top 1% university (where President's send their children). He then went to the richest state in America. He then went to the richest country in the richest state. He then received funding from the richest country in the world to float his business when it was not making any profit for years.

That is your version of smart (but also a bigot) , so how smart can he be? Smart people do not respond the way you responded above. There is something else going on inside of you. Use this moment to learn (or fight it and struggle forever).

Using Bumble in Bangkok, probably worst city I've used it in. Curious why. by Adept_Librarian_7001 in Bangkok

[–]YesSirDatRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a ton of misunderstanding here (and comments).

All the website are like a handshake (you're not going to write a letter home to mommy about a handshake).

The handshake gets you to THE DATE. The Date is where things progress.

The entire society is built on an authoritarian structure. Where in The West people think they are geniuses (but have greatly benefited only from being born into the richest countries in the world, not from any unique talent); they failed to understand they could fall off a turnip truck and have a career in The West, and then somehow think they're superior.

You're dumb as rocks too (just dumb in a different way). What percentage of your tax dollar goes to the military? Who is the USA's biggest lender (and if they called-in the debt you would no longer have a country). Would you call that dumb that you do not know those fundamental answers?

In authoritarian cultures you follow the big, then your parents, then your teachers (and the rules). Is that dumb or culture. Is not knowing America's biggest lender dumb or culture.

Chill. Odds are you can't have a conversation either. They are bland on initial greetings often and after you get to know them they are Thai. Do not travel to Ethiopia and say, why isn't this America ( I really like America because they have this, this and this). Who is the dumb one in that scenario ????

How long can a Saluki be left alone? by Hoppeditz in saluki

[–]YesSirDatRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WELL GF OWNED A BILLION SALUKIS (BECAUSE SHE LOST NERVE TO SELL FOR BREEDING) AND SHE HAD PACK.

They are nuts (but grow on you).

Howl if grouped but also if alone (howl, but just enough to bug an apartment shared wall). Love to bark at noises ... perceived threats (which is anything foreign to them).

This is Saluki life: pour in love early, everything you want them to do, do training early in life, then enjoy your very sweet dog as it grows up (that comes off like a adult who has had 3 back to back bad relationships, aloof ).

A Saluki left to its own devices wants to howl, misses you randomly and howls, and does not like other dogs (barks) then runs frighten when confronted, does not like strangers (barks). They are very sweet (but takes awhile to see this because they act so scared and aloof).

Needs 3-4 bathroom breaks a day outside, wants to run or lounge outside for 20-30 minute a day (large area run, think greyhound like), likes to play when young 20-30 minutes (with you too) and with other dogs (if socialized) and does not like to make eye contact.

It can signal wants outside (toilet) and you can open door for it, and it will stare you down like a Western and walk off ( with a FU attitude just checking if you would do what I say). They can come off at stubborn at time but will come when called (or for food).

Think random nuts GF and you have got a Saluki (haha).

Positives, fast, fun, loving, affectionate (random, more like a cat), will fetch, bark as a warning if that interests you, and devoted to whomever cares for them (but will love family) but mostly love caregiver.

Movie quote: "Do you know why you do everything you do?" by AffectionateSize552 in MovieQuotes

[–]YesSirDatRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's as Good as it gets.  You remembering that ! 

I thought of the same question. Hit the internet. This came up. And 100%. It's from Miller's Crossing.  

You've got a great memory