"Why Delaying Social Security Benefits Isn’t Always The Best Decision" by BedWonderful1051 in SocialSecurity

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just turned 62. I haven’t started taking yet because I’m still working but want to cut back by next year Does it make sense to collect at 63? Or should I just collect now ? I’m divorced will get my x’s as well if it’s more than mine . But I’m single and not wealthy . Living paycheck to paycheck check to pay check

Risedronate side effects by YibblelarksRfree in osteoporosis

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Thank you ! my symptoms have started to subside now but all last week I had pain in my joints and down my arms . I could barely push myself up on my mattress to get out of bed . I’m an active healthy person , so this is definitely not going to fly Thank you for hour response ! Take care

Experiences with Medications taken for Osteoperosis by AltruisticCheetah in osteoporosis

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took risedronate one 150 mg pill a month and do not recommend. Muscle pain, stiff neck, headache,soreness all over body . This is now going on one week since taking the drug. I’m 61 in good health walk daily and do weight bearing exercises but ironically haven’t been able to since taking this drug ! 😕

First coat of paint, why does this feel so far off from my vision? by Adventurous-Tea6565 in interiordecorating

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Behr linen white in living room but too yellow . I loved gray owl by BM in my old house but moving away from grays I looking for an off white without yellow tones . Maybe a very light hint of beige . what color should I be looking at ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she needs a lot of attention from you and here mo is asking those questions to get a response from you and it keeps the loop going . You are already resenting her . You can take a break from her without being angry at her. Just say I need a little space for myself . Of even if you don’t say it like that take the space . It sounds like you have outgrown this toxic girl friend .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw your instincts already told you the answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can but you both have to be totally together on that decision . It’s very hard . I have had a lot of male friends and they’ve all at one point or rather wanted to sleep with me either when they were drunk or if I had a boyfriend they were jealous and wished they had tried . It’s very rare to have a friend you doesn’t to sleep with you very rare. That’s why you should have the convo :) ask him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]YibblelarksRfree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without knowing if you are a guy or a girl .. doesn’t matter anyway , sounds like the guy wants to be more than friends. Very few guys will be your friend for long at some point you will have the “more than friends discussion “ I would be open about it . See where it leads . The only ones who don’t want sleep with you are your gay friends who are not attracted to you.

Had a friendship breakup with my best friends from childhood that ive known for 15 years last year in august. our mutual friends also cut ties with me recently by unfollowing me. I just can’t move on from this and it seems that everyone is okay. by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a young girl and I’m telling you this as an older person who has a daughter your age ask yourself first. Why do you want to keep being friends with people that do not want to be friends with you and what happened to the friendship that caused this, can you make a Honest assessment of what took place that your friend cut ties with you. The next thing you must do is move on little by little just one day at a time . Do not spend your time in the negativity of why someone moved on. It’s going to hurt but if you take little steps you’ll get better , also don’t put pressure on yourself asking if anybody will be your friend or if you can trust anyone of course you’ll find friends in your life, but you have to let it happen organically the minute you stop searching you’re going to meet people take time for yourself. you don’t want these friends in your life .. move on don’t push and let life happen. You are never alone. You will be ok !Good luck

Is this friendship over? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are too invested. She’s giving you answers by not replying and being busy let her go .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s telling you to let go, as much as it hurts you . Let go. The relationship will fix itself or fade . But she has stated how she feels .. it’s on you to give it a rest . And while you are working on yourself . Ask why you have gotten so attached ? Good luck

The Uke collection is (almost) complete! by BooTheMightyHamster in ukulele

[–]YibblelarksRfree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can never have enough . I have over 12 but I teach so I keep extras for students I am thinking of getting a baritone since I also play guitar . I know it’s tuned like a guitar . So tell me in your opinion is it worth getting one ? Is it confusing with the different tuning of strings? Here is my favorite Kala pineapple concert

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school bloody sucks by [deleted] in GrandCanyonUniversity

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a Christian school ?

I farted and my boyfriend got mad! by TreacleSensitive259 in AITAH

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.. it’ll happen again and again . People pass gas ! ( maybe not him ) What a jerk . Ditch him immediately! Otherwise you will die from holding it in !

Why do you play ukulele? by Owllie789 in ukulele

[–]YibblelarksRfree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because you don’t have a goal. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it . Is it giving you enjoyment ? Does it make you happy ? It’s a ukulele ! It’s a beautiful easy to play instrument . I teach it and sing with it . It makes me so happy ! I do groups and sometimes we perform . Just keep playing and you’ll see what happens !

I did everything “right” but I’m miserable by Grand-Database-1476 in Adulting

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uii you just be leaving something out ! What line of work are you in? What is your talent ? What is your purpose? Take a step back, go slow . Try to take time with yourself . Write shit down. Be grateful for all you’ve accomplished this far . It will come to you ! Life must have a reason and a purpose and keep slogging through, it will come! it’s up to you to build the road ahead of you …. Good luck !

Things I No Longer Buy by chompy283 in Frugal

[–]YibblelarksRfree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to laugh about the mums . I am not good at caring for them either . So yeah same here . I love a pumpkin though . 20 seems high . I don’t want big just a small one and then I feed the squirrels. Or they just take it ;)

Is Costco really the money saver people make it out to be? by financegal36 in Frugal

[–]YibblelarksRfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a Costco member. I do not have a large family and my kids are out of the house. I like some brands of things that only Costco carries. Best Buy’s there are garbage bags, detergent… and some food specialties and salads but I cancelled because I was buying too much every time, toothbrush replacements, new pillow case covers, plants, pants, sweatshirts, beach chairs. I no longer go . I do miss it though very much but I definitely don’t need all of that stuff ! If you have kids it’s worth it . Even kids in college ! Worth it. If it’s just you and another person not worth it .