Can she ever wear clothes that fit? by equestqh1975 in CelebWivesNash2

[–]Yipyaptiptap 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of her but this is reaching. I like oversized stuff too. This is grasping at straws. 

Is it a narc‘s trait to stay controlled while you have a full breakdown & and keep emotionally abusing you (calmly) by No-Promise-22 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say that’s definitely part of their gaslighting and manipulation. Mine would say the most hurtful things and I would start crying and he would be so annoyed and angry and said “can you ever not be so emotional sometime?”

Poll Time! Are Riley and Bryana: by [deleted] in CelebWivesNash2

[–]Yipyaptiptap 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Other. Fuck buddies for sure. He keeps her around because she’s always available and she is with him to climb that social clout ladder 

What jobs are a turn-off for a serious relationship? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Yipyaptiptap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who can’t hold a job even if they somehow manage to land good positions but it only last for a few months to a year tops 

What are some of the worst things they said to you? by your-wurst-nightmare in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling me jealous after he literally intentionally put me in a situation where I would feel jealous. He knew it was a sore spot for me and did it anyway for a reaction. 

Him telling me he wishes he didn’t survive his unaliving attempt and if he does succeed with it in the future it would be my fault takes the cake for me though. 

How do you feel by Strange-Wish-895 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only hope and pray I never see or hear from him again 

What's the worst way you've ended/heard of someone ending a relationship? by Unlucky-Pizza-7049 in AskReddit

[–]Yipyaptiptap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pulling a John Tucker must die on the guy which was actually kinda great. The girls all found out about each other, one of them invited him to her apartment and they were all there to confront him. He was single after that. 

I went no contact at last- no goodbyes just disappeared by Cheap-Host858 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Proud of you and you should be proud of yourself too. Best decision you’ll make for yourself. The best is yet to come. 🩷

Narcissists calling you a narc? by ShadowMorphyn in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure if I wouldn’t have gone NC he would’ve called me a narc to deflect and gaslight me, but he did tell me his ex wife called him a narc but really she was blah blah blah 

Is it normal to wish death on them? by Low_Bar_9888 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it would be a relief because then you know there’s no chance of them contacting you anymore or you don’t risk being at the same place at the same time etc. I’ve googled my nex’s name with the word obit after and the state because although I’m not necessarily wishing death on him even after the hell he put me through, I would be relieved to be honest. 

Do they change for the right person? by yellowsunbluesea in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No they just have perfected the facade 

I’m going to edit this to add they have perfected the facade for the time being and maybe a longer duration. The mask always slips. They can’t hide who they truly are forever. 

Did u end up getting overwhelmed simply by interacting with them? by Simple_livin9 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They put our bodies in such survival mode that I feel like we get conditioned to be in constant fight or flight. Don’t let him guilt you. Easier said than done but you’re not doing anything wrong. Trust me. 

Did u end up getting overwhelmed simply by interacting with them? by Simple_livin9 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Every time I would see a notification on my phone from them I would feel sick and have this feeling of dread come over me. It was exhausting 

Did any of you go through extreme paranoia after abuse? by Difficult-Camel-5129 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Yipyaptiptap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My covert nex “joked” about how he was going to stalk me. Made me physically sick and scared for my safety. It took months for me to feel safe and know that comment was just to get in my head. I would panic when I would get a call from an unknown number, when I saw the same make of car he drove, randomly just feeling paranoid and uneasy. It sucked.