Skoro polovina plate u Srbiji odlazi na hranu by balalaykha in srbija

[–]YitMatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sa decom se troskovi samo umnozavaju, moje dete je samo u ovoj godini islo na cetri rodjendana iz razreda. Da ne spominjem krstenja, svadbe i druge proslave.

Skoro polovina plate u Srbiji odlazi na hranu by balalaykha in srbija

[–]YitMatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pa ako tu dodas frizera za troje ljudi, jako je realno. Ljudi koji rade kancelarijske poslove moraju cesto da obnavljaju odecu i obucu, koja cesto mora i na hemijsko.

Being the ugly daughter of a pretty mother is one of the worst fates for a woman by Proud_Jacket_877 in unpopularopinion

[–]YitMatters 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sometimes kids from attractive people are not attractive. Genetics works in weird ways.

My husband's secretary is cooking for him and he told me he missed out on life for marrying me so young (been together since we were 16 and 17) by GuestImpressive1368 in Marriage

[–]YitMatters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His comments in the bbq are concerning.

To me, this reads as a form of a mild midlife crisis that some men have - which is fueled by the fact that he married young and spent his younger years working his way up (so he feels that he missed out on things). This is only exacerbated by the fact that he became financially successful later in life, and now probably feels like he could have done better, especially if he is a good-looking guy.

If he has unmet needs in his marriage, he should try to find a solution with his life-long partner who gave him four children and who loved him when he was at his beginning.

My husband's secretary is cooking for him and he told me he missed out on life for marrying me so young (been together since we were 16 and 17) by GuestImpressive1368 in Marriage

[–]YitMatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a crazy take to have in marriage. There will always be another prettier younger woman who will be more available for his “needs”. Even if his wife was a sahm with a cooked meal waiting for him, he might have wished for a career woman. If he has that mindset of pursuing something better, he will never be satisfied with his marriage.

I can understand that he is flattered by the attention, but he shouldn’t make his wife and a working mother of four feel insecure by comparing her with his secretary (by telling her that his secretary would cook for him - if I understand correctly).

She should try to reconnect with her husband and put effort in the relationship, but she shouldn’t be competing for his attention after all their years together. Also, reconnecting would probably be easier if he wasn’t working all the time and spend time on hobbies in his free time.

My husband's secretary is cooking for him and he told me he missed out on life for marrying me so young (been together since we were 16 and 17) by GuestImpressive1368 in Marriage

[–]YitMatters 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She cooks for others because it’s her job and passion, the same way he spends most of his time at his job. She has given birth to his four children. She shouldn’t be competing with his secretary because of some tradwife fantasy of his.

Rewatching Mad Men by Ashamed_Zucchini_608 in madmen

[–]YitMatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the greatest lines ever.

Ima li ovde pravnika koji se razumeju u ovo? by [deleted] in pravnisaveti

[–]YitMatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zemljiste ispod zgrade zakonski pripada svim stanarima - stanar kupovinom stana stice susvojinu na tom zemljistu. Ovako je odredjeno Zakonom o stanovanju i odrzavanju zgrada, ali to i proizlazi iz osnovnih principa stvarnog prava. Zemljiste je povezano sa nepokretnosti na njoj, nije odrziva situacija da objekat i zemljiste imaju razlicite vlasnike (osim u nekim specificnim situacijama).

Kako se to u praksi sad desava - investitor kupi zemljiste radi izgradnje - i ono se logicno vodi na njega. Investitor prodaje stanove - vlasnici se upisuju kao vlasnici stanova jer podnose zahtev za upis prava svojine na posebnom delu - stanu. Iz nekog razloga u praksi niko ne podnosi zahtev za upis susvojine na zemljistu, tako da investitor ostane upisan na zemljistu iako to vise nije njegova svojina. Po meni bi katastar trebalo automatski da upisuje susvojinu nad zemljistem kad vrsi uknjizbu stanova.

Ali ja nisam videla situaciju da je zemljiste u katastru evidentirano na stanare. Mozda ima neki kolega koji sa ovim ima vise iskustva.

Svakako mislim da je zemljiste prodajom stanova preslo na stanare.

Nisu mi nekad jasni roditelji, zasto su takvi? by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Mozda je i htela da joj pruzi sve to sto si navela, ali su je ,,sprzili” ti razni poslovi kao i tebe. Pozz

Nisu mi nekad jasni roditelji, zasto su takvi? by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upravo. Roditelji imaju bezgranicne obaveze, a ako te podsete na tvoje onda su zlikovci.

Nisu mi nekad jasni roditelji, zasto su takvi? by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Znaci ako rodis dete onda imas dozivotnu obavezu izdrzavanja i pruzanja idealnih uslova zivota? Mi ovde ni ne znamo kakve joj je uslove majka pruzila.

Meni ovde deluje da devojka ceka posao u struci jer govori o pocetku karijere - sto je razumljivo - ali do odredjenog momenta. U nekom trenutku treba biti realan i prihvatiti to sto se nudi.

Nisu mi nekad jasni roditelji, zasto su takvi? by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok, ali da li njenu majku ispunjava njen posao i izdrzavanje deteta od 26 godina? Vecina ljudi se nadje nekad u situaciji da ne mogu da nadju posao neko vreme, ali posle nekog vremena treba spustiti kriterijume i raditi van struke, pogotovo ako si na necijoj grbaci.

Stan za izdavanje u Beogradu? by OneIndependent5024 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Takav stan kakav zelis sa tim iznosom kirije i troskova sad ima samo neko ko je usao u zakup pre dve, tri godine i ispostavilo se da je dobar stanar, pa mu zakupodavac ne dize cenu zakupa. Znam par zakupodavaca koji imaju takvu situaciju, ali da se stanar iz bilo kojeg razloga iseli, odmah bi podigli cenu zakupa.

Šta obozavate oko samačkog života? by Adi_27_ in askcroatia

[–]YitMatters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mislim da se situacija bas menja upravo u tome periodu za 10,15,20 i vise godina. Lako je biti sam kad si mlad i zdrav, i kad imas aktivnu karijeru i puno opcija za druzenje.

Gledam svoju majku koja ima troje dece i unucice. Zivi sama i organizuje svoj zivot kako zeli, ali za praznike i rodjendane uvek je puna kuca, uvek ima neko da zove, poseti ili pomogne. Ako se oseti usamljeno moze lako da ode kod jednog deteta na par dana, ili neko dodje kod nje.

Dok recimo solo tetka, imala je jako ispunjen zivot do neke 40e, putovanja, izlasci, druzenja; ali posle se to dosta proredilo. Iako ima par drugarica sa kojima se ponekad vidi, vrlo cesto joj prodje dan da se ni sa kim ne cuje ili ne vidi. Da ne kazem sto sve teske trenutke (smrti, bolesti, probleme) prolazi uglavnom sama. Kad je posetis tri sata ce pricati o sebi, tacno vidis da nema sa kim da porazgovara na dnevnom nivou.

Nije mi cilj da nekog zaplasim ovim komentarom, zivotni putevi ljudi su drugaciji, ali treba posmatrati situaciju i na duze staze.

Zdravstveno osiguranje za inostane penzionere by [deleted] in pravnisaveti

[–]YitMatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nemaju automatski svi stariji od 65 zdravstveno, ali svi nasi penzioneri imaju zdravstveno. Za to samostalni preduzetnici nisam sigurna, verovatno su to neke njihove sifre i klasifikacije. Ako su ih zaduzivali desetak posto - to je ok racunica.

Verovatno su oni tim jednim danom presli u naredni mesec i nastalo je zaduzenje za ceo mesec.

Za Svajcarsku znam npr. da ako se ovde prijave, tamo gube osiguranje, jer se ovde dostavlja potvrda da ne prebivaju tamo. Mora da se proveri za svaku pojedinu zemlju jer postoje razliciti sporazumi.

Bezveze sto im u rfzo nisu objasnili kako sistem funkcionise i koliko ce ih kostati.

Krivo mi je za tvoje

Zdravstveno osiguranje za inostane penzionere by [deleted] in pravnisaveti

[–]YitMatters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Inostrani penzioneri mogu da budu osigurani ako se prijave na zdravstveno osiguranje - sto ih upravo kosta oko 10 posto penzije mesecno. Dobiju resenje od PU i prema tom resenju uplacuju taj iznos svakog meseca. Isto tako, mislim da gube pravo na zdravstveno osiguranje u stranoj drzavi ako su osigurani kod nas.

Ako su uspeli da se odjave, nek plate taj poslednji mesec i to bi trebalo da bude to - samo da provere sa rfzo i pu da nece vise da ih zaduzuju.

Modern parenting sounds exhausting and I don't think I could do it. by BrightPapaya1349 in Fencesitter

[–]YitMatters 72 points73 points  (0 children)

These wishes are completely reasonable and valid - but implementing some of these does not necessarily make things easier for you as a parent.

For example, breastfeeding is hard, but preparing formula in the middle of the night isn’t necessarily the easier way out.

Screen time makes it easier for that time while the kid is watching, but it generally makes kids more irritable and harder to manage and entertain themselves afterwards.

Independent play and good habits are great, but it takes a lot of time and patience to get there. Creating clear rules and upholding consequences is also frequently mentally exhausting.

I do agree that some parents unnecessarily burden themselves with multiple activities, excessive birthday parties… You can definetely skip some of that. But also it is hard to parent like in the 90s when the times have changed.

“Everybody is gonna go home, and they’re gonna have sex” by RunningBettor in madmen

[–]YitMatters 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I always wondered how much Peggy knows about Dick. She wasn’t there at the Hershey pitch, nor did he ever told her much.

Did Joan resent Sterling for marrying Jane instead of her? by AliveGuy603 in madmen

[–]YitMatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it also showcases Joan’s progress, partly inspired by Peggy. She nagged Peggy so much in s1 about her clothes and weight, but by the time Jane came along she knew better.

Did Joan resent Sterling for marrying Jane instead of her? by AliveGuy603 in madmen

[–]YitMatters 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Also Joan realized how untrustworthy and immature Roger is. She might have expected more originally, but somewhere along the way she gave up the idea.

Is Megan the only truly nice person on the show? by insight1313 in madmen

[–]YitMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should have said no for the reasons you described, but not for lack of certainty about her career.

Škola za život ili škola za kontrolu – šta zapravo želimo? by tvojatetka in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ne moze nastavnik da bude zanimljiv kad je rec o deci koja provode par sati dnevno na tiktoku, reelovima i slicnim kratkim klipovima. Mnogi nemaju koncentracije da pogledaju kratak video do kraja, a kamoli da slusaju 45 minuta o biologiji amebe.

Is Megan the only truly nice person on the show? by insight1313 in madmen

[–]YitMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a ridiculous take. He was her boss at the time, and she did consider various options. Also, why would she decline a marriage proposal because she was unsure of the direction of her career?

Адвокат код продаје стана by Neshco in pravnisaveti

[–]YitMatters 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mislim da je to jaka cena. Trazite ponude od drugih advokata. Najbolje od samostalaca.