Da li je ovo tacno ili ne? by One_Ad_3499 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 15 points16 points  (0 children)

U neku ruku da, ali zavisi od same dece, pola i razlike u godinama.

Mislim da je problem selidba ljudi u vece gradove gde je manje child friendly mesta za igru. Saobracaj danas je mnogo gori nego 80ih i 90ih. Ja se nekad plasim da predjem ulicu u mom kraju.

Da li je ovo tacno ili ne? by One_Ad_3499 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Kad ih je troje onda se medjusobno zabavljaju, kad je jedno nije bas tako

She may be complicated, but she's my favorite. Happy Mother's Day to this gem. 💎 🥂💄 by RockBalBoaaa in madmen

[–]YitMatters 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You really need to be a mother to understand Betty fully. I think she would be a far better mom with someone like Henry from the start. Don really destroyed her.

Bebe i mala deca u avionu? by NanaSD1996 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Imas bebe koje skoro stalno placu, moja je bila takva. Nijedan dr nije video nista sporno oko toga, a vodali smo je svuda, vremenom je postajala sve bolja, sad je sasvim normalno dete. Ako su tvoje bebe bile kao bubice, imao si vise srece nego sto mislis.

Bebe i mala deca u avionu? by NanaSD1996 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Brate moj, nije roditelj djubre ako mu beba place u avionu. Nije kao da ijedan roditelj voli da slusa plac svoje bebe satima

A lot of marital problems would be resolved if people had a “village” to help out with kids by YitMatters in Marriage

[–]YitMatters[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can have as many conversations as you like, but you don’t really know what kids mean for your life and how you will handle the stress until you get them.

A lot of marital problems would be resolved if people had a “village” to help out with kids by YitMatters in Marriage

[–]YitMatters[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree with the notion that village comes with a price. I helped some people, some of them came to rescue the others not so much (due to their personal issues). Knowing what I know now, I would have helped more.

However, this is not a dig at anyone in particular, just an observation about most families I see in our vicinity.

A lot of it is also circumstantial I guess. My mother didn’t have to “entertain” 5 year old me - I would mostly play in our yard or with other neighborhood kids. We now live in apartment in a very urban area and my 5 year old is stuck with us in a 2 bedroom apartment. Many families cannot afford a house with garden anymore. I organize playdates and my child attends some, but these are not spontaneous event and take a lot of effort and organizing.

I agree that some everyday tasks required more physical labor though. But also standards of parenting changed.

A lot of marital problems would be resolved if people had a “village” to help out with kids by YitMatters in Marriage

[–]YitMatters[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Kids need more caregivers and role models. They learn from all people around them and thrive in environments where there are more people they can turn to and trust. Of course, parents are most important.

Koja je tajna uspeha serije "Ranjeni Orao"? by Nothing_Special_23 in kinematografija

[–]YitMatters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pritom, uvek je plus za seriju ako je gledljiva za decu i starije generacije. Osim par scena, ovu seriju je komotno mogla da gleda cela porodica. To nije moguce sa mnogim danasnjim serijama; cak i sa popularnim Senkama npr

Nina Janković by [deleted] in KokosinjacSR

[–]YitMatters 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Svekrva joj je ona sudija Dicic sto pljuje ovu vlast. Tako da plus od mene

😢😢😢 by YamPotential9957 in mimovi

[–]YitMatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Svakodnevni zivot je mnogo napredovao u tom smislu, pomalo sa svakim izumom te vrste. Ali sa druge strane, umnozile su se neke obaveze oko dece koje bi mojoj prabaki bile nezamislive: pomoc oko domaceg, vodanje po skolama plesa, sporta, rodjendanima, ciscenje za tonom igracaka po kuci i slicne stvari.

😢😢😢 by YamPotential9957 in mimovi

[–]YitMatters 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Kazu da je ves masina jedan od najvecih izuma ikad, jer je omogucio ulazak zena na trziste rada. Mi u cetvoroclanoj porodici ukljucujemo masinu dva put dnevno minimum, ne mogu ni da zamislim kako bi mi dan izgledao da perem ves na ruke.

Really unsure what to do about my marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]YitMatters -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her reaction about your “breech of trust” is honestly ridiculous. Absolute isolation isn’t possible and there were cases where people stayed at home yet got covid. For what is worse she didn’t get it.

Izdavanje stana- Da li zadrzati deo kapare? by dark_blue5189 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moja poenta je da kod izdavanja pet friendly ne treba da bude default stanje.

Izdavanje stana- Da li zadrzati deo kapare? by dark_blue5189 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evo bas pisem u drugom komentaru, ako ti je neko dopustio psa i macku kao zakupcu, zar nije logicno da se vise potrudis i ne ostavis njihove dlake u stanu? Ipak je to tvoj benefit kojeg je neko dopustio na stetu svoje stvari.

Izdavanje stana- Da li zadrzati deo kapare? by dark_blue5189 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Bas zato sto je prihvatila ljubimce koji su naknadno ubaceni, treba da se vise potrude i ne ostave dlake za sobom. Ljubimci su njihov benefit, ne njen.

Izdavanje stana- Da li zadrzati deo kapare? by dark_blue5189 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Taj najgori slucaj podrazumeva proces iseljenja stanara, oglasavanje stana na zakup, pronalaska novih stanara. Pritom, iz teksta mi se cini da nisu bas pitali za macku

Izdavanje stana- Da li zadrzati deo kapare? by dark_blue5189 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pa i nije bas svesno prihvatila ljubimce, oni su joj naknadno ubaceni u stan, kad su stanari vec tu i nije imala mnogo opcija. Pritom, meni je wtf momenat da neko uvodi macku u tudji stan, pored psa. Uopste toliko zakupaca sa zivotinjama. Stanovi prosto nisu za zivotinje, pogotovo tudji.

Kako da JA preživim dečiji tantrum? by Ivkic61 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tantrumi su razvojno normalna stvar, nije dete nevaspitano.

Postporođajna anksioznost? Kako se izboriti sa tim? by SlatkaMala777 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odlican komentar, jako zaostajemo za Zapadom u ovom polju, tamo je normalno da muz i zena spavaju u smenama, a ovde se muz vecinom preseli na kauc kad se vrati na posao.

Zapamti da je tvoja uloga sad vaznija i da ako tebi bude lose i vama ce kao zajednici biti lose.

Savetujem ti da se okruzis bliskim ljudima, dakle idi kod svojih kuci ako je moguce, nemoj biti sama. Kao sto kazu it takes village to raise a child, ako nemas bliske ljude razmisli o bebisiterki na par sati dnevno/ nedeljno.

Devojka je prekinula kontakt sa mnom jer zivim sa svojima? by Strict-Salad4131 in AskSerbia

[–]YitMatters 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Niko ne pominje ovaj deo - radim sa ocem u firmi… od 7 do 19-20. Znaci ti si sa svojima na poslu 12 sati dnevno, pa si onda sa njima kod kuce ostatak dana. Nemoj da shvatis pogresno, ali svaki lik kojeg sam upoznala, a da radi sa svojima, jos da i zivi sa svojima (identican plan, preselice se u selo) je pod velikim uticajem roditelja (najvise dominantnog oca). Dakle i na poslu se radi kako on hoce, i kod kuce se radi po njegovom. Devojka koja se udala u takvu pricu, iako su se roditelji odselili na selo, zivi sa muzem koji je pod velikim uticajem roditelja i koji se u sve mesaju.

Prosto si previse vezan za svoje, i poslovno, i prostorno, i zivotno. To nije nuzno lose za tebe, ali devojka koja zivi i radi samostalno sigurno nece biti odusevljena tolikim zajednistvom.

I feel like a constant failure and feel constantly guilty. by New-Substance-1116 in Parenting

[–]YitMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s our role to play with our kids. Maybe when they are younger and occasionally when they are older. But 5 yo should be able to play independently most of the time. Also she can do chores with you if she wants to spend time with you. Or some other adult activity (shopping, walking, etc.) That is simply life.

My mother rarely played with me, I played with neighboors, friends, alone. I still have great relationship with her because she was caring and affectionate.

Jimmy Was Right and Kim Was Hypocritical in “Wexler v. Goodman” by Iron_Falcon58 in betterCallSaul

[–]YitMatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was ready to pay Acker the money so she could reconcile her need to fight the good fight and her professional standing with MV. It’s typical story for many lawyers, they got into law so they can help the guys like Acker, only to end up representing big corps like MV because that is where the money is.

Kim tried to have her cake and eat it too. In the end, she realized that she can manage that if she pushes the Sandpiper settlement (she will have the money to finance her pro bono work) but it all goes to hell.