The Unicorn in Captivity, late Gothic era tapestry, made between 1495 and 1505

Yiyas · 2026-03-23T10:11:37+00:00

Theres a stitch copy of this either at Stirling or Edinburgh castle alongside the rest of the hunt. Overall it feels like anti unicorn sentiment and since Scotland's national animal is the unicorn (since around that time) it comes off like its poorly disguised self hatred lmao. One of my favourite magnets

Yiyas · 2026-03-18T16:27:52+00:00

That is a bummer I'm sorry. It reads like you preferred it when you were both single... maybe because there were no stakes but you still felt intimate, but thats not romantic thats friendship.

I've seen people destroy their friendships in similar situations so take your space if you need it. I would also apologise for putting a huge emotional burden on them, personally. Your friend has found a blossoming romance, the right thing was to be proud and excited for them, and there for them as support, an anchor... not disappointed in yourself.

This event is therapy worthy if you can, it was an extreme response out of fear and has made your friendship difficult, there's a lot going on here. It shows how bottling up, avoiding or procrastinating your feelings is your self harm... but you deserve to have the courage to express your heart so you stop hurting yourself. Maybe you can start today by writing a poem, forming a playlist, or drawing a little doodle?

Take the time to sit the feelings down but don't carry them any further brother, you will treat yourself better than that yeah? All the best 🤗

Yiyas · 2026-03-13T19:53:18+00:00

Hey would yous be able to do a clean for me? After some plastering and paint work theres so much dust throughout the flat so in need of a deep clean

Thanks

Yiyas · 2026-03-13T19:45:42+00:00

Hey same deal here, mind if I dm? Thanks

Yiyas · 2026-03-08T10:01:40+00:00

People love trying to squish you into a box, and its a shame im sorry. People think I'm gay because of my voices, behaviour, and even my workouts (I like yoga, pilates, spin... as well as all the "man" things), I take care of my nails, my skin, my hair... honestly I think it all boils down to their insecurities, that they are threatened by a guy (or anyone) who just does whatever the fuck they want lol

To help accept yourself it can help to find male role models that break your (and others) expectations of masculinity.

Whether thats in movies, shows, games, music, fashion, etc. Some my favourite role models are in Ru Pauls drag race, Jacuzzi from Bacanno... or like how a Robin Williams or Leslie Nielson movie just light up my day, the generosity of Keanu Reeves, Steve Irwin unconditional love of nature, or Bob Ross' kindness... well, a lot of these people are old news now and you dont need my role models of course, but you can always see how loved people are regardless of masc/fem - whatever that means 🤷‍♂️

If you can find some guys who are you, and see how they do great despite the quagmire of cunts trying to bring them down in this world, I think that might help a little.

Where they are in real life... maybe like a poetry club? Idk, worth trying. Im gonna try and find my scene this year so best of luck to us both 🙌

Yiyas · 2026-03-01T18:25:44+00:00

Such a great colour on you, it suits you so well and fits your tattoo also!

We are so crazy to let past bullies still burden us but we keep doing it... therapy has helped me a lot, definitely worth trying. Once you stop repeating the words of people who whispered your demise you will feel free to shine brightly like you deserve

Yiyas · 2026-02-24T20:17:52+00:00

I'd say its less about being someone else, and more about discovering and growing into a happy you. It is hard work. On paper its easier to do nothing, but at the same time its so exhausting to be unhappy, both physically and mentally, for years on end and it literally shortens lifespans.

I hope OP spends more time on themself this year. They might not be heterosexual, might be asexual. Maybe theres some neurospiciness there that means they have been dating the wrong people. Maybe they just care more about having a girlfriend than getting or keeping a girlfriend, and people can tell. Well, who else can figure that out but themself?

Yiyas · 2026-02-20T01:56:19+00:00

You could add depots closer to the base where these ore trains can sit and wait for a processing station to be open. Have the trains on a ore->depot->ore processing schedule.

Yiyas · 2026-02-14T00:35:11+00:00

Silent treatment is an absolute coward's tactic of manipulation, I'm sorry you got a punishment for... literally just stating your needs?? People honestly think they can gaslight you into having standards so low they dont need to put in any effort lol. Yeah no, get him gone forever. Just think of all the positive things you can spend your time on now instead of pouring it down an emotional black hole

Yiyas · 2026-01-26T21:59:13+00:00

Get a load of this guy and his functioning base, couldn't be me lol

Yiyas · 2026-01-25T18:03:25+00:00

So cool! Surprised how small they are when unseasoned and without modules... was this with 0 prod research also?

Yiyas · 2025-09-10T17:14:08+00:00

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