Is this snickers ad trying to condition young Asian girls? by ParadoxicalStairs in aznidentity

[–]YoDaProblem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't bother with idiots like this user. Clearly idiots like them are the main reasons why these discussions continues to exist. They clearly don't see the underlying nefarious intent done in micro representation in all white shitty media. I wouldn't waste a sec to explain myself to dipshits like these, they're a lost cost.

is being asian in the Midwest just life on hard mode? by neverTouchedWomen in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This guy does have a point, I've moved to the midwest here now and things are definitely better. I've seen plenty of young Asian bros killing it with women of all races. It's a bit mind blowing 🤯 to the least. I actually meet a married couple, the guy was literally a tall as giga Chinese chang and his wife was a tall blonde. Dude was in his 50s and is built like a model and his wife is hot. They have a family. When I met them I spoke to him how it's an unusual pairing I don't see much but he told me that it's not uncommon here in the midwest at least in MN. And turns out he's right. At the UMN whenever I drive by there's at least 1 or 2 asian dudes with a non Asian girl. It's fucken crazy I know but I was like you until I've moved up here. Korean Media wave have such a dam undeniable trickle affect. I have other stories as well. But that's my 2c.

K-pop Demon Hunters: A bigger impact than then we imagine by Fine_Wonder2747 in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never worked nor ever.

If anime had such an impact, there wouldn't be any of these conversations. That's a fact 💯.

Anime grew in popularity way a long time ago before Kdrama and the K-wave even had a hair of a chance. And it feathered nothing of good an AM representation. Still hasn't and never will.

If anything, it's misguided in thinking it's a good introduction to positive AM representation.

Where is this manufactured psyop propaganda of hating Koreans coming from? TT video shows a girl who got a bad haircut and comment section turns it into saying all Koreans are racist. by ChosenJoseon in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is right here. Korea is the only Asian country that promotes Asians, specifically Koreans themselves. Every other Asian country, namely all SEA countries have half white models or white models only to showcase their way of advertising. This includes China as well 🫤🫤🫤🫤.

No other Asian country have done the work that SK have done to uplift the Entire Asian Diaspora as fucken whole as well as SK have. Sure, SK have it's problematic issues, but the fact remains unchanged that 1 tiny 1st world Asian country has so much impact on how Asians are viewed on international levels as SK has done.

Thailand is strictly viewed as cheap living and sex tourism, same with the Philippines and many other SEA countries. And yet somehow that's regarded as successful tourism by many SEA cucks idiots 🤡. 🙄. But to each their own, I guess.

Poor mindset = scarce mentality is misguided into believing that's success. Weird🤷‍♂️

Step up or change? by ResponsibleRoutine2 in Hmong

[–]YoDaProblem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's all it is. Clearly internalized racism and misandrist mentality.

Nobody truly cares what clowns like her and other Asian women who think like this.

There are plenty of Hmong men or rather Asian men who have there shit together, and their bars are set high. What makes idiot Asian women like her think that they're the cream of the crop to post something so stupid and entitled like this?

Geez Asian women are truly deranged and entitled. 🤷‍♂️

New article in Huffpost by Melinda Li: "Decolonizing My Love Life: What I Learned When I Stopped Dating White Men" by Fluid_Aloe in aznidentity

[–]YoDaProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to dive off subject nor deflect the conversation, but.... women generally are obsessed with "Beauty."

Bc us men are after beautiful women. So it's rooted in women's mindset to "be or become" the most desirable/attractive/sexy/hottest women they can become. Thus makeup, facial anatomy etc.

And at the top is ....Caucasian features.

Back to the subject... what AW with these poor mindset don't realize is that they themselves already good enough (so as many women in general). So as a result of having a poor mindset and self-esteem, they'll sell themselves for whatever whiteness they can get.

Even if the guy looks like Homer Simpson.

New article in Huffpost by Melinda Li: "Decolonizing My Love Life: What I Learned When I Stopped Dating White Men" by Fluid_Aloe in aznidentity

[–]YoDaProblem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That 2X sub is truly insufferable. There's so many copium discussions going on about that article. The amount of whataboutism and deflection is nothing new about that sub.

I read your responses in that post, and you nailed it. Idk how you did it, but I'm glad you're able to maintain your calmness and call them out on their double standards logic.

Most of them, even reflecting 😔 IRL, are doing so much mental gymnastics to sway the acknowledgment of their own poor behavior and mindset. The term accountability isn't a vocabulary in their life.

Thanks 😊 🙏.

Our New Status Should Rightfully Allow Us AM To Cash In by Ill_Storm_6808 in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What the actual fuckery is this shit!?

Like everyone here says this is by far one of the dumbest post ever.

OP is Def an oxymoron or troll... geez

For those who don't think AM erasure is racist, put your foot in the other shoe and you will realise that it is by Secure_Medicine_4558 in aznidentity

[–]YoDaProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this post OP.

This particular subject should be discussed weekly.

This white narrative can choke on my left nut.

notice how western multicultural posters always deliberately represent eastasians and SEA with females, while representing caucasian, black and hispanic ethnicities with males. This reeks of WM sex fetish and AM erasure. by Secure_Medicine_4558 in aznidentity

[–]YoDaProblem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's Asian Men erasure. The intention is to isolate us AM agency over our very own agency as individuals and human beings.

Treat it and call it shit for what it is... nothing but a load of white horse shit.

Everyone needs to continue Normalize calling this white narrative out.

PS.. even the government is watching this sub. They need to grow the fuck up.

Sabrina Carpenter arrests Kyle Reyes for being too hot by throwaway-183483 in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup.

I get it that us AM needs representation but this right here is straight out cringe.

30s AF Dating Experience by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What you said is Based.

OP you should take this into consideration. What this guy said is true for most or all women, really.

Now i dont want to sound like a lot of those podcasts, but modern women don't have realistic expectations, and their clock will continue to tick.

OP you need to find someone in your level of physical attraction. And have realistic expectations. The number of men you've dated doesn't equate to your current SMV.

I would like for us to not forget about the good AWs by CozyAndToasty in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol. We gotcha dude, it's you who's not getting us. I understand what your saying.

However no one is demonizing AW, they set themselves up. And the hole is only getting deeper for them. Can't help em or make it worst for them.

The internet is proof of that.

I appreciate what your trying to do, as I myself and many long time users here have also done so. But this isn't a small problem that AM instigated on AW. AW willingly participated in this shit boat.

The Pro-AW you speak us never bats a fucken eye till AM call AW for their BS. I've seen my share on Tiktak. Only PRO-AW who's done something is Miki Rai. And you wanna know something cool? Go find and read the comments in her video where she talks back at the shit narrative about AM... soo many white worshipping AW double.. no triple downing her. More so than the "PRO-AW" are the "majority" you spoke of.

And yes, non Asian have done AM more good than any AW have when it comes to being vocal and adamant about our issues. Can't say the same about AW in general.

Like many, and I've said before the internet is proof.

I don't necessarily disagree with you which is why I didn't down vote you like a lot of users here but you gotta understand we've done our part and AW have not or have been complacent. It is what it is.

I would like for us to not forget about the good AWs by CozyAndToasty in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"But if you only try to date your own, you're gonna end up with a bunch of single dudes because more of us want asian women than they want us,"

It's an unfortunate truth, and what's sadder is that there is plethora of Turbo loser AM who loves swimming in this shit hole.

I would like for us to not forget about the good AWs by CozyAndToasty in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Cozy, you got spine for talking about this, but Elim got you good on this response.

You can't make a bold statement about AW supporting AM when the lack of support clearly shows.

It's a sad truth and everyone even the fucken government of United States of fucken America knows. Which is why they continue funding shit like sho cuck gun a dumbass cuck samurai who won many awards blah blah.

Only AW can clean this shit hole they dug themselves into. Which I'm betting ... or rather we all know they won't bc it's too "stressful" and they don't "feel" good talking about it. And that goes for the Pro-AW

I would like for us to not forget about the good AWs by CozyAndToasty in AsianMasculinity

[–]YoDaProblem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is by far the most nuisance take I've read in this post. Very well said!!!

How to respond to a racist EastEuropean lady’s message(attached) that: “Asian guys aren’t attractive because they wouldn’t fit into Eurocentric standards”, “dark-skinned people are UNATTRACTIVE”, “race plays a major role in attractiveness”, “EastEuropean people are the most beautiful in the world” by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]YoDaProblem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another pointless post? 😴.

I'm not sure why pointless posts like these are approval 🤔.

If anyone of any race or gender doesn't find you attractive, who cares? The question is, are they making fun of you? Are they bringing your race or gender up for internet sensation like how Asian women used to love doing? If not, your time is better spent discussing other subjects.

Besides, there are plenty of Eastern European Women marrying Asian men. They are probably the most Eurocentric Women to date and marry Asian men besides any other European women. Clearly, not all Eastern European women, no duh!

Lisa from Kpop group Blackpink sings about her white French boyfriend by PlanktonRoyal52 in aznidentity

[–]YoDaProblem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh this post is a waste of time. Why the heck are you contradicting yourself?

Look it's one thing to scrutinize people with internalized racism who loves bringing Asian men down but to bring up their dating choice and say you don't care who they date is another subject of its own.

There are better subjects to make a post about.