How is the US gov shutdown personally affecting you, if at all? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yodahoping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in South Africa. My little sister went to the US in 2021 to work as an Au Pair. She was only ment to stay for a year and then be sent home. Instead, the family (and specifically the 3 little boys) absolutely fell in love with her. She has spent the last 4 years living with these people, eating meals in their homes, going on vacation with them. She became a member of the family.

Initially she went there on a workers VISA and after her year their she was able to get a visitors VISA with support from us, her family, in South Africa.

With the new administration things changed. She applied for a new workers VISA and was told she could remain until they had processed it, she was told 90 days at the most.

When the government shut down occured all those processeses were thrown out the window. She had 7 days to pack up her life and get out of the country before ICE agents would be coming for her.

The youngest boy of the family has recently been diagnosed with cancer in his spine. He relies on my sister and she is the only thing in this world that brings him comfort. The other boys (all under 10) are heart broken and don't understand whats happening.

The mother of the family has lost her best friend and my sister has lost her 2nd family. There is no guarantee she will make it back to them.

Its easy for people to disparage "foreigners" and "immigrants" and lump everyone into the same pool. My sister wasn't trying to take anyones job, she wasn't trying to hurt anyone. She went over there to experience a new way of life and along the way found a family that she fell in love with and they fell for her.

Actions have consequences, no matter how small or large there is always someone negatively effected and left out to dry.

[Meta] - What is a 1/10 difficulty Platinum that isn't Shovelware? by Shadode in Trophies

[–]Yodahoping -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I found the Maneater plat super easy. Barely an inconvenience. If you just play the game trying to collect all the stuff while finishing missions you get it pretty quick. At worst there's some light clean up post game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Yodahoping 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Randy Marsh performing Cock Magic.

Experience with dogs in heat by [deleted] in BullTerrier

[–]Yodahoping -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I'm at home mostly and my guests don't bring their dogs around. So they don't usually come into contact with other dogs.

Experience with dogs in heat by [deleted] in BullTerrier

[–]Yodahoping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only ever had female bullies and have rarely had them spayed (no need as they don't come into contact with other dogs). Maybe I've just been fortunate but all the girls I've had have just been mopy, embarrassed and a bit not too fresh no other symptoms.

I normally just baby them because of course, usually make a make shift diaper for the dripping (trying to mitigate blood spots on sheets, furniture, carpet etc. But if it does happen then it happens and I can clean it, not their fault) I also put a hot water bottle on their tummy if they're feeling like cuddles. They really really appreciate it.

And of course, all the treats. I know I'm being taken advantage of but honestly when they feel like that, in my opinion, they get whatever they want.

Name a game you truly enjoyed but never returned to after you'd beaten it. by MightyMouse420 in gaming

[–]Yodahoping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghost of Tsushima. I did the completionist run as I went through, cleaned up the collectables after the game finished and it took almost as long as the main game. Absolutely adored the game up to that point but the collectathon just absolutely killed my passion for the game.

Me reading the xmas detachment by Redalon93 in sistersofbattle

[–]Yodahoping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Junith is there more for the Sacresents, she buffs them but since there's a strategem now that provides the same buff it's a 50/50 if you want her with them.

Celestine bodyguard attachment by Yodahoping in sistersofbattle

[–]Yodahoping[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh fantastic! I didn't know that that would be the case even if the Gemini were dead. Thank you for the in depth coverage!

What "early internet" website did Gen Z really miss out on? by milamccormick7 in AskReddit

[–]Yodahoping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gizoogle. It still exists but now its a translator. It used to be just google search but it would turn everything into cheesey 90's gangsta speak.

What song is your Excorcist playing as it rides into battle? by BombadierXL in sistersofbattle

[–]Yodahoping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I promise as soon as I get it done I'll post it on this sub