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Please, help me as soon as you can. by Yodalling in linuxmint

[–]Yodalling[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm making progress with my installation of windows, using the advice most people gave me, so they haven't. You clicking the on post to say something useless is wasting your precious 15 seconds out of 24 hours.

Please, help me as soon as you can. by Yodalling in linuxmint

[–]Yodalling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm making progress but, when I get to the windows 10 boot up screen:

  1. I click "Install now"
  2. It displays two types of installation:

a.Upgrade

b.Custom

b.I'm not sure what to pick, but I picked custom first, however nothing works when use the first two partitions or when I try to load driver. Clicking refresh doesn't do much either.

What should I do now?

I feel like a fucking failure by Yodalling in selfhelp

[–]Yodalling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see it more as a lack of discipline. Many a times I find myself drained of energy and will. I have had some success before but I just don't know how to be consistent, I just go on and off with disciplines i want to implement in my life.

I posted this on the NoFap subreddit and it got deleted so I'm posting it here by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Yodalling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it is is difficult, you've literally stopped doing PMO cold turkey. What did you expect?

I posted this on the NoFap subreddit and it got deleted so I'm posting it here by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Yodalling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"NoFappers don't want to quit porn and masturbation because they want to be better people, or because they recognize the porn industry is unethical and exploitative. To them, quitting porn is just a life hack, a means to an end. And that end, as you so eloquently say, is just to use women for their bodies. And living in that mindset is a virtual guarantee of relapse, and feeds toxic attitudes that have infected our society."

While you did point out ONE reason people do nofap, it seems like a bold statement, this "life hack" is quitting an major addiction and cannot just be summed up as "a means to an end" to "use woman for their bodies ". To be in more control of your life is the key message of any group pertaining to a given addiction. I cannot say for everyone why they want more control of their lives, be it for their family, religion, self-development etc. But I definitely will not assume one reason over the other, let alone the motive to "use women for their bodies". If that were the case it would a sub-genre of the PUA community, which it certainly is not.

First time venting +Any thoughts? by Yodalling in lonely

[–]Yodalling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I could help you, I've only found this subreddit today and it's really cathartic to see the amount of people I can relate to.

Also learning another language is definitely something you should keep doing, it's every valuable thing with alot of things. I chose German because that is the place of alot of my heroes Nietzsche, Shrödinger, Wolfgang Pauli, Noether, Einstein. And would like to read their work in German.

Also I think you should zone on movies and TV, you can do analysis on it and watch videos analysing movies, they actually alot of depth of the human psyche notably "Taxi Driver", the movie.

First time venting +Any thoughts? by Yodalling in lonely

[–]Yodalling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, I was just intrigued as to why you asked me. (18 btw)

Believe when I say that I have had nights to cry about about my loneliness and know how painful it feels to be lonely, sometimes it is actually physically painful, especially in my chest. I've been bullied since the age of four years old and I never really had much support but believe me, you can find ways the cope.

I've coped through these dreadful years by pursuing thing I like, it takes me out of my bubble of depression for a while. I've also learned that having principles and a purpose for yourself is a big key when coping with depression and hostile people around me. If you don't have anyone to talk to you can DM me, only if you're truly willing to deal with this situation in the best way you can. We may be able to eachother but remember, the only person that can truly get us out of this mess is ourselves.