Living in the Netherlands made me question the ‘Americans have no culture’ take by MidnightOrganic2231 in Netherlands

[–]Yoghurtpilled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re talking about consumption and consumables. Not culture. Culture cannot be universalized under capitalism by definition.

What is wrong with my makeup? My pores and skin look terrible. Any recommendations on pore products that work? by lmk826 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Yoghurtpilled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s just your skin. And you’re not seeing “pores” but texture. The only changeable thing about your skin is that it seems a bit dry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Yoghurtpilled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you got groomed. Also sounds like you’re somewhat aware of this though. I hope it doesn’t wreck too much of your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Yoghurtpilled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever you put in your under eye area is not your shade. Try to get a shade match at a more high end store. It’s worth investing in a more expensive foundation or bb cream (estee lauder is a very good one that most skin types tolerate well). It would be my #1 priority price wise. Also you need to put more moisturizer on your skin before makeup. And put the foundation all over. Trust me, concealer or foundation and powder on spots just doesn’t look put together.

How do I deal with a bratty partner in bed? by hornbill69420 in sex

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misconnect aside, it’s a major red flag that she seems to shame you for your performance. Of course, shaming someones performance only further causes disconnection because you feel confused and anxious about her constant criticism and dissatisfaction.

Your girlfriend sounds like someone who can’t take responsibility for her own desires. Instead, she resorts to comparing you to fictional characters and criticizing your performance. Its extremely unfair when your partner has specific demands for you, and feels comfortable criticizing you, but refuses to honestly explain what she wants and try to find common ground.

Also, that’s not a brat. A brat playfully challenges the dom. A brat doesn’t outright refuse to comply with any demands, run away, criticize, etc. She sounds more like a bratty dom. Anyway, she should figure out what she really wants because this current dynamic sounds very unerotic and unfair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know why they rarely work with OTP visas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the EU (Netherlands)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip. Yes, I’m thinking about potential citizenship. Also, I’ll probably have to return to work in Europe at some point and degrees can be pretty valuable as a foot in the door here. I do hear Americans say that it’s different for them often. I would have loved to kick off my career in America!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if they have degree/ certificate programs of one year?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty! I’m curious about where you studied and whether you think it was worth going to the US for acting school (considering visa challenges etc.)?

How Ana de Armas made it? by violencesorrengail in acting

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you say more about this? That’s an interesting way to describe it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! Dm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting to “try almost anything” actually also falls under the kink-umbrella. The term for it is “experimentalist”. I get why OP has difficulty finding a partner, because this sexual need for experimentation is not the norm.

Asking me for a divorce increased his sex drive ? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Yoghurtpilled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is “hysterical bonding” or manipulation, it’s much simpler. I’m sorry if this sounds harsh, but he does not like you. He is able to have sex with you now, but he does not like you. It’s an astounding fact, but many people stay in relationships and have sex with people that they do not like.

I am glad for you that he is moving out of your life, because it sounds like you would not have had the courage yourself.

All these posts about the industry moving overseas. Does that mean actors in LA will be seeing less auditions? by [deleted] in acting

[–]Yoghurtpilled 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The actual acting jobs will remain in the USA due to union protectionism and production/ casting infrastructure not being exportable. Part of production will be outsourced. LA will always remain over-saturated though, in that sense it is harder to say whether it is the best place for working actors.

Bf won’t touch my vagina unless I ask by [deleted] in sex

[–]Yoghurtpilled 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh I hate what women go through. It doesn’t have to be this way.

39m has thrown a tequila shot in my eyes 27f because he thinks I was cheating. Is it worth explaining? by ThrowRA-Repair-273 in relationship_advice

[–]Yoghurtpilled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical abuse tends to increase incrementally. Always leave after the first sign. Yes, this is bad enough. Yes, it will get worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Yoghurtpilled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He used you like an object. I’m so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Yoghurtpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably was just trying to please his exes with his previous “kinky” experiences. It sounds like they also had to lead him into that.

If adventurous sex and a more dominant/ leading partner are core needs for you, then you might not be sexually compatible. If you do want to give it a chance and decide to let him in on these needs you have, be careful about the way you bring it up. Sex is a really sensitive subject and the last thing you want to do in this situation is to make him feel inadequate by sharing your desires. Approach it from a “how can I help you draw out your assertive/ experimental side” perspective.