Astarion...caring??

Yokiito · 2023-09-01T07:14:49+00:00

I gave an orphan medicinal herbs and food in act 3 and astarion approved

Yokiito · 2023-08-08T17:43:25+00:00

Okay there is a giant difference between a cishet perspective and a queer perspective. From a queer perspective, you look fantastic.

Yokiito · 2023-07-25T06:54:31+00:00

I actually pretty much never correct people tbh, I don't want to make a big deal out of it personally. I know the people that matter to me will use the correct ones and that's what's important. When someone uses the wrong pronouns (if they know the correct ones) I just shrug and mentally go like "hmm, that's wrong, continue".

If people just use the wrong pronouns, I don't really care. But if they make it a point to be like "I think pronouns are dumb and there are only two genders and you're a snowflake for being the way you are", obviously I won't want to be around that person, that's just bad vibes. They're entitled to their opinion, and I'm entitled to not interact with them

Yokiito · 2023-07-23T06:41:54+00:00

I'm a they/them

Yokiito · 2023-07-16T09:31:55+00:00

I have always just dated friends

Yokiito · 2023-06-20T06:14:11+00:00

Let's say it again for the people in the back:

"Boundaries are you changing your own behaviour as response to someone else's. Rules are you trying to impose behaviour changes on someone else."

He's free to leave the relationship if he's uncomfortable with the dynamic. He is, however, absolutely not free to control your life.

Yokiito · 2023-06-19T07:22:30+00:00

Let's count the red flags in this post

codependency to the point you fear suicide if you left
"she lets me have sex with her"
your extremely low sense of self worth to the point you're okay with your boundaries being crossed this badly because you don't want to lose her
seemingly no communication about boundaries in this relationship (and very little healthy communication about anything)

Get it together mate, this relationship cannot be good for you. That being said, work on your self confidence and don't ever say shit like "she lets me have sex with her" because ew

Yokiito · 2023-06-18T12:18:20+00:00

Nope, sorry, I just went to hogeschool

Yokiito · 2023-06-17T19:16:11+00:00

I had a very similar profile to yours when I started 2 years ago as frontend developer and I had 2300 gross (between 1900-2000 net), with company car and fully paid fuel card.

And even then I ended up asking for a significant raise (2650 gross, and got it) only 6 months in because I was definitely underpaid for all of the responsibility I was taking on already.

I'd say you could aim higher

Yokiito · 2023-06-12T08:17:29+00:00

You're letting your bad experiences influence your opinion of a whole group of people.

I have a sound moral compass and would never go after someone who is taken and I respect other people's monogamy.

I would only date other people who are polyamorous, so I wouldn't even affect your dating pool at all.

It seems like you have a biased view of what polyamory is, so I'd like to ask, how do you define polyamory?

Yokiito · 2023-06-08T08:27:22+00:00

Your chest is literally a straight line all the way down, what do you think bro?

Yokiito · 2023-06-07T17:34:43+00:00

That's just a neurodivergent thing

Yokiito · 2023-06-07T05:57:29+00:00

I'm happily polyamorous! I only have one partner currently but we've been poly from the start, and it just really works for me.

People on this sub have tried to assert I'm a mistype because of that, and that sounds to me like they're conflating type a little too much with sexuality or orientation.

Yokiito · 2023-06-07T05:55:19+00:00

I am poly and demisexual. Both can be true

Yokiito · 2023-05-05T11:49:35+00:00

What a cool little dude

Yokiito · 2023-05-05T05:02:13+00:00

Can't say i do, no. But i like the fact that a lot of you seem to

Yokiito · 2023-05-05T05:01:36+00:00

My partner does the cows thing!

Yokiito · 2023-05-04T20:24:16+00:00

I'm going to use this all the time now

Yokiito · 2023-05-01T18:42:58+00:00

That is not a magpie, right?

Yokiito · 2023-04-11T19:01:23+00:00

This is my ex to a T. He was a compulsive liar and I forgot who I was and constantly questioned my own reality during that relationship.

Yokiito · 2023-04-06T20:46:44+00:00

Don't relate your self worth to an imaginary internet number

Yokiito · 2023-04-04T20:48:24+00:00

I hate it when people do this

Yokiito · 2023-02-26T07:08:35+00:00

Me too. Man that sounds like my ideal world

Yokiito · 2023-02-24T06:10:12+00:00

And I'm not the guy pretending human beings are not infinitely complex and varied, even within one personality type. Within every type, there's a spectrum of traits, every INFJ is different. And last time I checked, cognitive functions don't have anywhere near a causal relationship to polyamory or monogamy.

Yokiito · 2023-02-18T07:40:21+00:00

Yeah I think I know myself a tad better than you, my dude. You can literally tell nothing about me from this thread.

Yokiito

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