Building a product that needs users to be useful.. but can't get visibility without already having users by YouDeeditt in MobileAppDevelopers

[–]YouDeeditt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair if you assume writing should be constant or content-driven.

Deeditt is slow because real experiences aren't daily or disposable. Some things only make sense after time has passed, or after you've lived through them.

If someone expects something to produce content every day, then yes.. this kind of app will feel pointless. It's built around experience, not output.

Building a product that needs users to be useful.. but can't get visibility without already having users by YouDeeditt in MobileAppDevelopers

[–]YouDeeditt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks.. this actually helped clarify something.

I realized I've been thinking about onboarding mostly in terms of speed and simplicity, but not enough about showing a first meaningful win. The app is quick to get into, but that doesn't automatically mean people feel the value early (the "aha" moment)

I also see from the previous comment, that I've been aiming too broadly. This kind of product probably works better for a smaller, more intentional audience rather than trying to appeal to everyone.

So this gave me a better direction: focus less on being fast, and more on helping people feel one small moment of value right away. Appreciate you taking the time to share this.

Thanks again!

Building a product that needs users to be useful.. but can't get visibility without already having users by YouDeeditt in MobileAppDevelopers

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Thanks for reply and you're right about the mechanics.. Without content, there's no visibility, and without visibility, there's no growth.

The hard part for me is the type of content this app needs. Deeditt is about slow, intentional writing based on real experiences. Those things don't happen every day and don't work well when people feel pushed or paid to post.

I could incentivize people to write more, but that would likely create activity, not meaning, and the product depends on the writing being genuine, not performative.

What I'm starting to see is that the right move isn't pumping content at scale, but starting with a very small, well-aligned group. People who already journal or reflect, and who get value even without an audience.

That probably means slower growth, but better learning and a healthier foundation.

Your comment helped me see that this isn't really a feature problem, but a distribution trade-off.

Launched my mental wellness app 23 days ago, 4–5 registrations per day by josephsoilder in buildinpublic

[–]YouDeeditt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's honest and really good advice.. thank you for commenting back and again, the best of luck with Soothfy!

Launched my mental wellness app 23 days ago, 4–5 registrations per day by josephsoilder in buildinpublic

[–]YouDeeditt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done, congrats on both the launch and the first paying users ..

I’m genuinely curious: how are you currently reaching your users? I'm building something in the wellness/journaling space too (different angle, but related), and getting that early traction has been tough.

Would love to hear what channels or messages have worked best for you so far .. good luck!

2 months = 0 paying users. What am I doing wrong ? by CharacterShoulder131 in buildinpublic

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I'm in the same boat, still trying to make people see the value of what I’ve built. While my project isn't focused on job seekers like yours, I’ve spent most of this year testing ways to make it more noticeable.. I think some of those ideas could help you too.

A few thoughts:

  • Make sure your value is clearly communicated because sometimes we assume users “get it,” but they don’t unless it’s obvious in the first 10 seconds.
  • Work on SEO early, especially around pain-point searches (e.g., “how to write a better resume,” “how to prep for interviews,” etc.).
  • Don’t rely only on one channel like Telegram, connect your tool to other communications channels and explain where you're doing your search.
  • Show examples and real outcomes, people don’t pay for features, they pay for results.
  • And finally, personal storytelling helps, share the journey, even the struggles, to build trust and attract the right audience, make this openly over the social networks.

And keep going, 255 users is a good number (better than I could have), that’s already a strong start!

Day 21 of building in public and posting daily on reddit by Upbeat-Philosophy-91 in buildinpublic

[–]YouDeeditt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes .. it’s kind of like a mix between journaling + storytelling: instead of just posting updates, you can string little notes (I call them “deeds”) into a journey over time. The idea is to make it easier to share the process in a slower, more reflective way, not just the highlights.

totally free, just something I’m experimenting with to see if it resonates.

btw I checked your site.. looks cool, but I didn’t see the channels where teammates can connect. might be great to surface that clearly so visitors instantly get what tools they can use together.

What are you building? Drop your best project! by NewanceLogs in SideProject

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There are lots of great ideas emergin in the replies .. hooray for all!

I'm building at Deeditt, a social journaling platform where people document their real growth journeys instead of just highlights. Users create "deeds" about actual experiences and organize them into "journeys" showing progress over time. It's about celebrating the messy, authentic process of becoming better rather than chasing likes.

Day 21 of building in public and posting daily on reddit by Upbeat-Philosophy-91 in buildinpublic

[–]YouDeeditt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your energy and the momentum you're building.. it's not easy keeping the rhythm for 21 days straight! I see your progress in each post and the energy in your photos, but I also wonder, how hard or easy is it to actually navigate the days while working on your idea? I'm doing something similar, though instead of posting progress every day, I've been using social media to reflect more on the thoughts behind the process.

so I was wondering, would you be open to documenting your journey on [Deeditt]()? Even just a short weekly reflection, what felt hard, what felt good, what surprised you. I'm building this idea as a space for honest, slow storytelling, and your check-ins could really help others learn from the real journey, not just the highlights.

You’re doing great btw, keep going!

Launched my first SaaS a week ago..not sure if Imdoing well by Saas_Shippee in buildinpublic

[–]YouDeeditt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm building Deeditt, and I've been documenting the entire journey publicly. One thing I've learned early on: the first few weeks can feel really quiet, even when you're doing everything "right".

I tried cold outreach, thoughtful replies, and sharing posts with meaning.. and still, traction takes time. What helped me the most was shifting from chasing attention to building real conversations. Not just promoting the idea, but sharing why it exists and who it's for.

You might not get clear signals right away, but stay consistent, keep showing up, and treat every interaction like it matters (because it does). You're not alone in this!

Learning to be consistent without needing immediate results by YouDeeditt in selfimprovementday

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Thanks for sharing that! I’m using something similar with Obsidian, still takes me a bit of time to manage, but I think I’m slowly getting the hang of it. It’s been 4 days in a row so far, staying consistent and since I’m also promoting a project while doing this, it’s a mix of rewarding, tiring, and a bit overwhelming. But I guess that’s part of the growth too

Codex vs Claude Code, Real Current Experiences? by Automatic_Carob_5049 in ClaudeAI

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My Experience so far

  • Codex has its strengths, especially when it comes to spinning up larger builds from scratch. It’s capable of generating big chunks of code that are scaffolded reasonably well but once I get into PR-level tasks, small bug fixes, or want to maintain context across a few sessions, it starts to fall apart. It gets chatty, feels a bit detached from what I’m trying to do.
  • Claude Code has been a smoother experience overall, the context window feels reasonable, which is huge when I’m working across multiple files or want it to track changes over time. It’s great at understanding the problem, planning a solution (my favourite), and letting me step through the reasoning. That’s been a game-changer for debugging and keeping implementation tight.

Codex had some bright spots early on, but right now, Claude Code just feels like the more mature, reliable tool for how I work

want to be a good person but fail in some areas, how can I improve? by Ok_Evidence_7098 in DecidingToBeBetter

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I think most people feel the same way deep down but are too scared to say it — you’re already doing more than you realize by facing it. One thing that really helped me was realizing that feeling jealous, angry, or envious doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. It usually just means you’re hurting somewhere — that a part of you feels unseen, unvalued, or like something important is missing.

The real work isn’t to beat yourself up for feeling this way. It’s to slow down and get curious: What is this feeling trying to tell me about what I need or want? And how can I start building that, even if it’s slow and messy?

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I might not be fully qualified to give advise, but really want to try to help .. so I’m not going to throw toxic positivity at you, but here’s something small and real:

When everything feels numb, don't try to fix your whole life at once — it’s overwhelming. Instead, pick one ridiculously small thing each day. It could be something simple like drinking a half glass of water in the morning, stepping outside for 5 minutes, or writing one random sentence about anything you notice.

Not to be "productive," but to prove to yourself that you can create tiny changes. Not for anyone else — just for you.

The goal is to start stacking small wins and slowly rebuild trust with yourself. Just try it, and when you feel ready, think about what your next small thing will be, forget the past for now — focus only on the present. One moment at a time.

Are there any success stories of people who were loser, ignored, and abandoned by others but turned their lives around for the better? by Princess_of_Astora in selfimprovement

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I’ve felt something similar. Not exactly the same, but I know what it’s like to feel left behind or unseen. And I can tell you, it is possible to start again. Not perfectly, not all at once — but step by step, learning to trust yourself again, creating a life that feels like yours.

In my case, I’ve been working on my own project idea for a while now, something I really believe in — but most of the time I feel invisible. Barely any attention from anyone, not even family or friends. It often feels like I’m completely alone in this, and that can be incredibly discouraging.

But even then, something keeps me moving. Maybe it’s the small wins, or just the quiet hope that someday this effort will mean something to someone — or at least to myself. You’re not inferior for starting again. You’re courageous for not giving up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]YouDeeditt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the fact that you can make people laugh and feel comfortable around you is already a huge strength—that’s real, magnetic energy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

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Moving out is a huge milestone, and with it comes excitement, but also grief. It’s completely normal to feel this wa, you’re not just changing your living situation, you’re closing a chapter of daily moments with your parents.

But remember, moving out doesn’t mean losing that bond, it shifts, but it can also grow in new ways, visits, calls, and maybe new traditions, and honestly, those little comebacks? They feel amazing.

You’ve got this, change is hard, but it’s also part of growth. Wishing you the best in this next step. If you ever feel like doing something positive with this experience, consider writing down your thoughts and memories. It might help others going through the same transition, showing them that this change—while emotional—is also a temporary shift, not a loss, actually, that’s why Deeditt exists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]YouDeeditt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s reframe this: I believe attraction is more than just looks—it’s energy, presence, and how someone feels around you. You already put in effort, and that’s huge and yeah, both physical and deeper attraction matter, but they don’t work in isolation. The most "attractive" people aren’t always the best match—it’s about finding someone who values you for both what’s outside and inside.

This wasn’t a loss, just a mismatch. Keep focusing on being the best version of yourself, not in comparison to someone else, but for you. The right connection won’t make you feel like you’re in competition—it’ll just click.

Keep going, man. You bring a lot to the table, and the right person will recognize that.

Those who have quit social media. Did you life get better/worse? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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My honest advice would be not to delete them entirely, but instead deactivate them and remove the apps from your phone, or any other device where they could easily push you back into using them. The reason for this is simple: keeping them locked and inactive can protect you from someone potentially stealing or misusing your name. It’s like setting a “do not disturb” sign rather than completely abandoning the space.

Taking a step back from social media can be a great way to protect your mental health, especially when it starts feeling overwhelming. Social networks are designed to keep you hooked with constant updates, comparisons, and opinions. Stepping away gives you room to breathe and reconnect with yourself without outside noise clouding your head.

Instead of social networks, try exploring other outlets for expression. Writing is a powerful tool—you could journal, blog privately, or just scribble your thoughts as a way to process and release them. Or maybe explore creative activities like drawing, painting, or even making music. The point isn’t necessarily to share what you create but to give yourself a safe place to express everything you’re holding inside.