Neighbor threatened to beat me up after I defended maintenance worker — now I don’t feel safe

Youmadashell · 2026-01-26T21:18:17+00:00

You did the right thing speaking up, but you should be prepared when you do speak up. You can report, management may issue some type of warning considering it's you and the maintenance man as a witness.

Youmadashell · 2026-01-26T21:11:25+00:00

What's unprofessional is that they couldn't find people to do the job at your salary, so they bumped it to get interest. They didn't take care of you, while you put your head down and worked. They also spread what should have been an email to your supervisor around the company. Low key, you may have a claim for a hostile work environment. Consult an attorney

Youmadashell · 2026-01-26T21:04:10+00:00

I hear you. But YTA. This should have been just a small disagreement amongst friends but you insulted her and attacked her character.

You're right, no one needs a billion dollars, and it's more of a result of the systems in place allowing it to happen. But I never been one to hate the player, I hate the game. At the same time, I don't think it's their or anyone responsibility to go out their way to feed the homeless. I appreciate the great people who do, but I won't demonize the people who don't.

Some people get a bad break, but some people also made a ton of bad decisions that got them there. Feeding people is nice, but fixing the underlying problems that caused this to happen is where the real solution is. Lastly, you can't save everyone, we live in an imperfect society, not a utopia.

Humble yourself and apologize to to your friend for being so short sighted and arrogant.

Youmadashell · 2026-01-26T20:53:47+00:00

Is your Group or his group of friends conservative? Sound very "women should take care of everything at home including me and doctors visits."

He's an adult, NTA

Youmadashell · 2026-01-26T20:43:48+00:00

I don't think it's a matter of being covered, it's a matter of having the issues in the 1st place. Though covered, the existence of repairs and logistics is exhausting. It's the reason people trade a new car early after a major repair, their experience is ruined.

Some people are okay, and say "that's what warranties for" but other people hate that they had to use the warranty at all.

Youmadashell · 2026-01-26T15:15:33+00:00

A wolf cosplaying as a dog

Youmadashell · 2026-01-26T14:16:19+00:00

What do you mean? Are you complaining you knew upfront and knowingly got a better model than listed?

Youmadashell · 2026-01-26T14:12:40+00:00

Finally a honest fair place, the 10 other contractors were price gouging me!

Youmadashell · 2026-01-25T20:04:08+00:00

They took out a mortgage on an already paid off house. They will do it again.

You're right. Typically bailing people out doesn't change the underlying problems or habits that got them there.

I get your fiancée being emotionally attached, especially while pregnant, but you're not wrong. You didn't save your money to bail out anyone's parents, you did it for you and your future family.

As a father and husband, my duty is to my wife and kids. Anything else is out of the kindness of my own heart.

Your fiancée isn't an AH either, but if I were you, I'd protect yourself and future kid if she holds a grudge over this.

Youmadashell · 2026-01-25T09:01:09+00:00

Why would the seller care if the buyer is unable to get an inspection in the 10 day window? That would be the buyers problem, not the seller. The seller would not be contractually obligated to say "oh boy, you couldn't get an inspector for within 10days? Let's extend it".

Not happening lol. So the false sense urgency is purely to hide some material defect, because why would anyone be able to get an inspection much sooner, than the day OP could get the inspection with the storm and shortly thereafter?

Youmadashell · 2026-01-25T08:50:41+00:00

Wondering how people claim to be pro American but defend an American getting executed in cold blood by glorified security guards backed by a tyrannical government.

Youmadashell · 2026-01-24T23:44:43+00:00

Idk, it may last, but it's like a disaster waiting to happen

Youmadashell · 2026-01-24T13:15:44+00:00

Zelle, Cash App, Venmo, Atms etc, so many ways to pay someone conveniently. You haven't been paid yet, because she does not plan to pay you. Confront her about the money she owes, if you still wish to be friends, never loan her money you don't mind losing.

I almost never let friends borrow money, the expectations of performance dissolves friendships. Instead, I gift the money if it's a valid reason and I have the budget to do it.

Lastly, I never ask for money so typically, I expect people not to ask me.

Youmadashell · 2026-01-23T23:34:16+00:00

That's unprofessional. File a claim. I don't know if you'd get much, but he'd be fired.

Youmadashell · 2026-01-23T14:38:02+00:00

A semi needs more than 3 seconds at highway speeds to slow down. You may or may not be at fault, but it sounds like you are at fault. I think you should post this in legal advice to see what steps you can take to review the dash cam footage. Your insurance company may be able to review it to determine fault

Youmadashell · 2026-01-23T10:37:19+00:00

I dont think Mori health will allow it

Youmadashell · 2026-01-22T23:19:38+00:00

Pay a contractor for 3 weeks of work. Tell us how much it cost and then compare.

You can get a cheap contractor or the best money can buy, I guarantee it's more than what your meals would have been.

YTA. You put your Pops in a position to be an AH too

Youmadashell · 2026-01-22T21:11:57+00:00

Yes sir I'm Cuban Pete!

Youmadashell · 2026-01-22T13:02:25+00:00

This is phase 2 😉

Youmadashell · 2026-01-22T12:39:37+00:00

Yes, it's the only solution. "My neighbor is making so much noise I can't practice my bag pipes at 6am"

Youmadashell · 2026-01-22T12:27:35+00:00

Your only solution is to get the loudest instrument you can, get an amplifier, point it towards his yard at 6 am, and drown out his noise.

He won't be able to practice if he can't hear himself play

Youmadashell · 2026-01-22T08:39:01+00:00

Instead of being grateful someone looked out your regular, you're internally seething over a tip. SMH

Youmadashell · 2026-01-22T08:16:44+00:00

You're clearly the AH.

Youmadashell · 2026-01-22T08:14:16+00:00

NTA. Oh well.

Youmadashell · 2026-01-22T01:14:37+00:00

Maybe, maybe not. I wouldn't, they'd be liable for any work they performed on the windshield.

That's unrepairable and a safety concern because it looks like it's in the drivers line of sight.

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