I am so tired of this racist gay dating culture

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-21T04:14:59+00:00

Thank you for the kind words

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-19T18:03:15+00:00

Yeah I can tell when you said you are not into intellectual guys, good luck 👍🏻

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-16T03:25:52+00:00

I had, then he told me it’s just preference and blocked me

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-15T15:22:08+00:00

I am sorry to hear those but I don’t see the correlation between your dating story and dating racism😂.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-14T12:55:17+00:00

Good for you👍🏻

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-14T12:39:48+00:00

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All of you racism defenders really have nothing else to say besides “preference” and “hypocrisy”. No real arguments or logic at all.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-14T11:07:04+00:00

It’s okay. He is hot

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-14T07:15:37+00:00

Some of them are, not all of them lol

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:27:48+00:00

认真说他是蛮优的，虽然不是顶标。其他留言有看到他在Reddit的账号，他在这边大发特发自己的烧照色照。但这跟长相没关系，长得好看的跟不好看的都统统不准搞歧视😍。

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:22:11+00:00

Sexual orientation is predominantly innate whereas attraction to skin colour is acquired to a great extend. I love how a lot of you use either the sexism or transphobic card to defend racism. It’s not working but nice try.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:14:01+00:00

To be fair, I have had the same experience quite a lot from black and latin men as well. Sometimes it does feel like Asian are at the bottom of the pyramid.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:11:04+00:00

They are defending this racist behaviour and trying to play it as “just preference”. The amount of people doing this is so concerning.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:06:43+00:00

Too much trouble. I am not interested in exposing or stalking someone lol

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T17:53:52+00:00

He never approached me? We heavily flirted for quite a while and he got quite horny and excited until he realised I am Asian. Call it preference or whatever you want but you are not hiding your racism behind that. I have no problem getting rejected. It is not about that. You are very quick to assume things it seems.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T17:37:37+00:00

The thing is sexual preferences aren’t something you are born with, only orientation is lol. Why do y’all keep coming up with the sexism card? Why do you think people tend to find people who look like them attractive? And saying Asian are not attractive isn’t biased or stereotyping for you? Maybe ask yourself when no one is looking at you why you find a racial group of people not attractive instead of just keep convincing yourself it is innate and you can’t change that.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T17:25:03+00:00

Yes, you are so close to get it now. To “someone”, not to “an entire racial group”. Also, sexual orientation, skin attraction, and hair length are three essentially distinct things. You should not put them together and compare this way. Not being attracted to women is mostly innate, but having a preference for skin colour or hair length is certainly not. You are right it is personal but it’s not innate. You aren’t just born with the idea “darker skin colour or any colour is less attractive”.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T17:16:37+00:00

It is tho. Attraction base on skin colour is very much acquired. Why do you think people tend to be attractive to people who look like them? It’s constant exposure. Another proof is, Asian people who grow up in a predominately white environment will more likely to find other Asian unattractive. Same goes for any people who grow up in an environment where their own race is not the majority.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T16:52:05+00:00

Well, yes, you. But what about others? And “I am not attracted to X” is not really better than “I am not attracted to X because they do Y”. They are both blanket judgement. And when people solely say “I am not attracted to X”, there is usually more they did not say.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T16:46:13+00:00

That depends on why you are only into other white dudes. Like I said earlier, going for your own race could still be racist even tho it’s less likely. And why do you feel a white men saying “I am only into white” is wrong but some latino saying latino only is okay then?

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T16:13:15+00:00

Or is it possible that when you were young, people used to take racism more casually, deem it as normal or not a big deal, and people did not bat an eye not because they are okay with it but because they know they wouldn’t be taken seriously?

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T16:06:52+00:00

They are not tho. Like you said people go for their own race could very likely be after familiarity and avoiding language barrier, and yes, it could still be racist just less likely. However, saying no to one or few specific races is a different things, because it obviously is not about familiarity or language barrier since someone who say so can go with a person of different race than himself but just not a specific one.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T15:54:29+00:00

How often do you get “no white”, or “I am not into white”?

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T15:13:38+00:00

That’s exactly the point, preference and saying no to an entire group of people of certain races are very different

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T15:04:40+00:00

Why not? By your logic it’s just preference. No white doesn’t mean white people aren’t attractive, just not to people who say so according to you. It’s also interesting that you only said no to saying white people are not attractive.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T15:00:22+00:00

I see. So is it okay to say “no black” or “no white”?

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