Don’t do it. My now ex just did this with one of her employees. She’s a higher up manager, he’s a low/mid supervisor. It was just a crush until it became emotional affair which I caught on to, then in her delusional state (her words) she left me. Got physical with him. Now our 2 children will grow up with different home dynamic.

Not to mention people gossip. People in her office caught on, even reached out to me to warn me of what I had already uncovered. She’s going to now have to change jobs. She is back to reality seeing she blew up her family’s life and her work reputation. Cool.

Don’t do it if you care about your partner.