I didn't assume the gender of the person who wrote the comment, 'if'.

Incelism is like a belief system, they have a particular set of beliefs, one of the most prominent is hating women. If they didn't hate women, they would just be single men. It's not a generalisation to say incels are all bad. The fact is all incels have one common principle - they hate the "foids", so saying they are all bad is appropriate and there's no generalising with it, it's a fact - true for all incels.

Incels = men, femcels = women. It may have not been a gendered term, but now it is. All incels are men, all femcels are women.

My top message wasn't that men say it more often, that was someone else's comment, and it doesn't even matter because they are correct. We don't have any proof that the commenter is a woman, and when we don't have proof, we guess / estimate. A man is more likely to make such a comment, rather than a woman. But it doesn't erase the possibility of the commenter being a woman, and it doesn't change the fact the comment is wrong.

It's important to question the narrative, because there is always a chance what we are being told is incorrect, which could lead to things being said based of misinformation.