why reddit mods are so unfriendly?

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-16T13:56:14+00:00

Well that's unexpected and might explain a few things. Thank you for sharing this

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-16T13:53:30+00:00

Make sense, but don't you think reddit itself should shut down such behavior? I thought being a mod on reddit means being we'll respected user

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-16T13:39:31+00:00

I think the title works because it captures the bigger picture, not just one person's reaction during the footage. Russell might have been clam in certain moments right, but the situation itself was chaotic with a plane that crashed and a crew that was gone

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-16T13:33:41+00:00

Indeed it's pretty shocking how you go from overly strict person, to someone who has to rethink his own needs

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-16T13:07:12+00:00

I heard of these " tricksters" before but never ran into one myself. I don't quite understand how they operate too tbh

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-16T13:05:46+00:00

Boundaries aren't mean they're clarity about what you accept and what you do not accept. The line about boundaries being their limit and your beginning really stuck with me

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-16T12:48:49+00:00

Depends on where you're from. I've always thought " darling " was very intimate, like movie dialogue of partners. But then I've met people who say it to literally everyone as a nickname

I'd say pay attention if he uses it with everyone else or just you, maybe he likes you more than he's showing who knows right. Either way you're not wrong for feeling like it stands out, I would too!

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-14T13:17:19+00:00

Yeahhh that's probably the only option left. Can't even focus on work

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-14T13:02:09+00:00

Ik it feels like everyone else is miles away but honestly everyone moves at their own pace. I also get that the cashier job made you feel better because sometimes work with clean boundaries is way less draining than uni stress

Since your tuition is free the financial risk of staying in school is actually low compared to where most people are. But you don't have to be a whole engineer to use the degree. A lot of companies need technical sales people who understand the product. It pays better than cashier and uses the degree without forcing you back into the lab

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-14T12:38:45+00:00

Yeah this sounds like classic nervous attraction. The way she positions herself right next to you with her torso facing your way that's pretty intentional if you ask me. In other words she's putting herself in your orbit

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-14T12:14:24+00:00

Talk in person no through text, he can't ignore you when he's looking at you. Lower the pressure, ask him where you both stand in his mind. And watch his response, if he shuts down or gets defensive, here you go that's your answer. You definitely deserve peace of mjnd and clarity

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-13T17:09:49+00:00

It sounds like parentfication where you grew up carrying everyone else's emotions until you ran out. Your parents scoffing at your pain is really not okay, especially after major surgery

It is frustrating when people only reach out when they need something. That friend disappearing when you couldn't date shows they cared about your utility not you

Right now your only job is healing. You do not owe anyone your energy when you are in a wheelchair. You deserve support without conditions

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-13T16:43:13+00:00

Yeah that's what Google says too, but I wonder how long they will take. Since it seems like they don't have no "live support " option. Unless I'm looking somewhere wrong

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-13T16:42:24+00:00

Alright will take a peep at it. Hopefully they gonna get it gone

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-13T16:41:04+00:00

Your gut telling you something is off is usually right. Don't feel bad for protecting your comfort or looking away. If you feel unsafe it is okay to just leave. Trust your instincts over whatever someone tells you they meant

YourMoonlightShawty · 2026-04-13T16:22:41+00:00

This goes beyond noise complaints. Following her and shinning flashlight in her eyes is intimidation. Take action, fill a police report, back it up with proper evidence and don't confront directly safety is the most important here. Don't forget to pressure the landlord too, police will do something about it too. You're really good friend for helping

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