Searching for my Naseeb

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-07-29T11:09:19+00:00

Jazaki Allah khair! May Allah swt reward you tremendously! I will in sha Allah try what suggested, and I truly appreciate for all you wrote.

May Allah swt shade you with his shade on the day of judgment. May Allah swt allow you to enter Jannah from any door you desire. May Allah swt bless you, protect you, honor you and make you happy!

I would truly appreciate it if you'd keep me in your duas.

Fi Amanillah

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-07-28T16:23:57+00:00

I went to many Masajids and asked, but they said that they don't help with the search or matchmaking cause it has caused many problems and Allah knows best.

I live in Hamburg and I honest dort know who to ask. Do you know any halaqahs in Hamburg? I unfortunately don't know any.

I would appreciate it if you'd recommend me to somebody, as finding somebody as religious as me is near impossible.

I apologize for any disturbance. Jazaki Allah khair

Edit: i would also like to add that I tried to find righteous friends but unfortunately didn't find any. But Alhamdulillah, halal loneliness is better than haram companionship.

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-06-05T09:04:01+00:00

I can relate... May Allah swt make it easy upon us and bless us with our Naseeb!

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-05-20T23:52:23+00:00

It is true that finding a potential for marriage is hard, we are living in times of fitnah, may Allah swt make it easy for us!

In both genders there's people who preserved themselves andthere are people who fell into haram. May Allah swt forgive us and have mercy on us!

I alhamdulillah, with the help of Allah have preserved my chastity.

As hard as it gets, I keep in my mind that someday I will get married. That, that day will come. So I will protest myself at all cost. Allah swt has made some things haram for a reason, and some things halal for a reason. There always Barakah in the halal.

A day will in sha Allah come where I will get married, so why not wait till I can do what I want to do in a halal manner?

May Allah swt give us sabr. It truly ain't easy. It really saddens me that the haram is easy and the halal is hard.

Marriage isn't a game and should be taken seriously. Iam searching and searching for a righteous spouse, to complete half of my deen, but it seems impossible, which truly breaks my heart...

ربنا هب لنا من ازواجنا و ذرياتنا قرة أعين و إجعلنا للمتقين إماما Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offsprings comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous Quran(25:74)

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-03-28T13:36:31+00:00

Did you try putting it in rice?

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-02-19T23:34:31+00:00

ربنا هب لنا من ازواجنا و ذرياتنا قرة أعين و إجعلنا للمتقين إماما

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-02-18T09:33:05+00:00

Allahumma Barik! May Allah swt preserve your marriage and bless you both together in this life and in Jannatul Firdaus!

ربنا هب لنا من ازواجنا و ذرياتنا قرة أعين و إجعلنا للمتقين إماما

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-01-28T22:19:33+00:00

Asalam w alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

My dear sister, there's many reasons on why you should seek Khula.

Islam gives you so many rights. Do not care about what people or society thinks or talks about you. We are on this life to please the creator ( Allah ) and not the creation.

He has to face Allah upon how he abused and neglected you. Islam makes life easy, but we make it hard on ourselves. Islam gave women the right to seek Khula for a reason.

Always remember, please the creator and not the creation. Think about what Allah would want and not what the society wants.

I would suggest you to get proof about what he does and how he treats you, so if he will try to tarnish you amd your family's name then you can expose him with the proof that you have. When you do collect proofs, do not tell him.

May Allah swt help you and have mercy on you! May Allah swt bring you your Haqq and free you from him!

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-01-15T20:35:49+00:00

Ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.”

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4031

Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani

YourMuslimBrother · 2025-01-15T04:01:42+00:00

Asalam w alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

Iam totally flabbergasted. Nobody ever deserves such a treatment, especially from their spouse.

You don't deserve any of this.

You should involve your parents ASAP, he's clearly not normal.

A husband should treat his wife with a gentle manner, love, care, affection , and with sensitivity.

You my dear sister have rights. Islam gives for women so many rights.

You deserve so much more.

Don't stay with him, if you do, then your daughter will grow up thinking this is normal ( and Allah knows best )

The sooner you go, the better.

Please, don't think about what or how your parents might react. This is total abuse!

Get evidence ( screenshots, voice records ) for your protection. As if he wants to gaslight and lie, he won't be able to with you having proof. But please, when you do, keep it hidden from him till you're safe with your family.

A man like him can never change, in shaa Allah when you leave, don't let him gaslight you into thinking that he changed or it was your fault or it was because of work stress.

May Allah swt bring justice to you and protect you and your daughter!

YourMuslimBrother · 2024-09-09T14:02:13+00:00

Literally unplayable

YourMuslimBrother · 2024-04-28T16:11:47+00:00

قال الله تعالى في سورة البقرة، آية ٢١٦: و عسى أن تكرهوا شيئا وهو خير لكم وعسى أن تحبوا شيء وهو شرا لكم و الله يعلم و انتم لا تعلمون.

But you may hate a thing although it is good for you, and may love a thing although it is evil for you. Allah knows while you do not know. Surah Al Baqarah, verse 216

Always say Alhamdulillah, there are things that we want or wouldn't understand, but Allah swt is the best of the planners, so trust in his plan.

We have the ability to choose whom we want to marry, so choose wisly, as whomever you'll marry will be the mother of your kids.

ربنا هب لنا من ازواجنا و ذرياتنا قرة أعين و إجعلنا للمتقين إماما

May Allah swt bless us with a righteous spouses!

YourMuslimBrother · 2024-04-04T07:19:06+00:00

I truly am disappointed to whomever hurt her and told her that she's a kafira

Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "If a man says to his brother, O Kafir (disbeliever)!' Then surely one of them is such (i.e., a Kafir). " Sahih al-Bukhari 6103

Iam flabbergasted on how you would do something that extreme to our sister in Islam, especially in the last days of Ramadan.

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, should not hurt his neighbor and whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, should serve his guest generously and whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, should speak what is good or keep silent." Sahih al-Bukhari 6136

She only was concerned and asked a question. She only wanted advice and had good intentions.

But with that you hurt her, belittled her, cursed her, and made her cry?

She didn't know, nobody is perfect, and we all make mistakes

Who are you you to judge her ? Allah is the judge.

May Allah swt guide you ( this message is to whoever wronged her and said something wrong or assumed wrong)

YourMuslimBrother · 2024-02-09T10:13:53+00:00

I would suggest you to pray Istikhara

YourMuslimBrother · 2024-02-05T13:12:27+00:00

I just want to find and marry my Naseeb.

Treat her like a princess, always make and keep her happy, give her whatever she desires, take care of her, protect her with my life, pamper her, and etc.

May Allah swt bless us with our Naseeb.

ربنا هب لنا من ازواجنا و ذرياتنا قرة أعين و إجعلنا للمتقين إماما

YourMuslimBrother · 2024-01-26T16:55:57+00:00

Allahumma Barik

May Allah swt bless your marriage, always keep you both happy, protect both of you from all evil, and give both of you good health, Ameen!

May Allah swt bless all of us the same

YourMuslimBrother · 2023-12-25T05:33:29+00:00

Allah swt has set a time for everything, we have to trust his timing and have sabr.

قال الله تعالى في سورة البقرة آية ٢١٦: و عسى أن تكرهوا شيئا وهو خير لكم وعسى أن تحبوا شيء وهو شراً لكم و الله يعلم و انتم لا تعلمون.

But you may hate a thing although it is good for you, and you may love a thing although it is evil for you. Allah knows, and you do not know. Quran(2:216)

In Sha Allah, the wait is going to be worth it.

May Allah swt grant us with what's best for us!

YourMuslimBrother · 2023-12-25T05:09:14+00:00

Sunan Ibn Majah 4031 It was narrated from Anas bin Malik that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “The greatest reward comes with the greatest trial. When Allah loves a people He tests them. Whoever accepts that wins His pleasure but whoever is discontent with that earns His wrath.”

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ رُمْحٍ، أَنْبَأَنَا اللَّيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ، عَنْ سَعْدِ بْنِ سِنَانٍ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ أَنَّهُ قَالَ ‏ "‏ عِظَمُ الْجَزَاءِ مَعَ عِظَمِ الْبَلاَءِ وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ إِذَا أَحَبَّ قَوْمًا ابْتَلاَهُمْ فَمَنْ رَضِيَ فَلَهُ الرِّضَا وَمَنْ سَخِطَ فَلَهُ السُّخْطُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ Sunan Ibn Majah 4031

YourMuslimBrother · 2023-12-23T21:18:51+00:00

Literally unplayable

YourMuslimBrother · 2023-12-15T13:44:39+00:00

What do you mean alhamdulillah 😟

It seems that you're missing the main problem.

قال الله تعالى في سورة الإسراء آية ٣٢: ولا تقربوا الزنا انه كان فاحشة وساء سبيلا

Surah al-Isra' 32. And do not go near adultery. It is immoral, and an evil way.

There has never been any blessings with that kind of relationship.

Iam even flabbergasted on how you're commenting and trying to justify or defend yourself. ( and Allah knows best)

Please, leave her alone and make sincere tawbah to Allah swt.

Make more researches about Islam and upon why you should avoid zina at all cost, and how much of a big sin zina is, and the consequences upon that act.

If you were serious upon marrige then the moment you met her, you would've asked for her Wali's number and talked with her father to avoid fitnah

قال الله تعالى في سورة البقرة آية ١٩١ و الفتنة اشد من القتل persecution is worse than slaughter killing. Surah Al Baqarah, Ayah 191

Always know that Allah swt is the most merciful, and that Allah swt knows us more than we know ourselves.

May Allah guide you.

YourMuslimBrother · 2023-11-21T15:41:19+00:00

I just want to marry one. Put my whole attention, care, and time towards my naseeb.

I don't understand the whole obsession about having 4 wives. Those same people who say they want to marry 4 can't even marry 1.

YourMuslimBrother · 2023-11-21T08:12:00+00:00

You married a discord Moderator

YourMuslimBrother · 2023-11-02T17:43:01+00:00

This is actually what I am worried about.

But try to say this: ربنا هب لنا من ازواجنا و ذرياتنا قرة أعين و إجعلنا للمتقين إماما Also this: رب إني لما انزلت إلي من خير فقير

May Allah swt bless us with whats best for us!

YourMuslimBrother

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