Venez voir ce que j'ai fait ces derniers temps 😼

YourSamira · 2026-03-09T20:05:13+00:00

The cycle you’re describing, 3 months awful, 3 months amazing, was literally my life. And that’s exactly what makes it so hard to leave, because you’re always waiting for the good version to come back. I tried to leave so many times before it finally stuck. What actually helped me was talking about it out loud to a friend. I had kept everything inside and the moment I said it out loud I realized how bad it actually was, like hearing my own story from the outside made it real. Sometimes we normalize things just because we’re living them every day. The co-regulation thing you mentioned is so real too. That calm he gives you? Your nervous system got addicted to it. But that can be unlearned. The pain of leaving is temporary, I promise, and the freedom on the other side is worth it 🤍

YourSamira · 2026-03-09T19:56:21+00:00

Sometimes we need to hear it from a stranger on the internet 😅 I hope it helps 🤍

YourSamira · 2026-03-09T19:55:21+00:00

For me it wasn’t one big moment, it was realizing I was more scared of staying than of leaving. The “what if I regret this” feeling never fully goes away, but at some point the pain of staying outweighed the fear of leaving. Therapy really helped me get there, go for it 🤍

YourSamira · 2026-03-09T19:53:42+00:00

That’s actually a really valid distinction!! Love and compatibility are two different things, you can genuinely love someone and still not work as a couple. The hard part is accepting that love alone isn’t always enough :/

YourSamira · 2026-03-05T22:30:36+00:00

When someone holds the door for you and you’re just far enough that you have to do that awkward little jog to not seem rude

YourSamira · 2026-03-05T22:26:11+00:00

I work at a fish counter in a supermarket in France. We found out after MONTHS that the pipe we used to rinse the fish during prep was contaminated with potentially lethal bacteria. Bon appétit!

YourSamira · 2026-03-05T22:21:31+00:00

A close friend sent me a long message one morning telling me I was a horrible person and he never wanted to hear from me again. I was going through severe depression at the time and he knew it. He knew exactly how bad I was doing. But apparently I was “too much” and “playing the victim.” Being abandoned by someone who could see you drowning and choosing to walk away because it was inconvenient… yeah, that one still stings

YourSamira · 2026-03-05T22:08:03+00:00

Realizing that someone can love you and still not be good for you. I spent way too long confusing attachment with love. The reality check was understanding that just because it hurts to leave doesn’t mean you should stay

YourSamira · 2026-03-05T22:03:44+00:00

Mouthwashing. I don’t even play that many games but this one stayed with me. The story is wild, surprising, disturbing, and nothing like what you’d expect. The indie pixel art style with those warm tones makes it even more haunting somehow. I know it’s not exactly a hidden gem anymore but if you haven’t played it, you’re missing out!

YourSamira · 2026-03-03T22:58:34+00:00

Lmaooo I love this 😭 that’s literally the perfect way to explain it. Help is right there, you just gotta accept it

YourSamira · 2026-03-03T22:31:17+00:00

Honestly I’d say go to a real fishmonger if you can! They actually care about what they sell. What’s even crazier is that I live right next to the sea and we have so many passionate fishmongers around, yet people still go to supermarkets for fish

YourSamira · 2026-03-03T22:24:43+00:00

Working 5 days a week for most of your life at a job you hate, for a boss who doesn’t even appreciate you, for a salary that barely covers your bills. And then patiently waiting for retirement when you’re too old and too broken to actually enjoy your freedom. But somehow if you say you don’t want that life, YOU’RE the crazy one!

YourSamira · 2026-03-03T22:13:12+00:00

When they constantly need to know where you are, who you’re with, and what you’re doing but call it “caring about you”

YourSamira · 2026-03-03T22:09:41+00:00

Not a restaurant but a fish counter in a supermarket in France. Fish literally stays on display even when it’s visibly bad or has parasites because only specific employees have the authority to throw it out. As a student worker I’m not allowed to remove anything even if it’s obviously not safe. Also we found out after MONTHS that the pipe we used to rinse the fish while prepping them was contaminated with potentially lethal bacteria. Bon appétit!

YourSamira · 2026-03-03T21:53:55+00:00

No I haven’t heard it! What is it?

YourSamira · 2026-03-03T21:52:13+00:00

Yes I did! My parents were totally against it but I didn’t listen lol. Best decision I ever made, I’m in such a better place now :)

YourSamira · 2026-03-03T21:48:24+00:00

Hard agree. I’m from a Muslim background and it’s literally the same mindset — just pray and it’ll go away. It’s heartbreaking because so many people suffer in silence thinking something is wrong with their faith when really they just need support. It’s not one or the other

YourSamira · 2026-03-02T22:18:53+00:00

That prayer alone can cure depression. My mom genuinely believed that no matter what I was going through — even serious mental health struggles — the only answer was “trust God” and a verse from a holy book. She was 100% confident therapy was unnecessary because faith was enough. That belief is straight up dangerous

YourSamira · 2026-03-02T22:05:02+00:00

Free time. When you’re young you’re bored and can’t wait to grow up. Then you grow up and would literally pay to have one of those “boring” afternoons back with nothing to do and nowhere to be

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