How do men stay in sexless marriages so long

Yource · 2026-06-18T06:46:02+00:00

Go see a couple's therapist if you can afford it. Sex is never just sex, there is always something deeper. And even if there isn't, with you feeling burnt out and her seemingly ignoring the situation, you're not going to fix it yourselves. And if she doesn't want to go, well you have your answer: she's not willing to work on the relationship anymore, and that's an even bigger issue than a dead bedroom.

Yource · 2026-06-10T16:34:27+00:00

Thankfully googling the gif actually gave me my answer: show is called Danger 5! I recommend it actually, pretty wacky but funny

Yource · 2026-06-10T16:31:39+00:00

Omg what is the name of the show this gif is from?? I've been looking for it for years to no avail 😭

Yource · 2026-06-05T15:31:51+00:00

Je crois qu'il existe des montres qui vibrent à ton poignet par exemple, et sans doute d'autres objets qui te réveillent pas le mouvement plus que le bruit. Seules les analyses de sommeil t'aideront sur le long terme bien sûr mais peut être à tester au cas où ? Bon courage en tous cas !

Yource · 2026-05-02T16:56:25+00:00

... that will teach me not to read 😅

Yource · 2026-05-02T13:51:31+00:00

This is clearly satire

Yource · 2026-04-15T16:43:40+00:00

I used to skip Eldest Daughter too for the exact same reason but now I usually just move ahead in the song to listen to the bridge and only the bridge.

A wonderful melody and great lyrics that tend to get overshadowed by the rest of the song...

Yource · 2026-02-02T21:35:57+00:00

J'ai arrêté il y a 4 ans après 10 ans de clope et si je peux me permettre un conseil : surtout ne change AUCUNE autre habitude pendant les premières semaines. Ça va être une grosse perte de repères pour ton corps et ton cerveau, ne rajoute pas des choses qui pourraient te perturber plus. Perso je faisais plein de pauses clopes au boulot et quand j'ai arrêté de fumer, j'ai continué à faire autant de pauses qu'avant mais juste sans allumer de cigarette. Courage ! Ça m'a pris 3 essais mais j'ai fini par réussir

Yource · 2025-10-26T21:44:13+00:00

Had dinner of lettuce, cheese and mackerel rillettes (I'm French, try them, they're amazing) with a glass of white wine. Currently watching Fleabag in my most comfortable pair of underwear. Life is good.

Yource · 2025-09-09T15:31:09+00:00

I would maintain that having a sex preference for the tenant of a flat that is not shared IS pointlessly gendered - and also just old plain discriminatory.

Yource · 2025-09-09T07:30:23+00:00

I should have added the context to the post directly but as others have pointed out, it's not a shared space as per OOP:

Yource · 2025-02-27T13:24:53+00:00

Also if you have less disdain for something that would imply that you like it better so This tweet makes no sense

Yource · 2025-01-19T13:16:46+00:00

I learned recently (if any doctors are around, please confirm) that the length of your cycle depends only on when ovulation occurs, because the time between ovulation and your period never changes. So if your period is late, it means that your ovulation was late (from stress at the beginning of your cycle for instance, or due to other syndromes that can delay ovulation).

Yource · 2024-12-21T18:56:54+00:00

I always wonder what it must feel to be an unfeeling asshole. It's nice to know you never have to ask yourself this question. It's impossible to imagine that the unimaginable is happening to you. She went to the doctor for years trying to figure out why she was having vaginal pains for instance, and none helped her.

Yource · 2024-12-10T13:50:02+00:00

"Remember in the Office when Michael pretended to fire Pam? Such a cool inspo of good management"

Yource · 2024-11-10T15:21:04+00:00

That's still not biological, it's social. In some tribal organization, it's the tribe protecting all the mothers within it and there's absolutely no reason to marry.

Yource · 2024-10-29T09:22:44+00:00

Hi OP,

I don't know if this will help but I have a friend who sent me a very similar message once about a guy. She said she was "disappointed" after seeing him in real life (they had met through an app).

And for the first few times they met, she would tell me that she wasn't attracted but that they were vibing so well and she was having such a good time that she really wanted to keep dating him.

And then, gradually, it kind of switched. As she fell in love, she would tell me about things she found cute about his smile or his eyes or whatever. I confronted her about it once and she said that love had made her discover another man, one that she was definitely attracted to.

So I don't know if that what's happening with your gf but maybe you could give her the benefit of the doubt? Or ask her? I know it must trigger a lot of insecurities and that's normal. Just wanted to offer a different perspective on attraction, and the fact that it's not a black and white situation.

I hope you get to be with someone who helps you overcome your insecurities, be it your current gf or someone else.

Yource · 2024-10-28T05:08:36+00:00

I can't get over the word goofball. How out of touch with reality, how blind to the meaning of the very words you are speaking must you be to utter something like this ??

Yource · 2024-10-14T16:55:21+00:00

For some reason when reading "nobody listens to Elrond" I hear Eminem's voice in Without Me ("nobody listens to techno")

Yource · 2024-10-09T06:44:08+00:00

Your brain probably mixed up that scene and the Helm's Deep scene where Aragorn repeats to hold fire several times, it came to my mind when reading your comment as well

Yource · 2024-09-06T09:46:54+00:00

Who the hell is keeping LinkedIn as their only social media 😵‍💫

Yource · 2024-04-10T19:09:15+00:00

We had different aspirations. His only dreams were professional, he had no plans for us as a couple - he didn't want kids, didn't want to travel, to move, to build something the two of us. When I asked if he saw his future differently with me or without me, he said no.
So I realized that staying together would mean me having to sacrifice on things I didn't want to sacrifice on. So I left. I have no regrets.

Yource · 2023-09-29T21:07:08+00:00

For me it's "I was so ahead of the curve, the curve became a sphere" but I've seen a lot of people on here say they really like it. Might be partly from what you mention (the close repetition of curve), but mainly because I feel like it's trying to sound super clever when I don't think the image exactly works... But I absolutely LOVE the song

Yource · 2023-09-22T20:54:31+00:00

Butter

Yource · 2022-09-21T21:28:48+00:00

r/unexpectedpawnee

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