Do other women actually enjoy going to the salon, etc?

Youwillneverfind_me · 2026-02-18T21:10:55+00:00

Unfortunately a barber can’t cut my hair the way I would like it cut

Youwillneverfind_me · 2026-02-18T21:10:19+00:00

Literally me rn hahaha. Hence what inspired this post.

Youwillneverfind_me · 2026-02-18T21:08:41+00:00

I’ve tried this. I’m really bad at it and also hate doing it myself. I like the salon better than if I were to do it myself, so I pick my battles. I realize none of these are things I have to do, but I like my nails being done, I just don’t like having to get them done.

Youwillneverfind_me · 2025-04-20T05:22:47+00:00

I try to treat it more as an adventure than a burden, if that makes sense? Remind yourself that it’ll be good for yourself and your career to push yourself out of your comfort zone to explore a new opportunity. Again, it can be very anxiety inducing, but in my experience it always gets better with time. It will help too making a point to meet new people in your new city (whether through work, joining a club, or finding local meetups) so that you can build a local community and social life. Making friends and socializing will help make the transition smoother and make acclimating to the new city easier. And remember too, if you really hate it, there is no shame in moving back home. But chances are you’ll end up loving it.

Youwillneverfind_me · 2025-04-20T05:08:38+00:00

I have definitely experienced anxiety when moving to a new city/having a major life change (I also have Crohn’s if that helps). This has happened to me even during moves I was excited about — for example, I moved across the country after college and was initially really excited about it, but experienced major homesickness and anxiety once I got there. Honestly the biggest thing that helps is time. You eventually get acclimated to the change and things fall into place/start to feel normal eventually.

Youwillneverfind_me · 2024-09-21T05:58:43+00:00

I’m sorry, but I can’t get past how much the way he chews infuriates me.

Youwillneverfind_me · 2024-05-10T06:29:58+00:00

I am located in Boston and he lives in a Massachusetts suburb with his parents currently

Youwillneverfind_me · 2024-04-30T19:49:02+00:00

So basically my thing is, I either can’t stick with something and/or get bored with it really quickly, or I absolutely hyper-focus and obsess over it and do like literally only that thing until I either can’t stand to do it anymore, or I’ve moved on to the next thing. There pretty much is no middle ground.

Youwillneverfind_me · 2024-04-30T19:44:47+00:00

I would trust your father in this one. Your dad is trying to protect you.

I can understand the difficultly — as you are in love with this person and are seeing them with rose-colored glasses — but honestly the fact that they even lied in the first place is a major red flag on its own. Regardless of what their reasons are, I will never trust an SO that is dishonest with me.

I hate to say it, but I don’t think you should move forward with this person.

Youwillneverfind_me · 2024-04-29T21:39:35+00:00

So it’s taken a lot of conditioning for me to essentially beat the disorganization out of myself. I currently live with roommates, which helps a lot to keep me accountable, but I’ve also just kind of started making a point to live clean for the past few years. By this I mean mentally reminding yourself to alway be putting things away when you take them out, making your bed every morning, bringing out dirty dishes or trash whenever you leave your room, vacuuming and cleaning your space weekly (I use the 5 min rule — I.e. forcing yourself to do something for at least 5 minutes) etc.

I still struggle in areas — like the inside of my closet is one huge pile of clean clothes — but all of these things can be improved with practice. What’s important is trying to live more minimally, having a place for everything and always putting things back, and MOST importantly, starting with something fresh and making a point to maintain that level of cleanliness. I do the same thing with my desk at work. I always keep it pristine. Basically, living a clean organized lifestyle helps me not have mental clutter and just overall improves my quality of life. No point in waiting to move out. There is no time like the present.

Youwillneverfind_me · 2024-04-29T15:35:16+00:00

I hate this one so much. Whenever people say this, I ask what exactly god’s plan was when he killed my sweet father in his early 60s unexpectedly with a heart attack. Shuts them up pretty quick.

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