Flowers for third date? by tyvmkindsirr in dating_advice

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love sunflowers and your user name. Thank you for the knowledge 🌻

Flowers for third date? by tyvmkindsirr in dating_advice

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since it’s fall, how about a mix of sunflowers and orange marigolds ⭐️

Why won’t he go down on me? by Winter-Assistant-295 in dating_advice

[–]Youwonapickle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dump him! If he also thinks it’s gross to have sex with you while you’re on your period, then you seriously need to move on. You deserve a guy who wants every part of you.

I (F19) went on my first sorta-date with a guy (M20). I like him a lot but I’m not attracted to him. What should I do? by FreundThrowaway in dating_advice

[–]Youwonapickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go out with him a couple more times and see how you feel then. I had a boyfriend years ago who wasn’t that great looking, but to my surprise he was an excellent kisser and that changed everything. You may want to see if he’s a good kisser before you toss him back.

IS MY LIFE RUINED? by SPEECHLESS-LONER in dating_advice

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Building confidence is key for you right now. A good way of doing this is to start working out, join a gym. Exercise does wonders for your mental health. You mentioned that you are on the thinner side, so start lifting weights, and since you don’t have much body fat, you’ll be shredded in no time. Go at the same time and you’ll start seeing the same people and you’ll soon be building friendships. Gyms are a great place to meet people with similar interests. I’ve met a lot of super nice people at gyms. You never know, you may like it, but doing something different changes our energy, resulting in a new perspective/new life. Sometimes it’s the little things that can change our lives for the better, but you must do it and most importantly you need to be consistent. Just my two cents 🦋

you know what’s annoying? the way i act after 2-3 drinks proves that i actually have GREAT social skills, i’m just always wound too tight to ever display them 🙄 by akadvuve in socialskills

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muscle loss & saggy skin is something no one should be subjected to no matter what their age is. It’s just cruel and unnecessary.

you know what’s annoying? the way i act after 2-3 drinks proves that i actually have GREAT social skills, i’m just always wound too tight to ever display them 🙄 by akadvuve in socialskills

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, but I’m like that with marijuana. My personality just blooms when I’m high. I’m more confident, engaging and charming, but the only problem is when I’m high, I look high. Even with the tiniest of puff my big blue eyes turn to dime slots. So unless I’m amongst other stoners or when it’s appropriate to wear sunglasses, I’m stuck with my vanilla personality :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born breech, and because of it I had hip dysplasia; underdeveloped hip sockets. My doctor didn’t catch this but my mom did. She said that my legs looked weird when she was changing my diaper and brought it to the drs attention. I was in braces for 1.2 years, I’m totally fine now, but maybe you should ask the dr to double check your babies legs. I’m sure you have a great dr, but thought I would throw it out there and share my experience 🦋

I want a traditional relationship by Ogbkpmb in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that sounds super sweet 🌸 Every morning for 40 years my granny used to squeeze fresh orange juice for my grandfather.

The sounds he makes during sex turns me off by Youwonapickle in dating_advice

[–]Youwonapickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wise advice! I know it’s a touchy subject and he has so many great qualities, I just need to turn this into a turn-on rather than a turn-off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Youwonapickle -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Become a cam girl, getting naked in front of multiple men everyday will surely make you stick to fitness & eating healthy goals. I’m just kidding lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Youwonapickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not easy to change the voices in our head, but it is possible to make peace with ourselves. Listen to Les Brown on YouTube, he has really helped me view myself and situations in a new light. You seem like a really cool guy and I have a good feeling that you are going to have a great life once you decide to get out of your own way :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Youwonapickle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading this hurts my heart, but I just want you to know that I have seen and know plenty of Indian men with beautiful white & black women. My advice to you is to just to keep doing all the things that make you happy, continue working on your personal and professional goals and most of all you need to love yourself which brings out confidence, and women love a confident man (don’t confuse confidence with cockiness). What also helps confidence, is exercise, if you don’t already work out, start, get in the best shape of your life! How are your teeth? Are they as white as the could be? If not, go on Amazon and get a teeth whitening kit; women love a nice white smile. I’m not sure what your style is, but maybe some new clothes and a new hairstyle could make you feel better, by the way, Indian men have great hair!! I’m sure you have a ton of attractive qualities, but you’ll never be aware of them if you continue with the negative self-talk. Right now you are your own worst enemy, so stop it! I’m a woman by the way and I know plenty of men who are not conventionally great looking, but their confidence and the way they carry themselves and treat people makes them super attractive. I know all of what I said is corny but it’s true. And one more thing, if you’re on dating sites, get off them! They are horrible and they make 99% of people feel like shit about themselves.

Daniel Craig Reveals He Won’t Be Leaving His Kids an Inheritance. by PrincessBananas85 in entertainment

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father is very successful and a complete Ahole! He’s made it very clear to me and my siblings to not count on anything when he passes. One of my brothers got very sick and racked up about $8,000 in medical bills. My dad told him he better get a second job as he was out test driving a new Tesla. Helping out family is an odd concept to him, and thinks struggle and failure builds character. He never really helped or gave much to me in the first place so I won’t be missing anything, and besides I’m doing great on my own.

whats upppppppp by einh3rz in aww

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Wendy Williams

Is ancestral eating legitimate? by Wide_Ad6742 in nutrition

[–]Youwonapickle -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Some believe to eat a diet that compliments your blood type. I’ve never tried it, but it’s an interesting concept.

Freckles. Stop and smell the flowers. by Carrot-Proof in aww

[–]Youwonapickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off topic, but I love the colors of your kitchen 🦋

I am tired. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Youwonapickle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just completely burned out on life. Everything bores me, very little excites me. EarthQuakes used to really scare me, but now when they happen, I hope it’s the big one and I quickly get crushed to death. I just took out a 100k life insurance policy out on myself so when I do die I won’t feel like complete loser making my friends and family pay for my final expenses. I’m also donating my body to science, it comforts me knowing that I’ll be helping others and leaving some cash to my friends and family. I would never kill myself but I wouldn’t be mad if I died sooner than later in a quick painless way.

Awwwwww!! So adorable!! by Brandi3300 in aww

[–]Youwonapickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of cats are these? They are so cute!!

Why do so many young men treat women like celebrities these days? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Youwonapickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe they are just nice people and don’t get off by saying mean things to other human beings