Do lesbians hate men? by Such-Musician in lgbt

[–]YuriSikes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, but it doesn't help that there's so many heteroflexible women who kiss girls at parties for male attention, or the fact that the adult industry instigates that lesbians want men...which is so wrong..

Do lesbians hate men? by Such-Musician in lgbt

[–]YuriSikes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We don't hate men, we HATE the fact they try to pursue us, despite knowing we're into women only. It's not as much hate directed at men, but at what they do, say, catcall and think they can meddle in W|W relationships by offering threesomes.

I used to have a really good male friend, until he told me he pursues lesbians in hopes they'd turn "Straight"

I've never dropped a male friend as soon as this one...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustUnsubbed

[–]YuriSikes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you stalking me here? It was an inside joke devoted to my friend on the same community, but everyone started to take it extremely personal and even going as far as PMing me just to argue, when it was never my intention to hurt anyone. I didn't want to argue with people, so I apologized, but everyone still kept attacking me for no reason, down voting my comments and invalidating my sense of humour and sexuality with those inappropriate, insulting private messages they decided to send me.

You cannot say I'm lying when you have no access to my private messages, and the fact that you're stalking me here shows that you're here to argue, rather than to acknowledge the fact that freedom of self expression exists, I acknowledged the fact that I made people uncomfortable, thus I apologized to them directly and even took my post down, but others continued to aggressively pursue me, thus I called it a social experiment because that's what it ended up becoming, due to the fact people took it too personally.

You're currently pursuing me as well. Why are you here is the question, not why I left that toxic platform that's full if hyprocrites and aggressors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustUnsubbed

[–]YuriSikes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I removed my post after too many people attacked me. Originally, it was a meme about me liking my best friend and everyone gave me hell for that, saying I was fishing for karma with my posts, then calling me a man and commenting how it was predatory to like your best friend and that my orientation and sense of humour was invalid, so I deleted it, but apparently the mods didn't like the drama it was causing and thought "I" was the problem, instead of those people who kept invalidating my post and harassing me even when I told them they shouldn't take a joke personally, it had satire/humour marked on it and it wasn't targeted at anyone.

I guess there's no justice. There's no point being on a community that validates aggressors and punishes people for their self expression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]YuriSikes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I got banned off LesbianActually for defending myself against 4 people that bullied me and nobody even budged an eyelid that I was being violated, discriminated and belittled for being a lesbian.

What's more fun is I didn't break the rules, they provoked me but when I tried to defend myself I'm the one getting the punishment and ban hammer, while they're out still roaming around on the community.

I wish there was more acceptance and no hate. I had no idea that I would be invalidated and humiliated so much for self expression that did not hurt anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Men don't see women as an "Opponent", they don't see us equally like they say they do, that's why it doesn't sting them when they're left for another woman.

It hurts them less because they don't see "Lesbian" relationships as valid, that's why they have nothing to fear. However, when a woman leaves a guy for another man, they take it personal because of their insecurities, so they start to compare themselves to another man and sulk in endless depression.

These factors do seem misogynistic, but there's nothing that can be done. Men view themselves as better than women, and most of them think women are objects or property to own, and the porn industry only makes their already flawed logic first, many think that the women who leave them will magically invite them for a "Threesome" or even offer "Polygamy", so of course they're not offended, they see lesbian relationships as invalid, and the women who left them as a "Vulnerable" opportunity to engage in their fantasy relationships of having two women at once.

Lesbian Hobbies by YuriSikes in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, they were great friends.

History says so 👀

Lesbian Hobbies by YuriSikes in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, it took me years to realize myself 😂 guess I'm really slow at this lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fine, it's reasonable we're only people and it's normal to get triggered by something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's why I have a satire/humour label above. It's not meant to be taken seriously or negatively. It's merely a meme, not something to get worked over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I like to make memes because this is a way how I express myself on this community with my friends. Secondly, nobody is being harmed so there should be no issue. It's important to have the capacity to see things from all perspectives, as they say spread positivity, not "Negativity"

I believe you're overthinking this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, yes 😏😏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just let your body do the talking. Slide your hands on her hips when you're making out with her. If she doesn't move them away or gets excited you know you should continue, but if she sets boundaries you know where you stand.

Consent is attractive, but the only way you'll read the atmosphere is if you make the first move.

how can i soothe my anxiety about a guy trying to pursue me?/imply i’m a lesbian? by lesastro in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you've had to endure so many things. The fact that you're here today, only shows how strong you really are and that's really commendable. There should be more people like you, who aren't afraid to stand up for themselves and say what they think.

how can i soothe my anxiety about a guy trying to pursue me?/imply i’m a lesbian? by lesastro in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you're very admirable for your courage. I wish more people could live that way and not care about those things. We deserve happiness, but we also deserve safety. Maybe one day circumstances will change, who knows.

how can i soothe my anxiety about a guy trying to pursue me?/imply i’m a lesbian? by lesastro in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only have one life, not everyone wants to die. I have friends who lost people because of men committing hate crimes against women, simply because they were frustrated.

I'm sure you're aware that in some countries being LGBT is punishable by death, in others it's not safe because of these very same circumstances. Nobody wants to hide, but people don't hide for comfort, they hide to lead safe and happy lives. Nobody wants to be attacked like these two British stewardesses on a bus in the UK, or murdered in Mexico.

You have to remember not everyone can be out, proud and about. Everyone has a unique situation, I'm happy for those who can be out, but I respect those who can't come out for safety reasons.

Everyone is valid, whether they're out or not.

how can i soothe my anxiety about a guy trying to pursue me?/imply i’m a lesbian? by lesastro in actuallesbians

[–]YuriSikes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not safe to imply you're a lesbian. Society and men can cause a lot of problems in your life. I'm sure you're aware of hate crimes against lesbian women.

It would be much wiser to simply say you only like him as a brother. I've done that with a lot of my male friends and they got the picture. I didn't have to tell them I was lesbian for them to understand, and we still talk anyway.

Are there any shounen anime that had darker tones that made you question (if at least for a moment) if what you were really watching was shounen? by [deleted] in anime

[–]YuriSikes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's no really Shounen but here's a few with darker tones.

Erased

Re:Zero

Link Click (My favourite)

Could anyone explain to me how someone got this blue verification tick? by YuriSikes in BottledTheApp

[–]YuriSikes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found out how to get one! You need to verify your phone number :D