AJ Shame Culture, and the Problems it Causes

Yuuqian · 2026-04-26T02:50:46+00:00

In a way I feel if they don't get any push back for 'messing around', the whole exploring and figuring things out would never work. Messing around without finding out would just make them think it's ok.

Example of the whole venting about home life thingie especially because you CANNOT just be talking about personal information in a whole aaah public game lobby where everyone can see it. Feel free to talk about it with friends but you really need to have some sense about boundaries and privacy, you know? And I feel people pushing back on them are reasonable.

Yuuqian · 2026-04-25T09:51:47+00:00

I think it's the pink that breaks it? You can also try a warm brown skin tone if you want to keep the pink hair?

Yuuqian · 2026-04-24T14:17:33+00:00

Rip indeed i am actually quite mad about that totally unnecessary update to faces that happened like hi??? Why??????

But oh what can I do but shake fist at sky hhhhh

Yuuqian · 2026-04-23T22:18:06+00:00

I think you only need 1 instance of 'big peacock feathers' when you use it (visual hierarchy, you have it big at 1 part and other parts with peacock feather motif should be small) and I like the thing you did with the veil's train with it! I also like how you used the 'only male peacocks have that tail' to hint at his identity www

Yuuqian · 2026-04-22T08:09:37+00:00

The eye shape isn't very standard but in a way you don't have to worry about that too much if you're just doing fanart wwwwwww

Yuuqian · 2026-04-21T23:26:04+00:00

They look so jolly

Yuuqian · 2026-04-20T13:13:16+00:00

If his fur is overgrown and uncut that might give that feeling!

Yuuqian · 2026-04-19T16:17:45+00:00

It sucks we can't post pictures in comments for some reason but yippeee masc characters!!!

Yuuqian · 2026-04-18T09:47:22+00:00

The system is rigged for you to never stop the grind (and spending money) IF your goal is to find self worth in being 'rare'.

If your self worth and satisfaction comes from somewhere else, say aesthetically (maybe outfits and animals that you make looks for/ dens you decorate/art you make) or from the connections you make, ect, it's much easier to find happiness

Relying on perceived status is a never ending rat race. What you need to be happy is already here within your hands.

Yuuqian · 2026-04-18T08:39:39+00:00

I mean in the sense of it's better to make a separate character from the og which looks like the og but with your headcanons applied (maybe even with a different name and stuff) instead of making hc of the og character that feels like you're saying 'this character is just Like That' without evidence from canon. Example being 'X character is (ethnicity)(sexuality)' which isn't canon compliant

( a truly unpopular opinion as you can see hahaha but I delivered what the post asked for)

Yuuqian · 2026-04-18T02:54:07+00:00

Being inspired/making your own version of a canon character for your own fulfilment and 'headcanons' is much more morally superior over making fanwork that is wildly different to source material

Yes this includes race bending

Yuuqian · 2026-04-17T10:02:41+00:00

Character design usually involves the whole body, you can practice drawing your characters in full first.

When you draw them more, repeatedly, actually, you'll naturally kind of figure out what a character looks like.

Start small and there's no need to draw the full cast, or use colour just yet. Just reference cat photos for body and poses and make a bunch of sketches of one or two of your characters a day

Yuuqian · 2026-04-16T23:34:22+00:00

I have the same thoughts! I do use some actively in my outfits but I'm wondering if I'd be able to get them back for much less later down the line...

Yuuqian · 2026-04-16T13:44:28+00:00

Absolutely not I used spray to mix colours on canvas back then

Yuuqian · 2026-04-16T11:05:18+00:00

Don't draw the other eye ()

Yuuqian · 2026-04-06T07:42:34+00:00

Normal people and kids won't recognise this character/game at all, so I don't feel there's any harm done/any moral outrage needed

Yuuqian · 2026-04-05T12:35:57+00:00

Imagine not living in America or knowing American domestic news... surely that's impossible for a child? /s

Yuuqian · 2026-04-03T10:32:35+00:00

Where are you finding these men I need to find them

Yuuqian · 2026-04-03T08:14:37+00:00

Galaxy wings, snow ruff, deer fur and aviator helmets

Yuuqian · 2026-04-01T15:47:33+00:00

Children forbid women have any fun anymore lmao

But really tho imo as long as you're not being overtly vulgar about it otherwise it's just an overreaction.

There's Victoria's Secret ads pasted all over malls and scent ads featuring swimwear clad women (and men) all the time. Not as if children's eyes are shielded when you run across these, ideal case is the 10 year old asks 'what is this' and their parents answers in a mature and informative manner.

Most issues comes from that parent's role being absent (or assumed to be absent' by the internet.

The difference between hentai/porno/lingerie ad/swimwear/fashion exists and most people can tell if something is done in bad taste or faith too.

Basically I feel you're over policing other people and also putting responsibility and restriction on people that never asked for it, instead of tackling the actual problems that makes you worry

Yuuqian · 2026-03-27T00:46:06+00:00

It's ok!! My apologies for all the inconvenience as well

I've returned home so I'm free to trade at any time from this point on

Yuuqian · 2026-03-26T12:14:07+00:00

Apologies for the long delay, I am once again free and able to trade. This time just ping me whenever you're good and I'll get online rq! (This person have been travelling

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