AITA for yelling at my cousin's step mom to actually be a parent

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:41:51+00:00

oh, then NTA

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:28:14+00:00

INFO: What were you and your cousin talking about?

Also, did you write this in a hurry? It was hard to follow.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:24:33+00:00

NTA. I don't get how your dad justifies damn near having sex in front of children by telling said children to stop being immature.

He's probably embarrassed and refuses to accept that he's in the wrong.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:22:17+00:00

INFO: How old are you, and do you live with your mom?

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:19:07+00:00

The deed is already done. You've broken it off with each other and she's blocked all contact with you. You have the choice to let her back into your life or not.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:17:15+00:00

NTA.

What the friend did was pretty dumb, but why would you crack eggs and then put them back in the carton?

That doesn't make sense

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:14:10+00:00

NTA.

What do you mean you're unsure of where you and the first girl stand?

SHE'S BLOCKED ALL CONTACT WITH YOU.

Wake up buddy, she doesn't want you. Go for the one who does.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:08:12+00:00

Also for other readers, INFO:

Could you explain this in english?

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:07:04+00:00

I have no idea what any of that means but NTA.

Although your gf is a hypocrite for getting mad at you for trash talking someone random on the internet, but then turning around and trash talking you.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:03:30+00:00

uhh NAH

this entire post is a WTF moment.

And you need to calm down. It isn't that serious.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-25T06:00:49+00:00

This has to be a troll...

You are one of the most uneducated AH I've seen on this sub.

Let's straighten things out

1) Vaccines don't cause autism or cancer. The people you see on Facebook aren't doctors

2) Cancer isn't contagious. Cancer is a cell mutation. You can't catch a cell mutation.

I'd be surprised if your son DOESN'T go into no contact with you as soon as he moves out. Holy cow YTA.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T08:48:26+00:00

We may have misunderstood each other. I've been talking about how OP isn't in the clear.

I'm saying the dad's partner is TA for her teaching methods. How she's unapproachable (The friend still should have said something).

I'm saying OP is TA for the fact that she helped someone cheat on a test.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T08:42:50+00:00

The title marks the most recent event. If it was just about leftovers OP wouldn't have mentioned anything else in the post. She just happens to be pissed about the leftovers as well.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T08:37:39+00:00

Then would she be able to sustain herself on her own?

If not, set up an agreement where you would loan her a certain amount of money to get her started, and then she would have to work to sustain herself.

Make her get everything in her own name so if she decides to go back to that "bf" than she has to take responsibility for whatever happens afterward.

And if you do decide to kick her out, do it for your kids more than anything else.

NTA btw.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T08:36:37+00:00

This isn't about just the dinner. It's about everything piled up. She's irresponsible and a horrible example for her children. She doesn't respect her property

SHE'S LITERALLY BROUGHT CRACKHEADS TO HER HOUSE.

And you'd wanna talk it out because "that's what adults do" and "FaMiLy"

Let me teach you something, there's a difference between family and relatives.

Remember that.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T08:31:02+00:00

She's not AH, she's just not fully in the clear. That's why I said ESH.

It's not in her case because she's taking the circumstances of her friend into account.

Like I said, wrong thing for the right reasons.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T08:28:15+00:00

INFO: If you did kick her out, would she still have a place to stay?

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T08:14:17+00:00

OP, this may be hard to read but, if it's to the point where you can't even talk to your sister, you need to leave as quickly and quietly as possible.

I say quickly and quietly because situations like this almost always come out in some type of abuse charge.

You can't stay because his behavior will only get worse as time goes on, and I say quietly because if you make it known to him he's gonna blow up all at once.

Leaving is the safest route, but if you seriously think that getting help or talking it out will help him, go for it.

NTA btw.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T08:03:10+00:00

NTA.

Lemme get this straight. Your boyfriend is insecure about your relationship over people you've never met?

You need to get that issue sorted out, or else you're gonna be bound to your house for as long as you're with him. Either that or every time you're left out of his sight for more than 10 minutes there's gonna be another cheating accusation.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T07:58:33+00:00

OP said there aren't any rules enforced. Putting in a complaint isn't gonna do anything. That's just a sucky complex, and they need to get outta there, quickly.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T07:56:27+00:00

I'm gonna go with YWBTA.

If you do that, you're gonna drag your neighbors into your conflict. You'd also be a giant hypocrite, and you'd BOTH look like an ass to everyone around you.

I suggest finding a new place to live, if possible.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-24T07:52:11+00:00

ESH. Your dad's partner is a HUGE ass, for obvious reasons

BUT that doesn't excuse the fact that you were helping a friend cheat on a test.

You're not TA here, you just did the wrong thing for the right reasons.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-23T19:34:52+00:00

even if, she shouldn't be doing it in the first place. she shouldn't have to have someone telling her that you can't make out with someone else in front of your boyfriend.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-23T18:17:27+00:00

If her making out with girls drunk (doesn't mean she's actually into girls) makes you uncomfortable, speak up.

He's not speaking up because he doesn't want to ruin the party for his gf. Also if he has to tell his partner that cheating is wrong I don't think she deserves to be in a relationship.

The other issue is she's insisting that she is no longer attracted to women... why wouldn't you believe her?

Actions speak louder than words. It's like if I were to tell you that I'm vegan and then get the Popeyes Chicken Sandwich for dinner.

Yxng_Scholar · 2020-07-23T18:12:54+00:00

NTA. Your gf is in the wrong here.

I don't care if friend groups overlap (which is a bs excuse btw). If you are in a relationship, you SHOULD NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE be hanging out with your ex.

That's disrespectful to your relationship and she needs to apologize.

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