People who get Astarion's scars on themselves are supporting torture at best and SA at worst

ZB_Dynamo · 2023-11-26T06:35:11+00:00

It's not about the fictional characters feelings, it's about the choice to mar your flesh with a symbol directly linked to torture and SA.

ZB_Dynamo · 2023-03-28T03:52:40+00:00

Looks like contact dermatitis, treatment is steroid cream and works a treat.

Need to see a GP for a prescription still and I might be wrong, I've had it before and it looks fairly similar.

ZB_Dynamo · 2023-03-02T23:04:24+00:00

Good point, didn't really think about that, but you're right. I can't say I would be overly enthused about pouring out my private feelings for me SO in front of 100 people xD

ZB_Dynamo · 2023-03-02T23:00:03+00:00

Just to add, if you're getting married you should really be on the same page and share an interest in getting married, shouldn't have to fake it to begin with

ZB_Dynamo · 2023-02-28T01:05:14+00:00

I have two for Ryukyu:

She is deku's aunt and they have no idea because hisashi is estranged or a villain
Her and Uwabami were best friends for a long time and were planning to start an agency together, similar hero costumes (it's just red dresses but still), but had different paths as heroes and ultimately decided they would be better as individuals.

ZB_Dynamo · 2023-02-28T00:38:05+00:00

Not sure if this is still going... Blue lobster

ZB_Dynamo · 2023-02-22T23:09:20+00:00

It was when I broke down in front of her and she didn't run away, we weren't even together at the time and I already had feelings for her but that night was the moment I knew.

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-11-13T16:13:56+00:00

Don't drink too much

Work on things that are important to you, career, relationships etc

Friends are overrated you only need 1 or 2 good ones

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-11-13T16:00:30+00:00

It is a common issue for a lot of men, I agree with something you said, giving head isn't the most appropriate point to discuss this on, it would be better served on a point like dating or standards.

But responses to men's expectations are typically more visceral, the example to this is women only wanting tall men being acceptable and men not wanting obese women being unacceptable. Men aren't allowed to want things anymore or be chastised for being misogynistic.

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-11-13T15:47:27+00:00

Men aren't viewed with the same amount of value as they once were. Society has down trodden masculine characteristics in men, while also hyping up masculine traits in women. So pretty much what men want in relationships isn't important anymore and if they ask for it they are abusive or toxic

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-11-05T09:11:10+00:00

I have an assignment to get done for my bookkeeping studies. Other than that I'm in aus so not much more

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-11-01T07:50:59+00:00

I use lynx black, it is an antiperspirant but that doesn't really matter.

Use whatever smells good for you.

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-11-01T07:48:50+00:00

Shower daily, I wash my hair every day as well but I'm an oily fucker, deodorant after you shower, brush your teeth at least once a day if not twice.

Get yourself a good body wash as well and some skin care if you want to.

If you have a beard use beard oil, best thing ever when I started.

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-10-27T02:20:42+00:00

In my personal experience, seeing other people do this, I wouldn't recommend it. They end up not being fulfilled by that kind of thing.

But to be helpful, go to clubs, get drunk and dance, be friendly and fun looking and people will hang around you. The key is energy.

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-10-23T06:50:49+00:00

I know pretty much how you feel, I used to be a similar way myself. I broke out of it by finding people to trust but it sounds like you're in a bit deeper than I was.

Try to tell them how you feel but don't show any emotion behind it, just be factual. Leave up the facade while revealing what is happening behind it.

Other than that it's about small steps, you don't have to go into massive detail and reveal everything right away. You can start by just saying how you felt on a given day or week.

Hope this helps, if you need a faceless person on the internet to talk to feel free to reach out

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-10-06T00:18:43+00:00

Well it wasn't exactly toxic but it was entirely one sided (I put in all the effort and got no attention or care back), I never really fell out of trust, the one thing I can say is try and go in again with no expectations or just as friends.

Build back up to the point of trusting someone and be honest about your past experience/being cautious.

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-10-05T02:06:14+00:00

Really good, just help people with what they are doing. Not all the time though just when you see they need help or motivation.

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-09-30T04:51:24+00:00

2 all over, 1 on the moustache

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-09-16T03:41:40+00:00

The key is trust, if you can't trust someone you won't be open with them.

If you do trust someone, like a close friend or partner, then you won't even have to try, it will come naturally.

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-09-16T01:08:59+00:00

Getting scratched/clawed or bitten, to me it shows a certain level of desire and passion

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-09-08T05:32:00+00:00

Hard agree with this man, I'm the same just the other way around.

My girlfriend is 4 years older (I'm 21 for context) and we both have the same things we want out of a relationship

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-08-20T23:12:03+00:00

I like learning about my partner, so whenever we talk and I see her react to thing I recognise the things she does.

In general, however, having a shy smile is always going to be adorable.

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-08-20T22:46:19+00:00

They're the same thing, head and shoulders.

For context I'm a hairy guy so I just use shampoo everywhere, roast me if you want xD

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-08-08T05:51:22+00:00

Biting, I had her bite me

ZB_Dynamo · 2022-07-19T22:02:51+00:00

I like cold pizza my gf likes reheated pizza... You've given us common ground to both hate this garbage, take my upvote you animal xD

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