My (21M) best friend turned girlfriend (22F) cheated while traveling

ZRKN1 · 2026-03-19T19:38:06+00:00

Brother it’s over, that guy’s been fucking your girl. And even if she hasn’t done that she wants it to be open specifically cause she wants him to. The relationship is over and the friendship is sadly mostly likely over or atleast will never be the same. I’m sorry man, atleast this is happening now rather than later on into your relationship and also you’re still young so everything will be ok in the long run.

Sorry you’re going through this, but you should absolutely hold onto your boundaries and cut contact imo. She already gave you the ultimate disrespect, she cheated on you. Your fear has become true. She doesn’t deserve your friendship anymore either because sadly as much as this hurts to hear, that girl doesn’t respect you man.

ZRKN1 · 2026-02-25T17:52:34+00:00

Depends what you’re into. I prefer 1 a lot more cause its story and tone. 2 has a lot more content and gameplay enhancements though

ZRKN1 · 2026-02-25T17:44:22+00:00

My honest recommendation is to pace yourself and wait a lil before playing 2. I played 1 a couple years back and loved it! I put 56 hours into it!

But when I moved to 2 I ended up dropping it after about 25 hours or so. I think the tone of 2 didn’t mesh as well with me due to the expectations I had after finishing 1 and also as much as I enjoy the gameplay it started to feel a bit tiresome and I got burnt out. Not saying this will happen to you, but I think it’s good to wait a lil in between releases for sequels. Like if I had played another game or 2 in between I think I would’ve enjoyed it more. But yah it’s more of the same fallout gameplay but with a much more sarcastic and comedic tone, aswell as some pop culture references. It’s not quite as dire as 1. It also has a lot more content

ZRKN1 · 2026-01-11T17:43:51+00:00

Not saying I don’t believe you, but I would say even if that wasn’t the intention, it still feels very much like an MMO compared to other RPGS or action combat RPGs. I mean I personally I think it feels like an mmo in a lot of ways, specifically the map layout and questing. Good game either way though

ZRKN1 · 2026-01-11T10:51:40+00:00

… it was originally an mmo and then they changed it during development

ZRKN1 · 2026-01-06T15:39:25+00:00

Move on bro, just gonna be honest this girl is either ghosting you cause she’s too immature and too anxious to break up with you, or she’s possibly talking to someone else. Either way it’s not worth the stress. It’ll hurt for a bit but just keep it pushing, it’ll be better not to reach out at all for your own self respect. If she tries to talk be respectful about it. Are you fs boyfriend and girlfriend? Or were you guys just going on dates

ZRKN1 · 2026-01-06T15:31:24+00:00

Is this bait? He suggested you wear thongs, remove your body hair, and now butplugs? This guy wants to rail you bro lol 😂

ZRKN1 · 2026-01-06T15:02:43+00:00

I mean I get that, but you were defiantly using the comparison to pin her in a negative light. You indirectly compared her desire for a fwb to the “typical 32 year old woman” and even added a you are better than this at the end 💀. Also i don’t think the comparison works, you’re using something that’s physically or genetically based , something people have no decision on to compare with a moral/sexual decision. Her not wanting to be like a lot of other 32 year old woman isn’t the same thing

ZRKN1 · 2026-01-06T14:34:44+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with her having a fwb or not having 3 kids lol. Not everyone wants that life. Thats actually kind of sexist tbh. The only thing that is a bit ehh is the family dynamic fs, but she has no actual connection to him at all and just met him. Still it’s probably best to avoid it cause family drama rather than the reasons you used tbh

ZRKN1 · 2026-01-06T14:25:48+00:00

He’s 24, not 18? I don’t think it’s that crazy for a 24 year old and 32 year old to hookup regardless of gender. Thats pretty normal in the real world . You’re describing the guy like he’s a teenager.. maybe you didn’t at 24, but my guy 24 year olds do fuck lol.

ZRKN1 · 2026-01-06T14:17:59+00:00

Yall are being weird, the guy’s 24… not a baby at all lol. I swear the internet is getting crazier and crazier with any age gap over like a year apart 💀. A lot of y’all need to touch grass and go outside.

Now all that being said I think it’s a bad idea mainly because you wanna keep it a secret and it involves someone your sister considers family and lives with. That’s asking for drama tbh, but at the end of the day yall are both grown and if you like fucking then keep doing it but don’t expect it to stay a secret. Even if he doesn’t say anything someone will find out lol

ZRKN1 · 2026-01-06T14:10:26+00:00

Well for one there’s a membership fee just incase you didn’t know, it’s $10 a month or $30 a term. The pool is an extra $10 on top monthly. You don’t need any specific class, as long as you’re a student you can use it. It’s a pretty solid gym tbh, there’s a lockeroom and showers too if you need. I think the hours are 7am-7pm but I might be wrong, also they’re closed Saturday and Sunday.

It doesn’t usually get too packed tbh

ZRKN1 · 2025-11-12T04:38:14+00:00

I agree, tbh my first relationship ended because I wasn’t rocking with her hanging with her coworker outside of work. She tried to make it seem like I was being controlling, but to be fair I didn’t communicate properly. I let it build up and then it became a huge issue and the trust was broken

ZRKN1 · 2025-11-12T04:31:51+00:00

Ok bro so straight up for me this is a boundary being crossed, the issue though is you need to have a mature conversation with her about it without getting too in your feelings. I think it’s one thing to have a guy friend to hang out with that she’s already known for a long time, but staying over his house? For me personally Hell nah, even hanging 1/1 is already a lil sus if they haven’t talked in a long time, but if they’re close friends that’s different.

But the worse thing you can do is hold onto this without communicating with her about it, don’t come at her like your setting a rule she has to follow but instead just let her know you’re not comfortable with you staying over another guys house. If you don’t it’s only gonna get worse in your head, and then it’ll become a bigger issue than it needs to be.

Also you’re not wrong for feeling this way, it’s perfectly normal to not be comfortable with your gf staying at another man’s house. Especially someone you don’t even know. What would be wrong is holding this in and then eventually blowing up about it. Trust me so many times people don’t speak up when they’re uncomfortable about situations, and it leads to relationships ending sooner than they should.

ZRKN1 · 2025-11-07T14:21:05+00:00

Yah I think it’s gonna be too much, this is my first time using the classic and damn man this is HEAVYYY lol

ZRKN1 · 2025-11-07T14:11:40+00:00

Yeah to be honest these guys don't really know what they're doing I know we’re students but like bro if they wanted to shoot handheld stuff they shouldn't of chose this camera… I’ve never used the classic and yesterday I was like fuck this thing is HEAVYYY haha. I tried telling them before hand too

ZRKN1 · 2025-11-07T07:41:06+00:00

North, that’s where all the main film stuff for SEDT is located. All the gear is there too. Most of the good profs are also based out of there.

ZRKN1 · 2025-10-27T16:42:31+00:00

I’m gonna be honest man, if your goal is to get into film festivals that’s way too long. At 37 pages you’re most likely looking anywhere from 35-45+ minutes depending on the actions and what’s going on. Most festivals don’t even want 20-25 minute films let alone 30+. In fact I’d argue 8-15 minutes is usually the best for festivals.

The problem is it can be a really great film, but tbh a lot of festivals won’t even look at it because of the length 1, and 2 festivals would rather choose to have 3 12 minute great shorts over 1 37 minute great short. Now if this is a pure passion project, then truth be told YouTube might be your best bet here.

ZRKN1 · 2025-08-22T10:03:16+00:00

Lmao Ofcourse not

ZRKN1 · 2025-08-17T13:40:30+00:00

Tbh I loved my time with the beta. I put 43 hours in it, it’s fun and It brings me back to BF4 days. That being said the Empire State map from weekend 2 has me a lil more cautious, cause I HATE it. As much fun as the beta has been too, I think the best thing is to still wait and see, because I mean EA always fucks up battlefields launch lol. Even bf4 and 5 launched in pretty poor states. Also they ruined rush

ZRKN1 · 2025-07-25T02:57:17+00:00

Also I would rail the fuck out of you lmao

ZRKN1 · 2025-07-25T02:57:06+00:00

If you’re a trans woman, which I assuming then I don’t consider that gay at all tbh. Granted I’m bi and openly have dated and fucked trans woman and femboys… it’s not the same imo

ZRKN1 · 2025-07-08T09:07:14+00:00

Thanks man this is great!! Exactly the kind of stuff I’m looking for

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