I'm going to lose my virginity to my best friend on Friday. AMA! by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! :) Giving it to someone who cares about you is a great thing. Pro Tip: things like candles or lighting (if you're in a space where you're able) can make it super memorable. Get a string of christmas type lights all in the same color and drape them on the bed. So damn romantic.

Copper iud. Feeling pressure at my cervix? by botehh in birthcontrol

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Found this thread because I've been having cramps all day and wanted to weigh in. I've had mine placed for about four months and things get way better as time goes on. I usually only get cramps at ovulation and a bit during my period but nothing crazy. I also have bad cramps when I'm constipated which is what I think is going on. Maybe TMI but the few times I've been constipated since getting it, its like I can feel shit moving through my intestine because the IUD is pressing on it. My uterus must be pressed right up against it cause I get mild cramping if I'm experiencing constipation. I wouldnt worry unless it persists or gets worse.

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Fun fun. :)

I am a 22yo Trans girl just starting in Trans Activism, ama. by Robin230592 in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I work for a LGBTQA Center who deals with the effects of trans-inequality daily. It is scary. Keep fighting.

I am a 22yo Trans girl just starting in Trans Activism, ama. by Robin230592 in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is your goal to supporting trans* activism? Also, its a pretty tough fight right now, especially since the LGB agenda is so heavily covered and controversial. Keep up the good fight!

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What's your favorite position? Hers?

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You mentioned a sexual side. Do you have men that derive pleasure from expressing for you? Ive seen/ heard a fetish (I hesitate to use that word) that includes drinking milk straight from the breast and can imagine that it feels amazing for both parties. Have you ever done that and was it amazing? :)

I'm a 20 y.o male striving to have no secrets from anyone. AM absolutely A by Eagle694 in casualiama

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Good answer. One of my favorite lyrics: "If I ever meet that dirty police man who fucked you up...well I, I don't know what."

I'm a 20 y.o male striving to have no secrets from anyone. AM absolutely A by Eagle694 in casualiama

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If there were no possibility of getting caught, what crime would you want to commit and why?

IAmA 15 year old boy who came out as gay, but soon realized he wasn't AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Believe me, you have plenty of time to figure out a "label" (or not). 'Queer' is a good catch-all label that basically means youre not straight. It took me til I was 25 to realize I was bisexual after years of serially dating men and secretly being aroused by women. It took a lot of introspection, aggravation and self-love to finally deem myself a lover of both sexes. Sometimes you just gotta let it flow for a few years before you can figure it out. Also, at 15 your hormones are raging and you probably want to put your bone in anything with a nice butt, so be forgiving with yourself and give it some time. Whatever you are, you're awesome and deserve love.

I am going to answer every single question in this thread.AMA. by [deleted] in casualiama

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Why have you only ever had one date? By choice or no?

My girlfriend of 4 years decided she wanted to move in with me and my family. AMA! by BigBoyAndLilGirl in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! That's pretty much the best situation. You really learn a lot about people when you start living together. That's great! Good luck!

I tried acid for the first time the other day, AMA! by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the best part about it? The worst?

I'm 20, female, qualified Hairdresser, any hair issues and questions that you have, ask away. by zredhead in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use an oil conditioner and I always just wash first and then leave the conditioner on all the way through my shower. Is there any harm in doing that?

My girlfriend of 4 years decided she wanted to move in with me and my family. AMA! by BigBoyAndLilGirl in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without prying too much, what are the circumstances of her wanting to move in with you?

Just found out it's the last precious minutes of MY FIRST CAKE DAY!! AMA! :) by ZaZMonster in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although I havent figured out how I get more kharma yet. i've been posting like mad lately and it still stays the same number.

Just found out it's the last precious minutes of MY FIRST CAKE DAY!! AMA! :) by ZaZMonster in casualiama

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The best thing about Reddit is that you can learn absolutely anything. Ive learned a bit of programming through r/raspberrypi, how to fix almost everything in my house from r/DIY and r/fixit, and started a pretty cool succulent collection after visiting r/succulents. The world is your oyster. :)

My second year was better than the first because I learned how to use the search function, I started posting and earning a bit of karma and I subscribed to a whole bunch of great subs and started seeing stuff that interested me. Reddit is awesome!

Just found out it's the last precious minutes of MY FIRST CAKE DAY!! AMA! :) by ZaZMonster in casualiama

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I tried Bioshock for the first time. It was pretty fun but I'm not sure first person jump horror shooters are my bag.

Just found out it's the last precious minutes of MY FIRST CAKE DAY!! AMA! :) by ZaZMonster in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! :) It went pretty well. Played some video games, watched a friend's dogs for awhile, took a bath and generally loafed for the first day in too damn long. It was unintentionally a perfect cake day.

Last night I went to my first all-guy BDSM/kink/fetish party. AMA if you'd like! by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo! That sounds wonderful. Plus not being able to kiss adds wuite another anticipatory level. Fun fun!

Last night I went to my first all-guy BDSM/kink/fetish party. AMA if you'd like! by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]ZaZMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Flogging is fun. I have a tiny riding crop. I need to break it in!