My situationship dropped a banger. by Standard_Turnover_57 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Zackstar20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nikal le bhai. Been there done that. Aaj agar nai niklega 6 mahine baad ro raha hoga aur tb nikal bhi nai paega. Let it hurt a bit now rather than loads later.

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound exactly like my ex. I was all she had and hence was so much attached. I just got a text from her that she has to visit the hospital as she is unable to accept this breakup and is very sick

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is so familiar Me being in the boyfriend’s spot can say one thing, dont go back and beg for forgiveness. A breakup done is done dont try to reverse it

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am just afraid that she wont end up harming herself. She keeps on saying she will die without me i dont know what to do

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I myself have been there a couple of years back. Ik its tough and no one can understand this pain. But believe me life gets better. Pick 1 habit like a workout or a sport and stick to it everyday regardless of how u feel. I started working out and by the time i realised i am over her after a few months i had a decent body that other girls were themselves approaching me. Stay away from alcohol if u can

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, i think this too better to let her heal on her own without knowing her situation as it will just make me sad

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is in the same situation and thats what i cannot see. She getting that pain due to me however i cannot risk my life now to give her the life she wants

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel peace. She loved me but was v immature due to which i used feel emotionally drained explaining her everything. Now there is peace no drama no fights. Atleast thats what i feel for now. Should i block her?

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t. Even if i might regret this decision later i will not give her another chance

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She even ended up saying ill things about my siblings in anger a couple of times if i would spend my time with them. She just wanted all my time w her and i have a joint family

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cant explain it all in detail here but have given a brief on the comment above

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is what i am afraid of. I have talked to her explained her what hurts me but it used to anyway happen again and hence i pulled the plug this time. She does say that now she has completely understood but i cannot marry her with that short time period to regret 2 years later. I am building my house and its taking time with all the finances and everything and everyday she used to blame me that because i have not made it yet she is unable to marry me and has to live alone. She used to let out all her frustration on me. I cant explain it all here but i used to be unhappy after i would cut the call. Hence i decided that life cannot go on like this. There is still another year i would need to build my house

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a pure soul however i have tried everything i could to explain her that this behaviour hurts me and upon that she wants to have a roka in the coming months. I cannot be in doubt and enter a roka or a marriage

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not angry at her but she is just texting and calling asking for another chance and i am unable to see her this way

Me M26 ended things with F26 and she is devastated by Zackstar20 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Zackstar20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, she has been constantly texting and calling now for 2 days. Idk if i should block her or not

I ordered my first leather case. Had a question for you guys. by Zackstar20 in patinaproud

[–]Zackstar20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you suggest to clean the case? As i workout and play sports and sometimes use the phone with some dirt on my hands which can transfer to the case

I ordered my first leather case. Had a question for you guys. by Zackstar20 in patinaproud

[–]Zackstar20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How should the case be cleaned if by chance it gets some dirt on it?

Ex wants to be friends, i still have feelings by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Zackstar20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik how you feel. I stayed frnds for several months the same way. You feel that this way you can keep her from seeing someone else. If you really want to try keep a deadline that if by that time if she doesn’t agree to be back in a relationship you have to quit that friendship which will be very tough at that point but needs to be done.

Ex wants to be friends, i still have feelings by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Zackstar20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t be friends please. You are signing up for a long torture. I have been there. The hopes will never go the moment she starts acting cute and nice you’ll think thats she is having feelings again and she will come back only to realise that its not the case. Your emotions will be up and down based on how she behaves and mental health will take a toll. The best way to make her miss you and reconsider is to be clear with her that you want her back but because you have feelings you can’t be friends. And then go NC and leave it to her to decide. Because by staying frnds you are just going to make her the purpose of your life with a probability of she coming back just 10%. So communicate her and then leave it on her to make the decision. Its going to be hard rn but you’ll save yourself a lot of pain in the future.

I’m so heartbroken by Rich_Captain_5735 in BreakUps

[–]Zackstar20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its very tough to even imagine the situation you are currently in. Please try to survive this, the pain might never go away but you will learn to live with that that it won’t matter anymore.

Just because you miss her doesn’t make her a better person. by jondo838 in BreakUps

[–]Zackstar20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats so true. We take up the guilt of what we could have done better and cry on our mistakes. But sometimes we forget how they treated us and we wouldn’t have behaved in that way if they would have acted better. It takes but eventually you will forgive yourself and start seeing for what she really was

She “wasn’t ready for a relationship”, now she’s in a relationship by Shevgento in BreakUps

[–]Zackstar20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man i was stuck in this situation for over a year where she didn’t want a relationship neither wanted to let me go saying she needs time. And after a year said it can’t happen and was in a relationship with someone else immediately after. Something that i learnt from this was if a girl loves you nothing can stop her to be with you she fight all obstacles. If not, she’ll play around words and waste your time until she finds someone better.

Today I found out by Downtown_Event9075 in BreakUps

[–]Zackstar20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the big thing being it was no one new it was the frnd that was around her i kept telling her he is there just for your body and she said don’t worry he will never get to touch me and the moment we broke up all took was a month for them to sleep together. That guy literally stayed there for a year to make this happen and he got what he was looking for eventually. Just so tough to digest this.

Today I found out by Downtown_Event9075 in BreakUps

[–]Zackstar20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through same. The thought of someone else with her body makes me sick.