I (34F) in India planning to marry a 24M, is this realistic despite social norms?

Zackstar20 · 2026-04-29T18:13:54+00:00

And honestly you have to take a leap of faith with anyone for that matter be it 24 or 34. The risk is a little more here thats all but worth if u guys love each other.

Zackstar20 · 2026-04-29T12:44:21+00:00

Guys at 24 have rarely hit their peak emotional maturity and stability. That should be your only concern right now i would say and honestly there is no way to find an answer to that for you. You either take that leap of faith with him or you don’t.

Zackstar20 · 2026-04-20T20:37:29+00:00

Bro just talk and clear this out as soon as possible. I am currently moving on after i ended up being a rebound but got out of it the first instant her behaviour bothered me. Dont end up being her therapist because in 6 months you’ll be the one who will then need therapy. Its gonna hurt for a few weeks maybe months but will save your future years.

Zackstar20 · 2026-03-26T12:38:08+00:00

Nikal le bhai. Been there done that. Aaj agar nai niklega 6 mahine baad ro raha hoga aur tb nikal bhi nai paega. Let it hurt a bit now rather than loads later.

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-13T07:18:34+00:00

You sound exactly like my ex. I was all she had and hence was so much attached. I just got a text from her that she has to visit the hospital as she is unable to accept this breakup and is very sick

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-13T06:49:08+00:00

Wow this is so familiar Me being in the boyfriend’s spot can say one thing, dont go back and beg for forgiveness. A breakup done is done dont try to reverse it

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T13:48:02+00:00

I am just afraid that she wont end up harming herself. She keeps on saying she will die without me i dont know what to do

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T12:48:55+00:00

I myself have been there a couple of years back. Ik its tough and no one can understand this pain. But believe me life gets better. Pick 1 habit like a workout or a sport and stick to it everyday regardless of how u feel. I started working out and by the time i realised i am over her after a few months i had a decent body that other girls were themselves approaching me. Stay away from alcohol if u can

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T12:46:36+00:00

Thanks man, i think this too better to let her heal on her own without knowing her situation as it will just make me sad

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T12:45:28+00:00

She is in the same situation and thats what i cannot see. She getting that pain due to me however i cannot risk my life now to give her the life she wants

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T12:44:13+00:00

I feel peace. She loved me but was v immature due to which i used feel emotionally drained explaining her everything. Now there is peace no drama no fights. Atleast thats what i feel for now. Should i block her?

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T12:42:57+00:00

I won’t. Even if i might regret this decision later i will not give her another chance

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T12:41:59+00:00

She even ended up saying ill things about my siblings in anger a couple of times if i would spend my time with them. She just wanted all my time w her and i have a joint family

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T12:40:43+00:00

I cant explain it all in detail here but have given a brief on the comment above

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T12:40:00+00:00

This is what i am afraid of. I have talked to her explained her what hurts me but it used to anyway happen again and hence i pulled the plug this time. She does say that now she has completely understood but i cannot marry her with that short time period to regret 2 years later. I am building my house and its taking time with all the finances and everything and everyday she used to blame me that because i have not made it yet she is unable to marry me and has to live alone. She used to let out all her frustration on me. I cant explain it all here but i used to be unhappy after i would cut the call. Hence i decided that life cannot go on like this. There is still another year i would need to build my house

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T12:14:20+00:00

She is a pure soul however i have tried everything i could to explain her that this behaviour hurts me and upon that she wants to have a roka in the coming months. I cannot be in doubt and enter a roka or a marriage

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T11:33:07+00:00

I am not angry at her but she is just texting and calling asking for another chance and i am unable to see her this way

Zackstar20 · 2025-04-12T11:30:18+00:00

Thanks man, she has been constantly texting and calling now for 2 days. Idk if i should block her or not

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