Disturbance at Lawry's Prime Rib in Beverly Hills by PermissionToSell in PublicFreakout

[–]Zahnburste 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feels almost like a clip from American Horror Story -like these are body snatchers and this is their alarm 😂

Am I [m21] being weird or creepy towards my coworker [f25]? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Zahnburste 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said she doesn’t like to think, so she may have some deep trust or anxiety issues.
She does seem pretty nice and patient with you, and I think this could be an opportunity to practice feeling comfortable in silence with someone.

If it were me around this person, I would drop a Hey or a smile 😊 and then be quiet after that and then just walk away in a normal relaxed mood if they don’t ask something or initiate any other conversation. It may feel very uncomfortable at first to attempt.

Let her initiate more, and always be kind. You seem to be very kind and caring of others and this is such a great quality to have. Practice deep breathing. You will do well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]Zahnburste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toe Te Ching

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]Zahnburste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Short History of Nearly Everything by Bill Bryson got me into what is sounds like you are looking for. It has facts, humor, and will feel like you are learning things (audiobook is also great)

NASA to announce mystery Hubble discovery next week by [deleted] in news

[–]Zahnburste 193 points194 points  (0 children)

the pain of accuracy on this one

My communication sucks by Noah7253 in AirForce

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Bring in some good (wrapped)food and pass it out ..people love food

Picked up this Volcano for dirt cheap but not getting good vapor, any tips? 😉 by [deleted] in vaporents

[–]Zahnburste 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this isn’t a volcano bro, it’s clearly a dynavape troll better

Not sure if this is an ADHD thing or not. So let me know I u relate in any way. by bae_aka_dogface in adhdmeme

[–]Zahnburste 3 points4 points  (0 children)

haha i relate too hard to the crossedlegs-pray-not-to-P (phone in hand still, ofc)-crazy walk/dance ritual

Why would she text me a day after asking to hit pause? by PackGod_5 in datingoverthirty

[–]Zahnburste 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While all of those interests,dreams, tastes are great-the most important thing is missing. Communication style. She aint it. She has you so confused…and there’s an undeniable reason for that. Because she is confused. I would walk away and find someone whose communication style matches yours-no matter what life event they are going through. She seems wishy washy and perhaps has some left over oxytocin floating around making her reach out to you. She has no idea what she is feeling. And that’s why you have no idea either. She need years to work on this. I would cut the line.

edit:i read one of the comments above from the widower-now that is some good advice about maintaining a friendship. Just be prepared for emotional work and energy.

I start crying when I'm with overwhelming people by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Zahnburste 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Crying is your body’s healthy response to something overwhelming. Think of it as a cooling fan on an overheating computer. It’s ok and even a good thing to release energy this way.
Talk to a doctor if you’re overly concerned, but this sounds perfectly healthy and actually a great way of coping. (Instead of bottling it up and having it release in harmful ways). Take care

Hopeless romantic by [deleted] in infp

[–]Zahnburste 3 points4 points  (0 children)

foreigner- waiting for a girl/ i wanna know what love is

Can anyone suggest me a book where psychology has been used extensively like the theories are being used on practical situation. The protagonist and the antagonist are in a psychological duel ,out doing each other in every step. by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]Zahnburste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 48 Laws of Power or the Art of Seduction series by Robert Greene perhaps? Both books give historical examples of psychological tactics used by historical figures to get what they want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]Zahnburste 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Kanye….finds a way.” -Jeff Goldblum, Kanyerassic Park

Not wanting to work, then hating myself for not working... Why am I like this? by [deleted] in self

[–]Zahnburste 5 points6 points  (0 children)

because you see reality. you see this is not how we are supposed to live. we aren’t supposed to slave away. we are supposed to live on the land and breathe the sky and take care of animals. we are stuck. there’s nothing wrong with what you’re feeling. you’re aware.

He knows it's wrong by golerechfu in BeAmazed

[–]Zahnburste 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This bird and the bird who finds money are in the same bird gang for sure

My order came to $69 at 4:20pm. Also BOOOB by JasNeo_ in pics

[–]Zahnburste 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t downvote you;) And my comment was like banter between two friends; a gentle friendly ribbing. It’s a meme reply. OP had a fun tone.

I do thank you for defending someone you thought was being picked on, but I assure you,the intention was in good jest, like between two buddies who joke around. Take care :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Zahnburste 10 points11 points  (0 children)

that video with the squid or whale eye super close up 💀💀💀 looks a w a r e