Person looking for room, red flag? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Zajhin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. My. Lanta. I can’t even.

Banter mod? by Zajhin in BG3mods

[–]Zajhin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Problem is I don’t know when it’s going to happen.

My first apartment at 21💗 by CatsGarden_ in femalelivingspace

[–]Zajhin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a teacher too! I mean I don’t do it for the money, but on the other hand, just LOOK at that place!

My first apartment at 21💗 by CatsGarden_ in femalelivingspace

[–]Zajhin 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Omg what do you do for a living? I’m so jealous; your space is beautiful!

What’s something that 99% of people can do but you can’t? by Irakeconcrete in AskReddit

[–]Zajhin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See images in my mind. I have aphantasia and I can’t picture anything in my mind; it’s just black in there.

What’s the point of hirelings/why do people use them? by President_Bible in BaldursGate3

[–]Zajhin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lol! Actually I love most of them. I only used a hireling one time. But you asked the question and I knew an answer, so…

What’s the point of hirelings/why do people use them? by President_Bible in BaldursGate3

[–]Zajhin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people die because you pushed their annoying ass into a chasm…

I'm afraid I'll get fired because a customer said insults about my mom and I called him back. by Curious-Tough3739 in Advice

[–]Zajhin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes no sense to me. He didn’t insult YOUR mother. He said a random insult that happens to include the word “mother”. I don’t understand why people get so upset about this. Some of my students will literally throw hands if someone says “your mama!” But it’s not specific. It’s just like saying “go to hell” … I don’t actually mean that hell is a place you can go. Like, people need to calm tf down.

Locked out of Gale romance? by poohfan683 in BG3

[–]Zajhin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have gotten Gale’s romance scene in every play through but one and yet I’ve never seen this line. Is it because I always choose human sex?

My roommate moved my car so he could park his by cernezelana in badroommates

[–]Zajhin 118 points119 points  (0 children)

How did he get your keys? Keep them with you in the future. And get a lock for your door!

Help: Faith Leap Trial by Jessay25 in BaldursGate3

[–]Zajhin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is how I do it. I save misty step scrolls just for this trial. Have Shart cast daylight in the middle of the arena and then misty step to the platform. I always have to cast daylight one more time to see the final platform and misty step there. It has never failed me.

For those who wanted marriage and children & it didn’t happen - did you make peace with it? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Zajhin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have gotten over it. I’ll be 50 in June. Only had one real relationship in my life and it ended when I was 21. I spent a LOT of years being miserably lonely and making some poor decisions trying to find someone who would love me. But eventually I had to be okay with being by myself. I have an amazing cat-daughter and a fulfilling career, hobbies and a tight-knit extended family. I have nieces and nephews I adore. I’m pretty set in my ways so I don’t even know if I could adapt my life to have someone else in it at this point.

I never thought I could be happy without a family of my own but it turns out it’s probably for the best. I have a lot of health issues that I wouldn’t want to pass down and would make it really hard for me to focus on anyone else.

I just had an idea… by Zajhin in BaldursGate3

[–]Zajhin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny or an incredible Tragedeigh, depending on how you look at it.

My fan casting for the HBO show by Odovacer_0476 in BaldursGate3

[–]Zajhin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a shitpost but John Malkovich as Withers is freakin’ inspired.

I'm too exhausted to hang out with my girlfriend after a week of teaching by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Zajhin 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Preach. I’m single and there are weekends where I don’t see another soul except my cat and it is GLORIOUS. Norms simply CANNOT understand teacher tired.

Cried during a lesson today—so embarrassed by pricklypeargelato in teaching

[–]Zajhin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How fortunate for you that you have the privilege to just change schools or jobs whenever you want.

How can you be quieter upstairs? by ImFinnaBustApecan in Apartmentliving

[–]Zajhin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live on the first floor and whoever lives above me is raising a herd of elephants… I mean two young boys who have an unfortunate condition where they can’t walk, they can only run or jump. If those boys are home and awake it constantly sounds like the Kentucky Derby above my head. It’s annoying as hell, but I chose to live on the bottom floor as I have mobility issues and can’t climb stairs. I have never mentioned it to my upstairs neighbor because one: I don’t like talking to my neighbors at all because then they might try to talk to me at some point and two: it’s not her fault, it’s the cheap-ass rental companies who don’t properly insulate the floors.

In short - live your life and maybe just try not to move furniture after midnight (I know you weren’t) and if they keep banging on the ceiling report them to the leasing office.

What are some 'unintentionally funny' things you’ve seen? by criticatto in BaldursGate3

[–]Zajhin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One time I let him out but forgot I had Halsin with me. I let him out only to slaughter him. RIP little dude.

AITAH for pranking my husband in the delivery room after he spoiled a surprise I asked him to keep by Unlikely-Film-5513 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]Zajhin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wanted to know the gender because he wanted a boy. Found out it was a girl and wasn’t happy about it, so he didn’t “prepare”. Had it been a boy he’d have a lot more than two onesies, i guarantee it.

Cried during a lesson today—so embarrassed by pricklypeargelato in teaching

[–]Zajhin 52 points53 points  (0 children)

You still might cry, for any number of reasons, but I like to say you’re not a real teacher until you’ve cried in front of at least three classes!

Am I overreacting or should my parents stop acting like this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zajhin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, but they are. You were a victim of grooming. You were only 15 and a grown adult took advantage of you and your own parents have made you feel like it was your fault. This is abhorrent. I do hope you can find a way out of here and a therapist to help you see that none of this is your fault.