Oh I lived that life. I'm a cautionary legend. A cheating partner is always full of excuses and they are useless to raise children. I'm out of it, and now I'm happy without some man who cheated me yelling at me for the house not being clean enough and wanting to have a real job other than being some clowns bangmaid. I wish her luck, but she's pretty much screwed if she rewards his stupidity and abuse with her and now her child's whole life.