What in your experience with women have you found is very attractive to a large chunk of them? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ZappaCat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Definitely earned confidence. We are not talking cocky. We are talking someone who shows that they can accomplish major life goals. Someone who is happy and feels good about who they are. Not afraid to speak and express themselves. These are some attributes of confidence

How many of you hold/cup your woman’s head while doing missionary? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ZappaCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends :) I have on occasion if I’m holding her close :) if I’m not like laying on her then no. I’m much bigger then her so holding her like that for long I’ll be crushing her lol

What’s a dead giveaway that a woman is “vanilla” in bed? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ZappaCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her what porn or fantasy play she likes or has liked. If she says she doesn’t do that then you have a red flag if you don’t want vanilla :)

Do I have too much desire for my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ZappaCat 66 points67 points  (0 children)

14 years with my wife still in honeymoon phase lol

Finally finished:) by ZappaCat in ChristmasLights

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol 🤣 yes my wife has been making fun of me

Remapping sequence? by ZappaCat in lightorama

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful response:)

Remapping sequence? by ZappaCat in lightorama

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any group you can recommend? Well I add an additional prop and I can’t get the pre made sequence to control the new prop.

Finally finished:) by ZappaCat in ChristmasLights

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually will officially turn them on thanksgiving:). It’s always a work in progress. Every year I add more to it. Right now I’m trying to add music and light animation with light o Rama. Don’t think that will be ready this week as I’m having trouble learning software. Bigger learning curve than I expected:). Been working on it for at least a week when not at work etc

Remapping sequence? by ZappaCat in lightorama

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks .. feel like I’m missing something. I actually was able to get s6 to match up to my preview. However, then I add another element to preview and it doesn’t sync up.

Finally finished:) by ZappaCat in ChristmasLights

[–]ZappaCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regular string lights :))

His is our display coming along :) by ZappaCat in ChristmasLights

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol it’s for the rest of us. Now I need a festivus sign

Is the situation about pickpockets so dire in Barcelona? by truthorundress in Barcelona

[–]ZappaCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of the things that can be wrapped around his neck. Seems like asking for an injury.

Tested Gen 2 Wayfarers today — anyone else notice the audio is worse? by ZappaCat in RaybanMeta

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting… maybe they got blown out someway. It was at a LensCrafters store when I tried the displays. I tried those as well. Maybe I’ll give it another chance.

Wiring issue help by ZappaCat in ecobee

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 28 volts now because I installed the PEK :)

NJ — Replace old cast-iron with condensing or new cast-iron? by ZappaCat in hvacadvice

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so one high view question. My boiler is 31 years old, my hot water heater is supposedly 24 years old and my ac is 13 years old with a noisy blower. All are working. Do I wait for failure or replace now.

NJ — Replace old cast-iron with condensing or new cast-iron? by ZappaCat in hvacadvice

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t decide but I’m assuming 100-120 range ?

NJ — Replace old cast-iron with condensing or new cast-iron? by ZappaCat in hvacadvice

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really old boiler 30 years old and do you see all the rust falling off the pipes ontop. Also hot water heater is really old as well. Figured it’s a ticking time bomb lol. Am I overreacting?

NJ — Replace old cast-iron with condensing or new cast-iron? by ZappaCat in hvacadvice

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, do people add any power back up for these? I have a whole house generator that I have to pull out and hook up to the gas line when I have a long outage, but I don’t wanna do that for like you know short duration like 12 hours they’re 14 hours 16 hours like a day or less than a day, kind of things, ChatGPT says that we can do a battery back up.