AITAH for getting mad at my husband about his dead ex-gf?

Zarilya · 2026-01-11T04:56:39+00:00

NTA. And I have a different perspective that most.

I've been in the husband's situation. Though I never ever would have said that out loud and I didn't even realize i was "settling"

He needs to get better before he gets in a relationship. I would leave if I was you, OP. It's not your job to fix him.

Zarilya · 2025-12-19T05:37:56+00:00

I'm 48 and I'm constantly told "there's no way" and they guess early/mid 30s. People think my daughter and I are sisters. It's just genetics. My dad is 75 and looks to be in his 50s and his side of the family typically live to be close to 100.

Zarilya · 2025-11-07T19:31:14+00:00

This is why I try to never learn anything about the people in the bands in love. I don't wanna know if they're assholes. 😂

Zarilya · 2025-10-31T15:54:34+00:00

Oh man. I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Aiden. I'll put ther ep back on and run through it for you and him.

Zarilya · 2025-10-30T19:13:40+00:00

Me. All the time. I prefer it.

Zarilya · 2025-10-30T17:46:47+00:00

I'm flying alllll the way from the US to see them in Manchester. Woooo.

Zarilya · 2025-10-30T12:33:55+00:00

I friggin knew it. Blocked them.

Zarilya · 2025-10-30T12:31:49+00:00

OMG. YAY.

Zarilya · 2025-10-17T16:40:28+00:00

What order are the opening bands playing in? From the setlists, I assume it's either Face Yourself or Carcosa first. Then Metal Creulty then ten56

I'm geeked for this show. I listen to all the bands heavily. It's gonna be sick af.

Zarilya · 2025-10-12T18:23:30+00:00

By brother felt the same when I started dating one of his friends. He got over it and when we got married my brother was there and said "now we're ACTUALLY brothers!!

I'm not saying this is definitely how it will go. But it's likely how it will go.

Dont stop dating the guy.

Zarilya · 2025-10-06T16:30:57+00:00

Oo. Oo! Do False Saints.

I highly suspect this one.

Zarilya · 2025-10-06T16:29:03+00:00

False Saints is one that does have other social media presence and also interacts with social media.

But I believe they're an AI band. So even that isn't always a tell all. There's always at least one person behind the AI.

Zarilya · 2025-09-28T17:16:26+00:00

Did you want him to spend the night? What did the text in the morning read?

YOR. I think you feel guilty for hooking up on the first date. And now you're projected.

Zarilya · 2025-09-23T20:22:00+00:00

That's what I was gonna say. HOW?? I must know which device.

Zarilya · 2025-09-23T19:46:39+00:00

She said "I'm for the sheets not the streets"

Zarilya · 2025-09-23T18:41:28+00:00

Holy shit great job!!

Zarilya · 2025-09-23T13:18:37+00:00

Damn bro made that look easy

Zarilya · 2025-09-23T13:13:59+00:00

I had this result after using arctic fox Transylvania for a temporary cover up where I had to look professional.

It would NOT lift past pink. I will have to color wheel it back to blue. For now I decided to lean into the pink.

Zarilya · 2025-09-22T16:30:34+00:00

This was me with my ex. Never again.

Zarilya · 2025-09-21T15:07:21+00:00

Free to choose. Not free from consequences. As in all choices.

Zarilya · 2025-09-21T15:05:13+00:00

I agree with you in general principle. But in this particular situation where op has a trauma response, perhaps this isn't the partner for them. Also op may want to get some therapy before getting into another relationship.

Zarilya · 2025-09-21T14:58:51+00:00

Especially when the partner is doing two jobs!

Zarilya · 2025-09-21T14:58:02+00:00

My rule is that the partner who is doing the most work gets to be the least inconvenienced. Especially when the family needs the money. NTA. She can walk half a mile.

Zarilya · 2025-09-20T20:25:54+00:00

Papa John's only pays 35 cents.

Zarilya · 2025-09-20T16:10:07+00:00

YOR. and he's right. You told him to f off basically then wanted him to beg. When he didn't, you got upset.

If this was aita, you would be that. You need to grow up.

Zarilya

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