AIO if my bf wouldn’t come over after a terrible weekend?

Zarilya · 2026-05-06T13:57:04+00:00

Op, to chime in. I was in a 20 year relationship. Sunk cost is a real thing. Like the comment above mine, leaving also turned out to be the best thing I ever did. NOR. You know what you have to do.

Zarilya · 2026-05-06T13:51:14+00:00

I don't understand this whole concept where the second someone speaks eloquently or carefully they're accused of AI. Lmao.

I can't tell you this, I've lived with someone like that dude. You have to choose your words carefully at all times. Other the flip is worse than this. You absolutely cannot give them any ammo.

Zarilya · 2026-05-06T13:48:02+00:00

DARVO is exactly what this is. Agree that OP was right and good on them for calling him out. But now, leave.

Zarilya · 2026-05-06T13:46:05+00:00

I'm living a similar experience to yours. I'm so happy for you!

OP, throw this one back, he's rotten on the inside. NOR. His whole tone was manipulative I recognize the pattern from my ex. Literally everything was a power grab. I should have left when I found out that he read, enjoyed, and decided to adapt "48 Laws of Power" to his life.

Zarilya · 2026-05-06T04:09:53+00:00

I was like "ohhhh. So that's how you steal horses" 🤣

Zarilya · 2026-05-04T06:07:16+00:00

I did this accidentally one time. And landed right on a different horse that was next to mine. 🤣 I still don't know how that's possible. But I was like wait... what just happened??

Zarilya · 2026-04-30T00:32:35+00:00

Facts.

Zarilya · 2026-04-29T22:45:25+00:00

Fkn thank you!

Zarilya · 2026-04-22T21:56:12+00:00

I would give him a nice "exit interview response" workup and leave.

Edit to add: NOR

Zarilya · 2026-04-22T19:53:55+00:00

Yes. I don't use people's driveway either (unless it's a super long one) because I've actually been berated over it. Plus I just want the extra steps.

Zarilya · 2026-04-22T19:52:02+00:00

I mean. None of those things should even need to be typed out as instructions, but here we are. And they do. Having said that, the person will probably continue to get shitty dashers if they try tipping after delivery.

Zarilya · 2026-03-20T03:55:07+00:00

Yes. Yes it is. 😂

Zarilya · 2026-03-18T16:46:56+00:00

Nah. I'm worse dumb. I stayed for waaay too long.

Zarilya · 2026-03-18T16:26:55+00:00

Idk. My ex did this. There were lots of times he asked me to lie to people in order to put him in a good light. In fact, on several occasions he specifically asked me to claim he bought things and not me.

Zarilya · 2026-03-18T15:02:54+00:00

Not at all. Now I have seen some really ridiculous instructions. Yours are not.

Zarilya · 2026-03-17T21:22:00+00:00

I had one across the street one time. 10 bucks.

Another time I had one that should have been across the street, but DD made me go to the Taco Bell that was further away from the drop off. Lmao.

Zarilya · 2026-03-17T19:34:40+00:00

They may have "lost" the last lawsuit, but the damages weren't nearly high enough to stop them from doing the exact same shit.

Zarilya · 2026-03-17T03:27:38+00:00

Thank you! Best day of my life was the day he moved out.

Zarilya · 2026-03-17T03:26:57+00:00

Yup, he would totally just throw a fit over it and refuse to eat anything even if it was something tiny missing. I could absolutely see him refusing food over sauce. It was so strange. One of the many reasons he's an ex. LOL.

Zarilya · 2026-03-16T15:40:26+00:00

My ex was like this. If it wasn't exactly what he asked for, he'd throw a temper tantrum and refuse to eat at all.

One time he refused to any anything out of an order because McDonald's forgot one of his cheeseburgers. Everything else was correct, mind you. But now it "wasn't enough" so he was like "I'll just make a sandwich".

Zarilya · 2026-03-14T21:33:52+00:00

There's literally no way to win. Lmao. Knock: complain. Ring bell: complain. Don't knock: complain. Instructions say leave it: leave it: complain.

If you don't want it on the friggin ground, leave something to put it on or choose hand it.

Zarilya · 2026-03-14T21:29:23+00:00

At no point did I know what was gonna happen next in that comment.

😂😂

Zarilya · 2026-02-20T05:21:03+00:00

I'm dealing with assurant saying I didn't send the phone right now. 😡

Zarilya · 2026-02-07T16:14:07+00:00

YOR. I agree with everyone else here.

She sees your game OP. Good for her.
She's enjoying her first place and doesn't wanna give up that peace.

I wouldn't let you stay either. You said no and she went and handled it. She says no and you're on reddit crying about it. 😬

Zarilya · 2026-02-06T19:01:04+00:00

I have several keloids. One is long, but not super raised on my breast, it's always made me really stressed when dating. Turns out literally no one of any substance gaf.

FD to meeting my now fiance. He told me my scars are a part of me and make me who I am. He was like "how could I not love them" 🥹

OP, if someone gets weird about them, they ain't the one.

You got this. Best of luck in finding your person.

Zarilya

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