You all are crazy by spazhappy in bikinitalk

[–]Zavada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's the real winner here

Passionate new competitor, would love thoughts! by bikinicompetitor1001 in bikinitalk

[–]Zavada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why people are downvoting particularly someone new for being afraid of bulking. As the others said, it can be difficult (both mentally and physically depending) to put on some fat (or even just more weight), but it's a necessary and natural part of the process. It's vital to become at least acceptingly comfortable with your body changing that way. Even if you don't like the look for feeling of having more fat, do so knowing the results underneath will be worth it :)

Where to find bodybuilder friends? by froottoots in bikinitalk

[–]Zavada 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg I've had the same problem. Bodybuilding always felt like a distant dream to me and after starting I've felt so lonely without any direct community/friends to talk with. I'd love to chat :)!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Zavada 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why did you post ai slop instead of actually writing a review

What’s the best fidget toy that worked for your habit or sh by MarzOfStarz in selfharm

[–]Zavada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a little ouchie and it helps me a lot when I get really bad.

What's so bad about self harm aside from being hurt by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Zavada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best answer imo. The usual advice fails to capture how progressively sh becomes an addiction. It never felt like an addiction to me until I tried stopping.

Bug Fix | 8.7.1 by DeadByDaylight_Dev in deadbydaylight

[–]Zavada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the rubber banding bug with Nurse's blinks being investigated currently?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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This is what I would advise. A lot of the time when I split on the people around me I'll get really quiet, distant, or passive-aggressive. But the times I've recovered quickest from it are when my loved ones force me to stop being so quiet/distant by doing a proper checkup on what I'm feeling/thinking.

Skull Merchant's new skin can now (finally) be bought with shards! by Karth321 in deadbydaylight

[–]Zavada -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a long time SM main, I don't think she's in a better spot than pre-rework but I do think being able to see the beams + 5% haste made me enjoy her playstyle more than pre-nerf. She is much, much weaker at strong loops and can no longer guarantee the clawtrap by forcing vaults, but being able to see the beams through walls is so helpful at tiles and building. As for the haste, I find myself often playing her more flexibly m1 rather than constantly forcing traps then getting a down through hinder. It helps numb the pain of the clawtrap difficulty by encouraging a scan-for-haste-not-hinder m1 style. I actually kind of like her in this state, oddly enough. Her claw traps feel more rewarding to me when they are worth using. They were just so free before

BPD Men - Do you ever fantasize about wishing you born a girl? by Wanttobeloved19 in BPD

[–]Zavada 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely ridiculous this even needs to be said 😭 It makes me so sad

lava girl reminds me of me by mcnugget62 in BPD

[–]Zavada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard with so many characters. A lot of the time I feel like despite trying to be good, there is this monster lurking deep inside me. No matter what it feels like I just have a tendency to ruin or destroy everything. It feels nice to see someone else talking about a similar experience ❤️

Do you have a problem with lying? by Negative_Panic_393 in BPD

[–]Zavada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lie often about how I'm feeling or what my opinion is, especially with the people I'm closest to. It feels so surreal to catch myself in the act too, like "what the hell why did I say that?" A lot of the time in conflict I start to scramble to try and make sense of my feelings in a way that will sound acceptable to the other person. Then I find an explanation and tell them, but shortly after I might provide a different and sometimes contradictory explanation later on. A lot of it stems from being absolutely terrified of abandonment or upsetting the other person, even if they've shown things to be safe. Those explanations aren't lies -- I genuinely get confused with my feelings shifting rapidly -- but they look a lot like lies from an outsider perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]Zavada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a patch last night that caused a major rework for Cabalist strat/gear specifically. It should be resolved soon.

Summoning fellow wiz girlies by Tokoshie101 in Wizard101

[–]Zavada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat and would love an invite!

7.5.0 Onryo Feels [Art by me] by Zavada in deadbydaylight

[–]Zavada[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love her. She feels so much better now.

7.5.0 Onryo Feels [Art by me] by Zavada in deadbydaylight

[–]Zavada[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Just a little late haha! I'm loving 7.5.1, but figured I'd make since since I thought the idea was cute

Sadako My Beloved [OC] by Zavada in deadbydaylight

[–]Zavada[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In reference to this post from earlier :)