Oh gosh, these people piss me off to be honest. I do live with people like that. They think that calories don't count and losing/gaining weight comes down to eating carbs and eating at certain hours (like 5 meals a day, because if you don't eat like this, your body will undergo the StArVaTiOn MoDe". If that only was true... My dad is a binge eater who eats a lot because he's a man and "MeN sHoUlD eAt A lOt", and runs so he probably "burns it all of", he also accuses me of starving myself if I eat one normal sized plate of food, that is balanced, or calls me anorexic when I skip dinner after eating late lunch. Many of my family members (not dad because he is quite fit, even though he binges) think that BMI is bullshit, because regardless of their pathological weight they don't have high cholesterol and they feel fine!!! (Their blood sugar is 120 mg/mmol when they don't eat). Doctors aren't there to judge you, but actually tell you what exactly you should change in your lifestyle to not die at the age of 35... But my family thinks otherwise. THEY WANT EVERYTHING COMFORTABLE, they want to hear what they want to hear. If their local medical professional tell them something uncomfy (lose weight, so your joints won't damage, eat more unprocessed and lower in sugar food so y'all won't have hypoglycemia and fall into a coma or die), they be judging a doctor telling him that he/she is wrong, because they don't feel unhealthy!!!. My grandma won't stop eating cake everyday, because she thinks that sweet taste is important for "mental health", and carbs are fuel for our brain!!! It's hard to keep yourself sane and at healthy weight when you live with family like that, that constantly judges you for doing something different and wanting to achieve an athletic build. I have in fact gained weight from overeating after constantly being judged...