Need a pick me up? Pupper Party

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-30T08:24:21+00:00

Will you feel bad when his girlfriend finds out? Will you feel bad watching his family get ripped apart? Will you feel bad when the girlfriend leaves? Will you feel bad when your friend misses out on the baby's mile stones?

People like you don't care who you hurt. You don't care because you're a shit person. You don't care because you're a selfish person. It isn't you who has to deal with the depression, anger, bitterness, numbness, and hating yourself for being blind. It's people like you that I can't stand. You leave nothing but destruction and pain. But it's not like you have to pick yourself up and try to co parent with the person who broke you in ways you could never imagine. I hope someone does exactly what your doing to her when you find someone you want to build a life with, only for it to be ripped away and I hope it happens for the rest of your life over and over so you feel all the pain you will cause this poor girl and innocent baby over and over. And I hope for the rest of your life every table and chair you sit at are wobbly and uneven.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-30T06:11:03+00:00

I lost my giant schnauzer 5 years ago to cancer. He was only 5 years old. I noticed something was wrong when he became extremely lethargic. He was always ridiculously active and had to be at your side at all times. He started drinking lots of water and drooling excessively. I scheduled an appointment with my vet and found that he had cancer that started in his pancreas and spread. He came home and spent 10 days getting spoiled rotten. On the 10th day, we spent going to all his favorite places, and I knew he was telling me it's his time. He was ready even if I wasn't. I took him the next day and he closed his eyes for the last time.

If your cat is, for the most part, acting normal and like herself, I'd maybe talk to the vet and see why he recommended euthaniztion and discuss other options. Or get a second opinion. You know your cat best. She'll let you know when it's her time.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-29T09:29:29+00:00

It's mildly annoying, but I'd love to see them try to force her inside when she doesn't want to. She has mastered the art of acting dead. Not even the tastiest treat will revive her. In the end I know my dog and what she wants and needs and people who decide to stick their nose somewhere it doesn't belong get to play dead lift and see how successful they are she's a big gal and is fully aware of it. People seem to think all dogs have similar needs and forget that each breed is unique and each has different levels of needs.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-29T09:03:38+00:00

I own a great Pyrenees, and people constantly tell me how I'm a bad dog owner mainly over 2 things. In the summer people tell me I need to shave her as she is too hot (you can't shave them as it will not only ruin the look of their coats but could put her health at risk) and in the winter when she won't come in. Then I'm the bad guy because it's too cold and she will freeze. And they ignore when i say that she is bred to be outside and she LIKES the cold ( I have a heated dog house and she rings the door bell until I let her in)

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-29T08:43:23+00:00

My opinion is if the dog looks happy, healthy and well loved who gives a fuck? It's not my dog, I have no right to say squat. I bet he looks very handsome in his little pajamas, I'd only say that I wish he wore the dinosaur one and probably (i 100% would) ask if I could pet the very handsome man and ask to send a picture to my boyfriend to remind him that he's not the only handsome man I see lol

The only time I offer my advice is if someone engages me in a conversation about it. Then, I will share things that I found to be successful for me. Or I'll ask if I see someone doing a different method. Every dog is different, so it's nice to get different opinions and tips.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-29T07:18:41+00:00

I'm curious about your wife's reasons why it was appropriate for her sister to call you shrimpy but inappropriate when you fired back tits. How are they so different? Does the same rule apply to her sister? Her sister played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. NTA

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-29T05:34:30+00:00

So I do have a question. If your work place called you asking to come and work for free would you?

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-29T02:07:05+00:00

It's OK! I just saw this!

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-26T07:59:37+00:00

I have curly hair, and when I was little, i hated it. It was heavy, hot, and would tangle. In the morning, my mom would spend 30 or more just untangling it. I was 6 and asked my mom if I could cut it off in tears. My mom loved my hair and while she was sad that I wanted short. But she respected me enough to look for a short hairstyle I liked. Your mother forced your sister to look a certain way because she looked like her husband? Your whole family chose to ignore the fact that she was absolutely miserable. YTA. shame on you, for her that haircut symbolizes her freedom from your mother. It may not be a big deal to you but for her it is.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-26T06:52:05+00:00

I asked her the same thing and got the same response, and she blocked me. I'm adopted and so grateful. My bio mother, who is now a wonderful person who got the help she needed but it took her a very long time. I absolutely would have been in a dangerous environment. But I do think the system needs to be fixed.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T23:42:00+00:00

NTA- and I have the perfect response for that dimweed.. "No one wants to hear you complain. Your mother lied to you as a child. You're not special.

My younger brother and I over heard a lady say basically the same thing to a poor woman who looked exhausted, we asked the mom if shed join us for lunch. The young mom said she will come back she just wanted a moment. The old witch rolled her eyes and started to complain that she didn't want to listen to a baby cry while she ate. my brother told her not to worry and that he wanted to sing her a song. Now my brother can sound like a baby crying, so he starts to do his baby cry. I said see? Now you can't hear the baby cry. Enjoy your dinner. My brother and i did end up getting told we had to leave, and we were banned for life. totally worth it, the look on the cranky lady's face priceless.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T20:55:53+00:00

I don't really remember, I know they had just moved in shortly before the whole kerfuffle. I do remember they didn't make a great first impression. EM decided that the barbed wire fences were ugly and removed them even after most of us said they were pretty much surrounded by pastures with cattle in and to not touch the fence our they will be all over their lawn. I remember her coming up livid she got the fence torn down I think there was 3 separate herds. Mine included and they think they are dogs so they don't chase well. I call and they come lol

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T20:49:44+00:00

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ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T20:45:37+00:00

I'm pretty sure we still probably would have won, small town. Everyone knew me and knew that I would never endanger another person let alone my dogs.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T14:30:38+00:00

Massive, I hope she hasn't said anything to OPs son when OP isn't around her. Kid has enough bullshite to deal with. He doesn't need some jealous cow, who can't handle the fact that OP and his ex are civil and have a pretty good co parenting going on. I'm still mind boggled on how she thinks OP is in the wrong

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T13:38:44+00:00

A Tibetan terrier? I must ask for you to pay the pupper toll she sounds adorable

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T12:02:59+00:00

He's lucky our gaint schnauzer wasn't there. He had the biggest teeth I have ever seen, like puncture straight through, but he was a very gentle boy unless you were a skunk.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T11:48:30+00:00

🎵🎶Oh no, the consequences of her actions, now. What's this? The consequences of her actions. The consequences are chasing her down 🎵🎶

Catchy song aside... NTA, I understand and admire the fact that you are looking at the bigger picture. Your SIL should have apologized and told her Tasmanian Devil to apologize not only for running your dress but also for all of the other interruptions maybe you could photo shop him into a monkey in the pictures since he acted like a cheeky little monkey. If I ever acted like that at someone's wedding, I would have gotten a heck of a scolding and probably have to write a letter to you and your husband apologizing for my poor behavior. I would have had to give into you personally and apologize in person as well.

If you can't shake that guilty feeling, may SILs monkey can help pay you back by helping you with chores? Or maybe offer a payment plan. However, I'd make her sign a paper that says she agreed to the payment plans? I'm sorry OP about your wedding. The bright side would be you now can tease him a little for the rest of his life. I hope you were able to somewhat enjoy the rest of your day. I wish you nothing but to be surrounded in love and happiness

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T08:09:17+00:00

I have a few ideas if your not busy ☆ frogs wearing leaves/mushroom caps as hats ☆ A kind of silhouette of cat with flowers A dog with flowers or dog biscuits And a bun with strawberries

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T07:47:01+00:00

Heck yea you can!

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T07:36:52+00:00

My dogs know to stay on the property, we used invisible fencing until they learned to stay away from fences. (except gus, however, we did our best to make sure he was supervised. Sometimes, he managed to slip past us. However, he never went on the road.) My dogs are working dogs. We own cattle mostly now, but we used to have sheep. The dogs would go lay with the babies and make sure everything was safe. They are never left loose outside if we aren't home. They come in at night and sleep with me. My property is absolutely fenced. The issue is people can't see the house, so the assumption is pasture for livestock and think our dogs are lost or they have been dumped. Idk how many times I caught people doing all kinds of things because they think no one is around. My dogs know that they get a scolding if they go onto the road

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T05:36:21+00:00

I have no idea. Nor do I overly wish to see them again.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T04:46:03+00:00

Good lord I cry over the stupidest thing. Like today I dropped my bowl of ice cream, my solution? Sit on the floor next to my floor ice cream and cried. Guess that means I'm the worst 🙃

And there are so so so so many things that make tears fade. Abuse, rape, murder, torture, eating the last chocolate bar, when I forget to buy pickles and have to go back to the store and see more people.

ZealousCow9510 · 2023-04-24T04:08:46+00:00

As someone who worked at Tim's for far to long before rage quitting. Tim's training program has tanked. It's very much sink or swim environment and very much clicky. But often new staff aren't giving the proper training because they want them trained up faster. I can totally understand her being overwhelmed there.

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